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not revealing until 12 weeks but I have a dilemma...

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haveasecret
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Renee

not revealing until 12 weeks but I have a dilemma...

DH and I are not telling anyone about the pregnancy until 12 weeks.
I am 8 weeks today.
My dilemma is that I see a Nutritionist every 2 weeks (for other issues.) So I obviously have to tell her.
This may sound stupid, but I feel bad that I am telling her and not my own family!
She is a medical professional so there is a need to tell her.
Is this just dumb of me?

Posted 9/4/08 9:38 AM
 
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JenBenMen
party of five

Member since 9/06

11343 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: not revealing until 12 weeks but I have a dilemma...

just tell her--my gyno knew before my mom---it doesnt matter

Posted 9/4/08 9:40 AM
 

want2beamom
Love my boys soooo much!!!

Member since 8/06

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True love doesn't end with happily ever after...

Re: not revealing until 12 weeks but I have a dilemma...

It may be crazy, but I would feel the same way...I have a thing with telling family first too...

Posted 9/4/08 9:40 AM
 

MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!

Member since 5/06

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Name:
Marisa

Re: not revealing until 12 weeks but I have a dilemma...

Think of it like telling your doctor -
You HAVE to tell her for your medical health -

Posted 9/4/08 9:48 AM
 

NinaLemon
It's a boy!!!

Member since 10/07

6453 total posts

Name:
Jeannine

Re: not revealing until 12 weeks but I have a dilemma...

I can understand that it feels wierd, but you have to tell her. I had to tell my dentist before anyone else knew, it was kinda weird to be congratulated by my dentist before my parents knew Chat Icon

Posted 9/4/08 10:06 AM
 

GraciesMom
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Member since 7/05

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Re: not revealing until 12 weeks but I have a dilemma...

Thats nothing, you need to tell her. The cable guy new before my family.Chat Icon

Posted 9/4/08 10:08 AM
 

randella
Love my little man

Member since 8/05

16290 total posts

Name:
Randi

Re: not revealing until 12 weeks but I have a dilemma...

honestly-- that's silly.

I had to tell the dentist, among other strangers before people knew.

Also, you don't want to waste $$ on a session that could be more beneficial to you and your baby if you just fessed up.

Posted 9/4/08 10:36 AM
 
 

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