Just as I suspected...

remember back in December when I said DH's aunt called to wish him a happy birthday and he foolishly mentioned to her that we were TTC and were suffering from IF and had just gone thru our first IUI... anyway, while at my ILs house today I saw an invitation on the fridge, for DH's cousin's child's christening. It's this Sunday, and there's a celebration afterwards.
For her shower, I was sent my own invitation to our house. This time- zip. Usually if we don't get invitations (and sometimes even when we do), my ILs ALWAYS let us know ahead of time to make sure we're attending. This time - nothing.
So I have the feeling that DH's aunt mentioned to DH's cousin's mom that we're having 'issues'--- plus another one of DHs cousins found out... b/c my ILs told her (she had problems as well and now has 5 kids, of which 4 were thru IVF and then the last one naturally)...
I somehow feel like we're being excluded, as not to step on our toes. Not that I'm complaining, b/c I would give my right arm to NOT have to go- but I just never thought we'd be outed... just had to share...

Re: Just as I suspected...

Well, I gotta say I'm happy and sad for you. I would love to not have to go to one of those functions, it just su cks that its not by your choice.

Re: Just as I suspected...

count it as a blessing.