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BaroqueMama
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Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
Before I met JT, I dated this guy for almost 4 years (17-21). For the first year, he was AWESOME. He adored me and took me out to dinner and treated me great. However, about a year later, I found out that he was bi-polar. That would have been fine, only he took himself off of his medication and became violent and abusive. I'm not going to go into the whole story, but it was ups and downs and craziness for the next 2 and a half to three years. Finally, it all ended after he threatened to kill my family and the police had to drag him from my front porch in handcuffs. Well, actually, THAT didn't end it, what happened was he kept calling and harrassing me, and FINALLY my dad got him on the phone and told him he needed to leave me alone, that he needed to just understand it was all over. For some reason, he had a ridiculous amount of respect for my dad, and never called me again. Well...............
Last night, the dreaded happened. I almost walked smack into him at a carnival. I was so stunned, I thought I was going to throw up. Every, single fear I had when I was with him came rushing back to me, and I didn't know what to do. He had a baby with him, and I managed to get out, "Is that yours?" And he just nodded yes and stared crazily at me with his eyes wide. JT was getting food with one of our friends, and I was with a few other friends, and he just kept staring at me for like 15 minutes while we waited for JT and our friend. FINALLY when JT came over, he walked away. But the whole time he was walking away, he had that crazy stare on his face and was watching me. I just kept praying he would leave, and he finally did. I'm just hoping he doesn't know my married name (we still have a mutual friend). I'm still so terrified of him. He is really crazy. The stories I have about him, I don't even believe they happened sometimes. I'm sorry. I just needed to get that off my chest. I still feel ill over it
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
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| Posted 9/3/05 10:11 AM |
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05mommy09
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
Awwww
Thank God its over!!!!!
I hate running into people esp. people that I have neg. memories of... I always get that scared nervous feeling...
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| Posted 9/3/05 10:14 AM |
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DonnaJoe708
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
Sorry to hear this.
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| Posted 9/3/05 10:20 AM |
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MrsJ
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
That really s*cks. I hope you told your DH the story and that he was there.
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| Posted 9/3/05 10:39 AM |
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dooodles
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
What a situation to find yourself in.
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| Posted 9/3/05 10:43 AM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
Posted by kelleherkm
That really s*cks. I hope you told your DH the story and that he was there.
Of course! JT has known all the stories from very early in our relationship. And as soon as he came over, I whispered that my crazy ex was there. JT just put his arm around me and said we weren't going anywhere because why should a psycho rule our lives. JT is awesome and would do anythign to make sure I'm safe Hence why I'm so happy I married him!
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| Posted 9/3/05 10:44 AM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
awww I am sorry you had to go through that!here are lots of hugs for you.
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| Posted 9/3/05 10:47 AM |
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Lichi
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
Wow, I'm sorry that you ran into him... I just hope that you don't have to run into him again. 
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| Posted 9/3/05 11:02 AM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
Thanks. It's been a good five years since I've run into him, and I hope to go another five without seeing him again!
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| Posted 9/3/05 11:07 AM |
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bklyngirl
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| Posted 9/3/05 11:38 AM |
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
I know that feeling where it all comes rushing back .....one of my exes and I had a relationship I would like to forget and last Christmas I thought I saw him while I was shopping and I actually had started gagging and almost threw up(turns out it wasnt him)
Hopefully he just never learns your married name
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| Posted 9/3/05 11:54 AM |
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Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
YIKES!!
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| Posted 9/3/05 12:53 PM |
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alisunshine
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Re: Had a run-in last night with someone I never wanted to see again(long).
Sorry....that was actually me last fri. Similar thing happened. It was terrible 
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