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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
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LB
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anyone's DH get... shy?
sorry if TMI:
DH and i aren't really trying with OPKs or anything like that, just BDing about every other day... and i though i might be Oing today or yesterday, so i wanted to BD last night. we were both tired, but i "convinced" him to BD anyway... and let's just say while he didn't "lose it" we didn't exactly achieve what we were hoping (as in, he didn't finish). of course, i felt bad for "forcing" him to BD and he felt bad for what didn't happen...
of course i want to try and BD again tonight but now i am afraid it won't work again... and if it doesn't we might be out this month. it's only month two but still, frustrating.
anyone else have any problems like this?
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Posted 10/31/07 9:42 AM  |
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-BabyMiracle-
When will my ship come in?
Member since 9/07 1056 total posts
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J
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Re: anyone's DH get... shy?
Yes and I think its because DH is thinking about it too much instead of just relaxing. I am trying to help convince him otherwise but its hard!
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| Posted 10/31/07 10:07 AM |
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XcalystaX
Sooo Sleep Deprived....
Member since 7/06 2742 total posts
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S
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Re: anyone's DH get... shy?
I think that is totally normal. I try not to mention anything to DH so that he isn't thinking about. I just seduce him when I think I am Oing.
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| Posted 10/31/07 10:19 AM |
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mikeswife06
Drama Momma
Member since 9/06 9947 total posts
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Anne
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Re: anyone's DH get... shy?
Lots of men crack under pressure so i would try to take the pressure out of it. I have a strong feeling my DH will be this way to when we are really TTC. Good luck tonight
  
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| Posted 10/31/07 10:51 AM |
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diva7531
My Peanut
Member since 2/07 5199 total posts
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Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!
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Re: anyone's DH get... shy?
YES! DH doesn't want it to be a "job"! So I don't think I am going to tell him anymore when I O!
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| Posted 10/31/07 12:51 PM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
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LB
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Re: anyone's DH get... shy?
thanks everyone... that actually makes perfect sense. DH has no idea what a woman's cycle is yet so i guess next time i just won't tell him when i am Oing.
hopefully the BDing we did do worked, if not, for next month!
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| Posted 11/1/07 10:52 AM |
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sfp0701
Liam's Mommy!
Member since 1/07 9764 total posts
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Tricia
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Re: anyone's DH get... shy?
Yup.. it sucks.. The pressure really affects them. We have many an argument over this... Just perform dammit!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 11/1/07 3:41 PM |
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