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MrsSchwags
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So Upset
My BIL watchs DC 3 days a week.
I have been very uneasy when I come home from work.
I set up my video camera and am watching the footage.
1) He is constantly yelling and cursing
2) He layed on the loach the entire time on his laptop barely moving or checking on the kids.
3) My daughter must have climbed on something and got stuck so she whined, he yelled at her, picked her up and throw her on the couch calling her an "Fin Idiot"
4) He is missing for over 160 minutes. My daughter and son are by themselves in the living room. Plus there are a few times they are playing with wires and things they shouldnt have been
I'm not done watching this. I am so upset i am shaking. I dont know what to do
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Posted 9/12/08 6:04 PM  |
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Re: So Upset
Time to get a new babysitter.
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:07 PM |
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shellybean
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Re: So Upset
omg well your instinct was right....get someone else...holy crap
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:09 PM |
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MyChip-n-Dales
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Re: So Upset
OMG!!!!
thats all i can say!!!!!
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:11 PM |
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michele31
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Re: So Upset
You need to NOT leave your children with this man. period. How old is your BIL? I am not sure if he is your sister's husband or your husband's brother but I cannot imagine how your DH will feel about this.
I would call your boss and tell him what is going on and that you need to find a new sitter. Can you work at all from home for a few days to find one? Where do you live? Maybe we can help you find a new place.
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:14 PM |
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nickipa
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Re: So Upset
Wow!! Definitely time to find someone new!! I am sorry you are having to deal with this, it must be even harder bc its family.
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:15 PM |
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shellybean
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Re: So Upset
how old are your lil ones
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:15 PM |
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MrsSchwags
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Re: So Upset
MY BIL is my DH's brother. He is 18 and in college. He wanted to do this to make money to pay for his car.
My DC are 1 and 2.
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:17 PM |
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KristinasMama
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Re: So Upset
OMG.... are you ok???
What are the kids reactions when they see him? Do they get upset?
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:18 PM |
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Kotka
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:19 PM |
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MrsSchwags
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Re: So Upset
not normally.
but i am not there when he comes. i am already at work.
i mean my daughter is quick to say bye to him.
my stomach is turning. it was almost 3 hours that he was no where to be found.
i don't know what we are going to do.
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:20 PM |
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EmmaNick
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Re: So Upset
OMG How awful!!! I would fire him immediately and never let him around your children again!! I'm so sorry
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:21 PM |
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KristinasMama
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Re: So Upset
Posted by MrsSchwags
not normally.
but i am not there when he comes. i am already at work.
i mean my daughter is quick to say bye to him.
my stomach is turning. it was almost 3 hours that he was no where to be found.
i don't know what we are going to do.
have you spoken to your husband yet? Where do you live? Maybe one of us can help out with a reco for sitting with the kids?!
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:21 PM |
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MrsSchwags
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Re: So Upset
we spoke briefly about the things that bother me.
he didnt know i set up the camera.
when he gets home we are going to talk.
i'm out in coram/middle island.
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:24 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: So Upset
OMG 3 hours. OMG....anything could have happened. You sound a little bit calm though, besides the obvious shaking and nerves. I think I would be at his house beating him to a pulp for that type of care.
I PRAY that you stop this ASAP, no more, not another second.
I hop eyou can find someone else and its not difficult to switch.
you poor thing and your poor babies 
Have you told your DH yet?
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:24 PM |
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karacg
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Re: So Upset
Wow -- just - wow. I feel so badly that this has happened -- and a family member no less.
Family or not, fire him and find someone else. And keep the camera set up!
If you need help until then, let me know. I know a woman near me who babysits from her house.
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:27 PM |
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DancinBarefoot
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Re: So Upset
Posted by MrsSchwags
we spoke briefly about the things that bother me.
he didnt know i set up the camera.
when he gets home we are going to talk.
i'm out in coram/middle island.
I'm in Pt Jeff. I work P/T, but could help one day a week until you get something permanent.
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:28 PM |
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KristinasMama
How did she turn 2 so quickly?
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Re: So Upset
I wish I knew someone out there for you....
How terrible..... Please keep us updated!
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:28 PM |
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shellybean
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Re: So Upset
well thank go nothing happened and your children are safe, thak god for that!
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:30 PM |
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MrsSchwags
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Re: So Upset
Posted by dm24angel
OMG 3 hours. OMG....anything could have happened. You sound a little bit calm though, besides the obvious shaking and nerves. I think I would be at his house beating him to a pulp for that type of care.
I PRAY that you stop this ASAP, no more, not another second.
I hop eyou can find someone else and its not difficult to switch.
you poor thing and your poor babies
Have you told your DH yet?
he is almost home from work. i couldnt even talk to him on the phone. because i want to show him as i tell him.
i am definitely not calm he is lucky he doesnt live near by and next time i see him he is going to hear it. and im sure my MIL will do the same
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:30 PM |
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nancy6485
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:32 PM |
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4monkeys
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Re: So Upset
Oh goodness how heartbreaking, how scaryl! Thank God for mother's instinct.
Tell us where you live so we can help you find someone.
Im sure you will continue to follow your heart and your instinct and never leave him with your children again.
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:32 PM |
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KristinasMama
How did she turn 2 so quickly?
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Re: So Upset
I would be willing to help also, as I'm home with Kristina all day every day...
Is Hicksville very far from you?
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:33 PM |
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dm24angel
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Re: So Upset
Posted by MrsSchwags
Posted by dm24angel
OMG 3 hours. OMG....anything could have happened. You sound a little bit calm though, besides the obvious shaking and nerves. I think I would be at his house beating him to a pulp for that type of care.
I PRAY that you stop this ASAP, no more, not another second.
I hop eyou can find someone else and its not difficult to switch.
you poor thing and your poor babies
Have you told your DH yet?
he is almost home from work. i couldnt even talk to him on the phone. because i want to show him as i tell him.
i am definitely not calm he is lucky he doesnt live near by and next time i see him he is going to hear it. and im sure my MIL will do the same
yeah thats the best thing to do.
You dont think he will stick up for his brother do you? That would make me sooo mad. I hope he understands
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| Posted 9/12/08 6:34 PM |
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nbc188
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Re: So Upset
 I would be LIVID!!!!!!!
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