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Doesn't every 11 year old girl need....

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Bops
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Re: Doesn't every 11 year old girl need....

Posted by legallyblonde

Okay, after reading that article and your's and lucky's posts, I'm not going to complain about BM anymore (well, not as much!Chat Icon ). I feel so bad for you guys. I can't imagine how hard it must be for you to deal. I would be so resentful and hurt. I can NOT believe she handed that album back to you. What a sicko!

How far do you live from each other?



We live about 20 minutes from her- How sad is that, my DH's and DS's flesh and blood living practically around the block and not seeing her- horribleChat Icon

Yes, please feel fortunate that you don't deal with PAS- The $ part and the manipulation from BM is one thing, but when the relationship with the child is at stake, its a whole 'nother story and not one that is in our control- it takes a path all its own ...

Posted 10/17/08 4:42 PM
 

Lucky2008
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Chris

Re: Doesn't every 11 year old girl need....

Bops, we totally live parallel lives....DH and I just recently got married and BM tried everything possible to prevent SD from participating. The week of our wedding BM and her boyfriend were calling our house harrassing us, then come the day of the wedding, SD was in a bad mood, was pouting and rude to everyone and not cooperative at all(we are sure her mother pumped her up with negativity) and when we came back from our honeymoon, there were papers on our door suing for full custody of SD.

oh boy, we could on and on but at least I know that I am not alone, all of you ladies have dealt with this unpleasant stuff, it is at least nice to know that we can vent to others who understand.

to answer someone's question, SD lives in NYC we are in Suffolk County - that makes it difficult with visitation too.

Posted 10/17/08 4:49 PM
 

Lucky2008
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Chris

Re: Doesn't every 11 year old girl need....

Yes, the PAS is very real and I didn't know what it was until recently and I was like Chat Icon this is DH's exwife!! It is horrible and the people that suffers the most are the child and the alienated parent. My DH is non-confrontational too sometimes I can't believe what he lets BM get away with.

Posted 10/17/08 4:55 PM
 
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