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Baby c-UPDATE 3-second opinion

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NYCGirl80
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE

Posted by PennyCat

I'm so sorry you're in this position. I'd start by scheduling another opinion so that regardless of the decision you make, you know that it's the most informed one.Chat Icon



Exactly what I was going to say.

Posted 3/30/17 12:27 PM
 
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MrsKR88
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE

I also agree with a bunch of the pp. I would seek a second opinion and also ask if it is an option to wait a few more weeks until viability and maybe deliver early. I am so sorry that you are in this position. Chat Icon

Posted 3/30/17 12:48 PM
 

lightblue
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE

I am so sorry. How far along are you? I agree with others in getting a second opinion.

Posted 3/30/17 1:54 PM
 

MemorialDayBride12
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE

Posted by FTM427

So sorry that you have to go through this and think about these options. How far are you? Is the Dr saying that you need to decide quickly or can you wait a bit and see what happens and then make the decision if it comes to that in a few weeks?




I'm 21 and a half weeks. They want me to make the decison sooner rather than later. If we decide to terminate which im against, then it has to be done before 24 weeks.

Posted 3/30/17 1:56 PM
 

ANewDayHasCome
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Baby c-UPDATE

Would they let you go until 26/30 weeks and then induce early? Would you be able to save baby C? Or they don't recommend that.

Posted 3/30/17 2:32 PM
 

petvet
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE

So sorry you are going through this

Posted 3/30/17 2:47 PM
 

MrsS2005
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE

How many opinions have you had so far? I'm so sorry you're faced with this. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Chat Icon

Posted 3/30/17 2:48 PM
 

MemorialDayBride12
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE 2

I called and made a second opinion for tomorrow at Philadelphia Children's Hospital which is supposed to be the best in the country for this type of situation. I have to be there tomorrow at 7:30am and be there pretty much all day because they are going to do a fetal eco cardiogram as well as their own ultrasound on triplets which they say is as least 2-3 hours if not more. Then I will meet with the doctors about 3 or 4pm to discuss results.

I'm glad i'm getting a second opinion even if its going to be more bad news, I know that I tried everything possible. I have even tried to eat more protein since Tuesday when finding this out and I have been trying to rest as much as I can. I'm devasted and so is my husband. No parent should ever have to be in a situation where they have to choose which baby to save or not Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/30/17 6:49 PM
 

MemorialDayBride12
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

bump for update 2..second opinion

Message edited 3/30/2017 6:51:19 PM.

Posted 3/30/17 6:50 PM
 

BabyBearA
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Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

You're absolutely right, no one should ever have to go through this and I'm so sorry you are in this situation. I'm glad you're getting a second opinion and I will continue to pray for you and those babies.

Posted 3/30/17 7:35 PM
 

bunnyluck
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Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

So sorry again. I'm praying that you receive some positive news tomorrow.

Posted 3/30/17 7:35 PM
 

MrsM429
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I am so sorry you and DH are going through this Chat Icon

Posted 3/30/17 7:48 PM
 

phoenix913
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. Just terrible. I think it's good you are getting a second opinion and I'm praying that have different news for you. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/30/17 8:09 PM
 

LuckyStar
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Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

CHOP is amazing and will do everything in their power to save your little peanut.

I'm so sorry, you're in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted 3/30/17 8:11 PM
 

aim
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

I'll be praying for you!

Posted 3/30/17 8:49 PM
 

ANewDayHasCome
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Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

You're absolutely right. No parent should ever have to make a decision like this. I'm happy you're getting a second opinion and by the best in the country. You're doing everything you can. You're already a great mother

Thinking of you.

Posted 3/30/17 9:18 PM
 

ali120206
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Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

I'm sorry you are going through all of this. I can't imagine the possibility of making a decision like that.

I'm thinking of you and praying that CHOP has a better answer.

Posted 3/30/17 9:52 PM
 

PitterPatter11
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

Chat Icon praying for you and your family

Posted 3/31/17 6:29 AM
 

LiveForMoments
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

CHOP is amazing.

I will continue to pray for you and your family.

You are doing everything you can for your babies, more than many others would in your situation. You are amazing. Do your best to remember that.

Posted 3/31/17 7:40 AM
 

mommy2be716
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Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

Good luck today. So Sorry to hear that this is happening to you

Posted 3/31/17 8:20 AM
 

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Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

Thinking of you and your family today.

Posted 3/31/17 8:44 AM
 

KStarfish82
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Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

Prayers are positive thoughts are with you today.

Posted 3/31/17 9:09 AM
 

NYCGirl80
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You're right, no parent should ever have to make this decision, but know that you are doing everything in your power to save all 3 babies.

I'm glad you got an appt there so quickly. My prayers are with you.

Posted 3/31/17 9:39 AM
 

FilledWithLove
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Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

Sending you lots of prayers! Please don't loose hope!
Thinking of you!
xo

Posted 3/31/17 11:12 AM
 

ready2go
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Re: Baby c-UPDATE 2-second opinion

Thinking of you today!

Posted 3/31/17 1:19 PM
 
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