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bikramaddict
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update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
DH gave into the curiosity and we got a BFP!!
'm due for AF on 8/30, so I'll learn this month's outcome soon but I have a feeling I'm neg. and I'm so disappointed.
I got white discharge a few days after ovulating and this weekend tender breasts, which I started to notice since TTC that this happens the week before AF.
This will be month 3 for us. The first one I kind of don't even count because we were under soooooo much stress (it was the month before our wedding). I know that's not a long time to be TTC but I really, really thought it would happen fast for us.
ETA: more discharge yesterday. That's new. Usually it's only a few days after OV and then that's it. I'm trying not to read into it though. I don't want to test yet.
ETA again: getting a def answer is killing me! AF is due on Sunday. I'm ready to take a test now. But DH doesn't want me to so I'm respecting his wishes. Ahhhhhh
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Re: I think this is not going to be my month
Trust me, I know the feeling. It took us 10 months to conceive and each month was such a disappointment. And even TEN months isn't that long of a time. I know it's impossible, but try not to stress it too much. Your time will come. 
And you're not out until AF shows up!
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| Posted 8/24/15 9:56 AM |
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Teach723
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Re: I think this is not going to be my month
Posted by bikramaddict
I'm due for AF on 8/30, so I'll learn this month's outcome soon but I have a feeling I'm neg. and I'm so disappointed.
I got white discharge a few days after ovulating and this weekend tender breasts, which I started to notice since TTC that this happens the week before AF.
This will be month 3 for us. The first one I kind of don't even count because we were under soooooo much stress (it was the month before our wedding). I know that's not a long time to be TTC but I really, really thought it would happen fast for us.
You're not out til AF shows, so don't get down. Pregnancy and AF symptoms seem to be the same so don't give up yet. Good luck!!!
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HomeIsWithU
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Re: I think this is not going to be my month
Don't give up hope...AF isn't here yet!
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| Posted 8/24/15 10:50 AM |
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Chai77
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Re: I think this is not going to be my month
I'm in the same boat as you. AF is due around 8/29, and I am testing BFN. I know it's early, but i have a feeling I'm out. It sucks. 
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ElizaRags35
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I think this is not going to be my month
It took 2.5 years to have DD1. I was convinced almost every single month I was pregnant and never was. The month I was sure I was out was the month I finally got pregnant. Now I'm due in a week with her baby sister. So, you never know! Good luck!
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bikramaddict
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Re: I think this is not going to be my month
Posted by ElizaRags35
It took 2.5 years to have DD1. I was convinced almost every single month I was pregnant and never was. The month I was sure I was out was the month I finally got pregnant. Now I'm due in a week with her baby sister. So, you never know! Good luck!
I know that feeling. Last month I was SO sure I was pregnant. Completely shocked when I wasn't.
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Momma2015
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Re: I think this is not going to be my month
Posted by bikramaddict
Posted by ElizaRags35
It took 2.5 years to have DD1. I was convinced almost every single month I was pregnant and never was. The month I was sure I was out was the month I finally got pregnant. Now I'm due in a week with her baby sister. So, you never know! Good luck!
I know that feeling. Last month I was SO sure I was pregnant. Completely shocked when I wasn't.
Ditto. That's how I felt when I tested in July. I was SO sure of it- tracked ovulation, did everything right, period was a day late already, BFN. Then August I just tested because I had the tests and I was up early with a full bladder.  I did NOT expect the BFP. It always seems to come when it's least expected!
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bringonababy
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Re: I think this is not going to be my month
I cried hysterically 4 days before I got my BFP because I was sure we were out for the month (I had a lot of blood) and started to think it might take us a while to get pregnant. I had all the symptoms of AF except the bleeding didn't last and didn't come back. We got our BFP just about a month ago.
So don't give up yet!
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| Posted 8/26/15 11:29 AM |
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Dani
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Re: I think this is not going to be my month
i tested about 5 days before my missed period and got a bfp.
if its driving you crazy, i would test. sometimes seeing anything, even if it's nothing, is better than waiting.
if it's negative, you could always test again after a missed period, you know? the waiting is what made me crazy. i spent a lot on tests but it helped keep me together lol!
good luck!
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| Posted 8/28/15 9:00 AM |
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bikramaddict
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Re: I think this is not going to be my month
Posted by Dani
i tested about 5 days before my missed period and got a bfp.
if its driving you crazy, i would test. sometimes seeing anything, even if it's nothing, is better than waiting.
if it's negative, you could always test again after a missed period, you know? the waiting is what made me crazy. i spent a lot on tests but it helped keep me together lol!
good luck!
DH asked me not to. He asked me to please wait until Monday (AF due Sunday). He hates all the science that's part of  like ovulation tests and such. I thought about testing this am when I woke up, but I want to respect his wishes. I don't understand them at all, but if it makes him happy for me to wait then I will.
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TyReseGreen
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Re: update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
Congrats!
Please change your sad face emoji to a 
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| Posted 8/29/15 8:02 AM |
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Teach723
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Re: update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
Awww! Great update! Congrats!!!!
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Dani
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Re: update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
ahhh!!!! congrats!!!!
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| Posted 8/29/15 1:25 PM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
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Re: update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
Yeh
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| Posted 8/29/15 2:02 PM |
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bringonababy
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update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
Amazing! Congrats!
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| Posted 8/30/15 6:03 PM |
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jellybean78
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Re: update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
Congrats!!!
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| Posted 8/30/15 7:24 PM |
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MrsP23
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update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
Congrats!
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BabyBearA
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update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
Congrats!!
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july4mrsO
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update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
Yay! Very happy to read this update, congrats!!!
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J9-13
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Re: update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
 Ahh congrats!!!
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Momma2015
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Re: update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
SEE?! It's not over til it's over!!! Congrats!! Happy and healthy 9 months!
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HomeIsWithU
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Re: update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
Yay!!! Congrats!!!!
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phoenix913
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Re: update - BFP!! I think this is not going to be my month
Congrats!
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