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wannabamommy
LIF Infant
Member since 6/10 336 total posts
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Devasted
Went in today at 5w3d for a sono.well turns out i have an ectopic pregnancy (its stuck in my left tube) i have to go in tomorrow for an injection to terminate the pregnancy and might lose my left tube.
i'm devasted and broken and can't stop crying...
How do you girls get through this?
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Posted 8/25/11 9:21 AM  |
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heather10292010
Gonna be a big sister
Member since 12/10 1749 total posts
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Heather
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Re: Devasted
I am so sorry for your loss. I don't have experience with ectopic -- just a missed miscarriage and d&c at 8w4d.
We are all here for you and sending you tons of 
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| Posted 8/25/11 9:31 AM |
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Megs4
LIF Adult
Member since 11/08 1619 total posts
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Megan
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Re: Devasted
I'm so sorry.
It takes time... that is the only thing that helps, unfortunately.
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| Posted 8/25/11 9:31 AM |
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Chai77
Brighter days ahead
Member since 4/07 7364 total posts
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Re: Devasted
I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this.
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| Posted 8/25/11 9:38 AM |
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FLS2011
LIF Infant
Member since 8/11 282 total posts
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Re: Devasted
I'm so sorry! As pp mentioned, giving yourself time is one of the best things. I also found it extremely helpful to only surround myself with people who were really understanding, as being around negative vibes or people who you are not close to peppering you with annoying questions just made me feel worse.
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| Posted 8/25/11 9:57 AM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
Member since 6/10 21536 total posts
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Stacey
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Re: Devasted
I'm so so so sorry. And honestly the only thing that's kept me "sane" is this board.
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| Posted 8/25/11 10:09 AM |
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soccer1981
LIF Infant
Member since 5/11 301 total posts
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Re: Devasted
I am so sorry for you loss sending lots of and  to you
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| Posted 8/25/11 12:15 PM |
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Deenintendo
LIF Adolescent
Member since 6/11 847 total posts
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Re: Devasted
so sorry for your loss...i just had a miscarriage a week ago at 9 weeks...i still cant use to the fact that im no longer pregnant....sending your way
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| Posted 8/25/11 12:52 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
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Ang
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Re: Devasted
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| Posted 8/25/11 1:01 PM |
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beachgirl
LIF Adult
Member since 7/05 7967 total posts
Name:
sara
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Re: Devasted
I am so sorry for your loss. I had a missed miscarriage at 10 weeks
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| Posted 8/25/11 2:11 PM |
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ModDot
PUMPKIN ALL THE THINGS
Member since 8/11 2196 total posts
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Trissy
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Re: Devasted
I'm so sorry! You'll get through it, it's true time heals all wounds. It's been about 7 months or so and it's better than it was but I was a mess for the first month. Just let yourself grieve
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| Posted 8/25/11 2:43 PM |
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AyBeeBee
LIF Zygote
Member since 5/11 26 total posts
Name:
AB
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Re: Devasted
I am so sorry.
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| Posted 8/25/11 3:37 PM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!
Member since 10/05 29450 total posts
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Diana
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Re: Devasted
I am so sorry! Take the time that you need for your body to heal. Time will ease the pain too, I know you don't think so now but it will. Many many hugs! 
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| Posted 8/25/11 7:52 PM |
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MrsKelly
just hangin' around...
Member since 11/06 6305 total posts
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Krista
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Re: Devasted
Posted by FLS2011
I'm so sorry! As pp mentioned, giving yourself time is one of the best things. I also found it extremely helpful to only surround myself with people who were really understanding, as being around negative vibes or people who you are not close to peppering you with annoying questions just made me feel worse.
i agree.
the only thing that helps has been talking to people who can truly relate to what i did/am going through.
i didn't have an ectopic, so i cannot offer any advice, just - we are all here for you. i am so, so sorry for your loss and what you are going through.
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| Posted 8/25/11 8:54 PM |
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wannabamommy
LIF Infant
Member since 6/10 336 total posts
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Re: Devasted
thanks everyone.. i'm still in shock and completely confused about everything
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| Posted 8/25/11 9:22 PM |
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LoveBug302
Baby Girl #2 is Here!
Member since 7/11 1652 total posts
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Re: Devasted
I am very very sorry for your loss. My m/c is still new and I am still confused too. It is completely normal for you to feel a bunch of mixed emotions right now. We are all here for your if you need to chat. Hang in there ! Hugs and prayers to you and your dh during this sad time
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| Posted 8/25/11 9:48 PM |
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MST9106
My life:)
Member since 6/06 9589 total posts
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Re: Devasted
So sorry you're going through this...I had an ectopic as well but I miscarried very early on. There was no sign of pregnancy in my uterus and a small void in my left tube what looked like an empty gestational sack...I was very lucky and I passed the tissue on my own.
Its so hard to deal with this and you have to pick yourself up and move up but allow yourself to mourn as well. Cry if you need to and let out your emotions. This board is incredibly supportive as we all went through what you're going through at one point and we know the feeling exactly. 
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| Posted 8/30/11 1:07 PM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!
Member since 10/05 29450 total posts
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Diana
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Re: Devasted
I didn't have an ectopic so I don't know how that feels but I do know that time will heal your wounds. You'll never forget being pregnant but you will eventually be able to move on.
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| Posted 8/30/11 1:34 PM |
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