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I just have a "feeling"...
EVERY FRIGGIN' MONTH.  I wish I wasn't so optimistic each month because it just makes the BFN's harder. I can't do this anymore. It's been almost a year of TTC...11 months, 12 cycles.
I've gone for all the tests - everything is "working right." I've been begging DH to get an SA for 6 months and we KNOW he already has an issue.
Sorry for the vent. I just feel helpless right now. 
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LKDRNW
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
I have no words other than I am sorry that you are going through this
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| Posted 6/17/10 12:12 PM |
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Aubreysmommy
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
I'm sorry and I know how you feel. I just hit a year of TTC this month.
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| Posted 6/17/10 12:35 PM |
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RGEC47
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
I am sorry you are feeling down and I can definitely relate. We're going on 2 years. I know that some days are harder than others but what keeps me going is knowing that it will happen. So try to stay positive, although I know that it is easier said than done.
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| Posted 6/17/10 1:17 PM |
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angel333
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
I hope you finally convince your DH to get his SA done. It takes 2 to make a baby 
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| Posted 6/17/10 1:35 PM |
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mimid15
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
Posted by WishingforBaby
EVERY FRIGGIN' MONTH. I wish I wasn't so optimistic each month because it just makes the BFN's harder. I can't do this anymore. It's been almost a year of TTC...11 months, 12 cycles.
I've gone for all the tests - everything is "working right." I've been begging DH to get an SA for 6 months and we KNOW he already has an issue.
Sorry for the vent. I just feel helpless right now.
Im right there with ya!! Every month I just set myself up for disappointment thinking this is the month...Im about to go into my 10th month...My DH did get a SA done you need to drag him there and get it done!!
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| Posted 6/17/10 2:02 PM |
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
hope you can convince your DH to go!!
and just sending a  your way ..
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| Posted 6/17/10 2:38 PM |
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duchess9678
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
Posted by WishingforBaby
EVERY FRIGGIN' MONTH. I wish I wasn't so optimistic each month because it just makes the BFN's harder. I can't do this anymore. It's been almost a year of TTC...11 months, 12 cycles.
I've gone for all the tests - everything is "working right." I've been begging DH to get an SA for 6 months and we KNOW he already has an issue.
Sorry for the vent. I just feel helpless right now.
It all just sux, I'm sorry I have no words of wisdom just know I'm thinking of you 
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| Posted 6/17/10 3:13 PM |
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
Sorry to hear you feel like that... I hope it works out for you soon...
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| Posted 6/17/10 4:07 PM |
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SummerMom
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
TTC can be so mentally tough. Hang in there. If you know you and DH are healthy/ready to go, and you're bd'ing the right times of the month, it will happen for you.
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| Posted 6/17/10 6:23 PM |
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
Thanks ladies. I know the tough days come and go and this too shall pass. I just needed somewhere to let this out because no one IRL understands.
Tomorrow is a new day...
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| Posted 6/17/10 6:28 PM |
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babylove628
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
I'm so sorry you are going through this but honestly I think it's time DH steps up to the plate and gets a SA. He could have something that can be taken care of or they could do IUIs for you to get pregnant.
Do you know why he isn't willing to get it done? Do you think it will happen when it's supposed to? I'm so sorry about all of this, it gets so frustrating.
Just a sidenote, DH wasnt on the same page with me at first when I wanted to TTC, but 2 m/cs later he said he will do whatever he has to do and I will do whatever I have to do so we can have a baby. Best of luck to you
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| Posted 6/17/10 6:41 PM |
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Re: I just have a "feeling"...
DH is on board with "wanting" to start a family. He gets disappointed too but not to the point where he DOES something.
He agreed to go to the doctor...but even the urologist who specializes in fertility issues doesn't know anything about his "issue." He said he would go for an SA awhile ago but he just hasn't done it....there's always an excuse that ends in an argument. That makes all of this that much harder.
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| Posted 6/17/10 7:29 PM |
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