Encouraging DH?

After TTC for 6 months, I want DH to go for SA. We already know that there is an underlying factor (his) that are causing problems for us. He said previously he would be willing to go, but now that it's time, he seems apprehensive. Meanwhile, I am scheduling a HSG and fertility labs for myself.

So, for those of you that have had DH go for SA..did they willingly go?? If not, what did you do?

Re: Encouraging DH?

He is probably just hesitant because he's worried that something will come back in the negative. I'm sure giving him some reassurance that even if that does happen that you won't think it's his "fault" and that it's better that you both know so that you can be proactive in doing whatever can be done to help your chances will make him feel more comfortable and more likely to get it done.

Good luck!

Re: Encouraging DH?

Thanks...I guess I should be more positive with him than I have been. I've been negative with him because we have known there would be an issue TTC'ing since before we were married that has gone unresolved which makes me very negative.