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JB1122
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Nanny Compensation Question

We are hiring a full time Nanny to take care of our DD while we are at work. We have already agreed on an hourly rate with her. Now I am wondering what people with full time nannies do in terms of vacation and sick days. Do you give any paid vacation or sick time or do you keep it to strictly an hourly schedule? What about holidays where you are off from work and therefore don't need your Nanny (e.g., Labor Day)? Thanks!

Posted 6/23/13 6:34 PM
 
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dlj97
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Nanny Compensation Question

You need to work that out with your nanny - see what her expectations are. Our arrangement is that if she asks off we don't pay her, but if we don't need her we have to pay her (including holidays). Our nanny very rarely asks for time off, so when she does we just pay her. Everyone has a different arrangement, but I suggest talking about it in advance.

Posted 6/23/13 8:02 PM
 

Ever-After
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C

Re: Nanny Compensation Question

That's definitely something to agree on (preferably in writing) before she begins just so it doesn't get uncomfortable later. Whatever you (and she) are comfortable with really.

For me, I babysit a 1 yr old 3X a week and I charge by day/week rather than hours. It's set up so that if he's scheduled to come and doesn't (for whatever reason) then I still charge for that day. If I have to cancel on her (like DD is sick or whatever) then I don't charge. I actually also do not charge for holidays or vacations (as long as they give me 2 wks notice) even though I know a lot of people are very generous and do give their babysitters/nannies paid holiday/vacation time. That would be a nice thing to do if you can afford it. You could also just pick & choose specific holidays if you wanted to do some but not all (like maybe just the major ones?). There's really no rules. Definitely something to be discussed though in exact detail so you all know what to expect in the first year.

Posted 6/23/13 8:34 PM
 

alexb
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

I am in the midst of interviewing nannies and from what I understand, most nannies get paid for two weeks vacation. They usually get paid for one vacation week of their choice and for another vacation of your choice (since they don't want to loose out on getting paid while the family is
away.)

I have had nannies tell me that they get compensated for 3-5 days sick days and for travel expenses as well.

We haven't hired anyone yet but I am finally realizing how expensive a nanny could be!

Posted 6/24/13 1:23 AM
 

Laurie106
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Nanny Compensation Question

We just hired someone too. one nanny had a ridiculous list of requests... contribution to her roth IRA, vacation/sick days, $20 hr, birthday pay, anniversary pay, paid summers (we're both teachers), contribution to 1/2 her medical.... needless to say we're not paying any of that! try the hamptons :)

we did hire someone and paying $15 hr or 2 kids. no vacation/sick & summers unpaid. I think those requests for an offthe book job is ludicrous!

Posted 6/24/13 6:09 AM
 

dlj97
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

Posted by Laurie106

We just hired someone too. one nanny had a ridiculous list of requests... contribution to her roth IRA, vacation/sick days, $20 hr, birthday pay, anniversary pay, paid summers (we're both teachers), contribution to 1/2 her medical.... needless to say we're not paying any of that! try the hamptons :)



That is just ridiculous!

Posted 6/24/13 7:44 AM
 

CookiePuss
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

When we had one this is what we did. She had off all holidays that we had off. She had 3 weeks of vacation time. Two weeks were our discretion and one week was her discretion. Sick time was as needed and she never took advantage of that.

Posted 6/24/13 8:58 AM
 

InShock
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

Our nanny gets 2 weeks paid vacation (Christmas week and a week in the summer when we go away). She is paid weekly based on a daily rate. Sick days are not specified, but she has never taken an excessive amount. I'm a teacher, so she gets plenty of time off, modified hours, etc ... so we have a good give and take and neither takes advantage of the other.

Posted 6/24/13 9:28 AM
 

JB1122
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

For those who give their nannies 2 weeks off - what do you about any additional time that you might take off and thus not need her to work over and above those 2 weeks? Do you pay her for it?

Posted 6/24/13 9:30 AM
 

MrsO
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Maureen

Re: Nanny Compensation Question

Posted by JB1122

For those who give their nannies 2 weeks off - what do you about any additional time that you might take off and thus not need her to work over and above those 2 weeks? Do you pay her for it?



It really depends - if we go away she gets paid because I feel bad why should be lose out because I'm taking a paid vacation. It is the same reasoning I using about holidays.
But If we aren't going away she would still come in and help around with other things.

When you have a good nanny you want to take care of them and treat them the way you would like to be treated.

Posted 6/24/13 9:47 AM
 

CSK
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

Posted by Laurie106

We just hired someone too. one nanny had a ridiculous list of requests... contribution to her roth IRA, vacation/sick days, $20 hr, birthday pay, anniversary pay, paid summers (we're both teachers), contribution to 1/2 her medical.... needless to say we're not paying any of that! try the hamptons :)

we did hire someone and paying $15 hr or 2 kids. no vacation/sick & summers unpaid. I think those requests for an offthe book job is ludicrous!




40K a year off the books with all these benefits sound excessive.

Howver, I'm not sure how unreasonable some of the "demands" are.

not directed specifically at you

does your employer contribute to your retirement, medical?
do you get vacation pay? sick pay?

I kind of find it surpising when people balk at the idea at requests that pretty much the majority of the people here get on a normal basis, but somehow when they are employing someone these are unreasonble. Its not like this is a hobby for these people, they're supporting themselves, and with a nanny pretty much exclusively off 1 family.




Posted 6/24/13 10:33 AM
 

Lina
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

Man, some of these requests are a little crazy. We had a nanny for the last year and just recently went to day care. When we had the nanny, I paid $10/hr off the books and when she didn't work, she didn't get paid. I had no problems setting up that type of system b/c when I don't work, I don't get paid. I don't get sick/vacation time so why would I offer it to someone else. JMO.

Posted 6/24/13 10:48 AM
 

ko123
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

We have a nanny 3x a week. She gets 2 "weeks" paid vacation (which comes out to 6 days since her work week is only 3 days). One week she can choose, the other week we choose. If a national holiday falls on one of her days, we pay her for it. She has never called out sick in 2.5 years, so we haven't had that issue, but would pay her for it. She has had to attend some funerals...clearly we pay her for those days. Basically...unless she wants MORE than her allotted 3 days off, she gets paid for every day.

Posted 6/24/13 11:06 AM
 

wishing2012
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

We have a full time nanny and have a contract that includes the following:

$XX for 50 hour weeks, with OT rate for an hours over 50.

Dinner when working after 8pm and taxi fare home when working after 9pm

Monthly metrocard

2 weeks paid vacation - 5 days of her choosing, 5 days or our choosing

All market holidays are paid days off. This includes MLK, President's Day, Memorial Day, July 4th, Labor Day, Columbus Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's.

We do not have a specific sick policy in place. If she's sick, she can take off without penalty. However, if this becomes an issue, we'll re-address.

Posted 6/24/13 11:27 AM
 

wishing2012
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

Posted by MrsO

When you have a good nanny you want to take care of them and treat them the way you would like to be treated.




I agree 10000000x. The way we view it is, she's taking care of the one most important thing in our lives. Thus, we always want to ensure she's happy.

Posted 6/24/13 11:30 AM
 

when
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

It's always different but what we did was give 3 weeks, paid, since that is how much vacation I had at the time. Two weeks would be of her choice ( but I needed a 2 months heads up and of couldn't conflict with my very busy season) and one week if our choice. All paid holidays were the same as ours. Sick days as needed but she never used any. Occasionally she took a day off here and there but would give me plenty of notice. We had this arrangement for 2 years and it worked out well . Good luck!

Posted 6/24/13 11:32 AM
 

KimberlyScott
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

Posted by Lina

Man, some of these requests are a little crazy. We had a nanny for the last year and just recently went to day care. When we had the nanny, I paid $10/hr off the books and when she didn't work, she didn't get paid. I had no problems setting up that type of system b/c when I don't work, I don't get paid. I don't get sick/vacation time so why would I offer it to someone else. JMO.



I did this as well.

Posted 6/24/13 1:25 PM
 

BBin2012
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

We pay our nanny for 3 weeks of vacation - 1 of those weeks she gets to pick and we will find alternative daycare. We also give her off any day we are off from work, which is a lot of holidays. She also gets 5 sick days but has never called in sick (god bless her).

My husband and I get 4 weeks of vacation so she will get more than 3 weeks + all holidays. We are just happy to have someone we trust and who DS loves.

Posted 6/24/13 3:05 PM
 

buttercup
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Re: Nanny Compensation Question

Posted by KimberlyScott

Posted by Lina

Man, some of these requests are a little crazy. We had a nanny for the last year and just recently went to day care. When we had the nanny, I paid $10/hr off the books and when she didn't work, she didn't get paid. I had no problems setting up that type of system b/c when I don't work, I don't get paid. I don't get sick/vacation time so why would I offer it to someone else. JMO.



I did this as well.



Same here. If she is a doesn't come in one day, she does not get paid. I don't nitpick, if she leaves early (which she usually does, when DH comes home early) etc.

Posted 6/24/13 4:58 PM
 
 

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