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Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

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Nik09
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Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

DS is 9.5 months and was just evaluated for early intervention but does not qualify for their services because he is above their cutoff. Their cutoff is 7%. He was 9-10% on one test for Gross Motor and 25% on a different Gross Motor test.

At this point I just don't know what to do. I plan to talk to my pediatrician about possibly getting him a referral for private PT. I'm not sure if they'll do it because medical criteria for PT is different (not sure what that means exactly - maybe a physical issue?). Anyway, I'm just not satisfied with the outcome. Basically we left with 'he'll progress, he should be crawling by 12 months. Walking by around 19 months. If not, come back.'

I will work with him at home to encourage him to move. I just can't sit here and see what happens.

I'm wondering if anyone has had a similar experiences and if you'd share any advice.'

Feel free to FM if you prefer.

TIA

Posted 6/11/13 4:13 PM
 
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lbelle821
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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

may I ask what your concerns were that you had your child evaluated?

At 9.5 months it is very hard to show that there is a delay substantial enough to warrant services. That is just an "in general" statement.

We had my son evaluated just before his first birthday because he wasn't crawling, pulling to stand or cruising. Based on what you wrote I believe that you should have your child reevaluated at 1 year if your concerns are still there. Plus the criteria gets a little more challenging to meet so he or she may qualify.

In the meantime definately talk to your pediatrician if you have concerns.

All this is really not knowing what your concerns are.

Posted 6/11/13 4:27 PM
 

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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

Posted by lbelle821

may I ask what your concerns were that you had your child evaluated?

At 9.5 months it is very hard to show that there is a delay substantial enough to warrant services. That is just an "in general" statement.

We had my son evaluated just before his first birthday because he wasn't crawling, pulling to stand or cruising. Based on what you wrote I believe that you should have your child reevaluated at 1 year if your concerns are still there. Plus the criteria gets a little more challenging to meet so he or she may qualify.

In the meantime definately talk to your pediatrician if you have concerns.

All this is really not knowing what your concerns are.



I agree. Wait until 1 and call again.

I had my babies evaluated at 13 months and they both qualified for different services.

Posted 6/11/13 4:40 PM
 

Ian&EmmesMommy23
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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

my DS qualified for PT through EI at 7(ish) months because he had torticollis which caused a gross motor delay. he wasn't rolling, crawling or sitting up.

If you need a private physical therapist i HIGHLY recommend the one who helped my DS. FM me if you'd like her info.

Posted 6/11/13 4:55 PM
 

Nik09
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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

Posted by lbelle821

may I ask what your concerns were that you had your child evaluated?

At 9.5 months it is very hard to show that there is a delay substantial enough to warrant services. That is just an "in general" statement.

We had my son evaluated just before his first birthday because he wasn't crawling, pulling to stand or cruising. Based on what you wrote I believe that you should have your child reevaluated at 1 year if your concerns are still there. Plus the criteria gets a little more challenging to meet so he or she may qualify.

In the meantime definately talk to your pediatrician if you have concerns.

All this is really not knowing what your concerns are.



Pretty much what you had your son evaluated for. He's not crawling, pulling to stand or cruise. Not putting himself into a sitting position.

Posted 6/11/13 4:57 PM
 

Nik09
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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

Posted by IansMommy23

my DS qualified for PT through EI at 7(ish) months because he had torticollis which caused a gross motor delay. he wasn't rolling, crawling or sitting up.

If you need a private physical therapist i HIGHLY recommend the one who helped my DS. FM me if you'd like her info.



What kind of progress did you see?

Posted 6/11/13 5:00 PM
 

Jenn627
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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

My DD JUST started crawling at 12 months.

Before that she was scooting on her butt.

My ped did give me a script for private PT. Actually, I just called and asked for one... They should give you one.

Posted 6/11/13 5:05 PM
 

Jenn627
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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

Posted by Nik09

Pretty much what you had your son evaluated for. He's not crawling, pulling to stand or cruise. Not putting himself into a sitting position.



Same with my DD. I should have just waited. Private PT said there was no muscular issue, she just wasn't ready. I wouldn't stress it. In fact, my DD still doesn't pull herself to a sitting position from laying flat on her back and no one's concerned about it but me.

Posted 6/11/13 5:07 PM
 

Nik09
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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

Posted by Jenn627

Same with my DD. I should have just waited. Private PT said there was no muscular issue, she just wasn't ready. I wouldn't stress it. In fact, my DD still doesn't pull herself to a sitting position from laying flat on her back and no one's concerned about it but me.




I do feel a little better hearing this. You're probably right, he's just not ready. He is progressing so that's a great thing!

Posted 6/11/13 5:44 PM
 

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Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

I just had DD evaluated at 13 months and she qualified. At 9.5 months she had just started cruising but didn't crawl, get to sitting, or pull to standing. The ped said to give her until a year and that she should find some way of moving by then. She started scooting on her butt just before a year and cruises everywhere. We saw a different ped that time and they wanted to wait until her 15 month appt to see how she progressed. A month later I contacted EI on my own and she did qualify. The PT immediately saw that her core muscles weren't developed as much as the should be.

I would definitely wait until he's a year and see if he's progressing. If not, call to have him evaluated again. I was told by my coordinator that they're supposed to tell you to wait 6 months but you don't actually have to. If you do, see if you can get a recommendation for a good agency to use. The coordinator actually pushed me towards a particular one bc she knew she would give me advice on what I could do on my own if she didn't qualify, would follow up with me, and would recommend another evaluation if needed. She also suggested agencies that do private therapy in case DD didn't qualify. GL!

Posted 6/11/13 6:53 PM
 

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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

Dd did not pull to stand or cruise until 11 months and started to crawl like a champ around 12mo. She walked at 16months. I was not worried that she was at the late end of motor because it seemed to me more that she just wasn't interested than that she couldn't physically do these things. I would wait until he is closer to 12mo.

Dd is now running, climbing and jumping all over the place now at almost 2 so I don't think her later motor development had any affect at all on her.

Posted 6/11/13 7:15 PM
 

lbelle821
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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

Posted by Nik09

Posted by lbelle821

may I ask what your concerns were that you had your child evaluated?

At 9.5 months it is very hard to show that there is a delay substantial enough to warrant services. That is just an "in general" statement.

We had my son evaluated just before his first birthday because he wasn't crawling, pulling to stand or cruising. Based on what you wrote I believe that you should have your child reevaluated at 1 year if your concerns are still there. Plus the criteria gets a little more challenging to meet so he or she may qualify.

In the meantime definately talk to your pediatrician if you have concerns.

All this is really not knowing what your concerns are.



Pretty much what you had your son evaluated for. He's not crawling, pulling to stand or cruise. Not putting himself into a sitting position.



I honestly think that 9.5 months is still ok that he isn't doing those things. Trust me, I went through this with my son like I said and I know how that worry just gets to you. Right now I would just make sure that he works on sitting up unassisted and that he can bear weight on his legs. That will assist in increasing trunk strength.

By any change in your son on the bigger side?

Just as reference, my DS finally first crawled a few days after his first birthday, by 13 months he was pulling to stand and cruising, at 16 months he started walking.

Posted 6/11/13 8:53 PM
 

ISpoilHim
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Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

I had my son evaluated at 11 months. He was not sitting unassisted or crawling. Pediatrician wanted to wait but I pushed for it. The day that he was being evaluated he crawled and sat by himself. He did not qualify. He started cruising at about 15 months and walked unassisted at 17 months. I worked with him all the time on sitting and crawling. Always played on the floor. Let him cry if he couldn't get something to give him the motivation to get it on his own. I would sit him up and hold his legs gently to provide balance for him to sit. We worked on core strength with some exercises the PT that evaluated him taught me. We also bought a lot of toys that encouraged sitting and standing. They provided a lot of motivation for him.

He was 3 months premature. Now he is 21 months and walking/running up a storm.

I will say that when I read a lot of posts here it is easy to get caught up on the things my son does not do (not trying to start drama). Give it a little more time and then if need be have him re evaluated. He may one day surprise you.

Message edited 6/11/2013 9:11:26 PM.

Posted 6/11/13 9:08 PM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

My son was evaluated and qualified at 10 months old.

We had him evaluated based on answers to the 6 and 9 month surveys they give you in the peds office. He qualified for Speech, OT and PT.

I would probably look to private therapy if you are concerned. And have him evaluated again at 1 year.Chat Icon

Posted 6/11/13 10:38 PM
 

Ian&EmmesMommy23
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Re: Advice on Gross Motor Delay (a little long)

Posted by Nik09

Posted by IansMommy23

my DS qualified for PT through EI at 7(ish) months because he had torticollis which caused a gross motor delay. he wasn't rolling, crawling or sitting up.

If you need a private physical therapist i HIGHLY recommend the one who helped my DS. FM me if you'd like her info.



What kind of progress did you see?



within a month of PT he was rolling. 2 months later he was crawling. and right before sessions stopped he was trying to walk. she also worked on relaxing the neck muscles so he wouldn't tilt his head. if you look at him now (3.5 years old) you would never know anything was wrong.

Posted 6/12/13 9:10 AM
 
 

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