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KimberlyScott
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Tell me if this is abnoxious

DD' first birthday party is Saturday and we are having it outdoors. We have a video montage of her first year and it came out really nice. It's about 9 min long and DH and I want to share it.
I suggessted calling everyone in the house to watch it but my parents dont like that idea. WDYT?

Posted 5/30/13 4:30 PM
 
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LadyBug1209
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

I would just have it playing over and over on a laptop somewhere for your guests to watch throughout the party.

Posted 5/30/13 4:32 PM
 

MrsO
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Defiantely show it off

Another possible option can you have it on continous play that way people can come and go and see it when they want instead of everyone in the house at the same time.

Posted 5/30/13 4:33 PM
 

Jenn627
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Posted by MrsO

Defiantely show it off

Another possible option can you have it on continous play that way people can come and go and see it when they want instead of everyone in the house at the same time.



I'd do the same - just have it continuously playing... Pass the word. People will watch.

Posted 5/30/13 4:39 PM
 

alli3131
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Tell me if this is abnoxious

I would not stop the party for everyone to watch. 9 mins is long IMO.

Posted 5/30/13 4:51 PM
 

dpli
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Posted by LadyBug1209

I would just have it playing over and over on a laptop somewhere for your guests to watch throughout the party.



We went to a milestone birthday party last summer at someone's house and this is what they did. I think everyone got to see it as they passed in and out of the house.

Posted 5/30/13 5:07 PM
 

sunnygirl
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Personally I don't see anything wrong with people coming in for 9 min to watch something. It's just like any other activity at a party you stop what you are doing and go participate

Also is the party exclusively outside, even at my outdoor parties everyone is constantly roaming in and out maybe that's why I don't see the big deal

Posted 5/30/13 5:07 PM
 

PoppySeed
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Tell me if this is abnoxious

9 minutes is REALLY long for a video montage. Cut it to 3 minutes or have it on a loop for people to watch at their leisure.

Posted 5/30/13 5:30 PM
 

BetterVersion
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Posted by alli3131

I would not stop the party for everyone to watch. 9 mins is long IMO.




I agree, I would probably Chat Icon a bit. IMO a montage is for the child's parents and very close family.

Posted 5/30/13 5:40 PM
 

butterfly20
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Posted by LadyBug1209

I would just have it playing over and over on a laptop somewhere for your guests to watch throughout the party.

Chat Icon

Posted 5/30/13 6:25 PM
 

GoodThoughts
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Re: Tell me if this is obnoxious

I agree with the others who said that 9 minutes is long. As much as we like to think that others find our children as wonderful, gorgeous, and amazing as we do, the reality is that, aside from family, few people want to sit through a 9 minute montage of someone's child. I wouldn't tell everyone to come inside to watch.

Posted 5/30/13 6:47 PM
 

Sparrow
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Posted by butterfly20

Posted by LadyBug1209

I would just have it playing over and over on a laptop somewhere for your guests to watch throughout the party.

Chat Icon



ITA. I wouldn't make a bit thing out of it, I'd just keep it looping somewhere on the side so they can watch if they want.

Posted 5/30/13 7:21 PM
 

StarsStripes
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

I don't think it is obnoxious but I would probably get a little Chat Icon after a few minutes....I agree with the PP who say to play it on a loop on the laptop or something.....

Posted 5/30/13 9:35 PM
 

BaysideForever
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

lots of parties have planned activities. even activities people don't enjoy. this groups seems to not enjoy montage videos but i don't think 9 minutes is long in the grand scheme of the party. and my in-laws love pictures and videos they go crazy for that stuff!! so they would be into it. just announce what it is up front so people can then decide whether or not they want to go inside and join you. expect some people to come in and enjoy it and others to stay outside and mingle.

Posted 5/30/13 9:59 PM
 

gina409
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

i think it is a little long but i would just say we r going inside to watch the montage if anyone wants to come

whoever wants to see will see

Posted 5/31/13 12:18 AM
 

ml110
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

I LOVE that kind of stuff... But I do think 9 minutes is a littke long to stop the whole party for. I think you might get some Chat Icon after about 3/4 minutes from people who aren't into that kind of stuff.
I would either shorten it or, just have it on a loop on a laptop somewhere, and let people know. People will see it. And either way it's still nice to have it for the kids to watch when they get older.

Posted 5/31/13 6:30 AM
 

Jax430
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

I agree with suggestions about keeping it running in the background. Nine minutes is long for a photo montage, and honestly, not everyone is as into sitting and looking at pictures of our kids as we are.

Another idea is if you have a TV that you can connect your laptop to, you can have it playing on the TV in the background. That way it's more noticeable when people are walking in and out. Now that you mentioned it, I might set up a slideshow doing the same for my DD's party!

Posted 5/31/13 8:34 AM
 

nferrandi
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

We did a slideshow, but like others have suggested, we had it on a constant loop throughout the party.

Posted 5/31/13 8:36 AM
 

Champ
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

We put together a video as well of the twins. Starting from their nicu journey. We had an outdoor party as well. We had the video playing on the TV in the living room, knowing that people would be going past it to use the restroom. That way it gave people a more mellow location to watch and the option.

Posted 5/31/13 8:41 AM
 

JDubs
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

I would also put it on a loop playing throughout the party, 9 min is a bit long to have everyone gather to watch.

Posted 5/31/13 8:42 AM
 

Jugglemom
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Posted by GoodThoughts

I agree with the others who said that 9 minutes is long. As much as we like to think that others find our children as wonderful, gorgeous, and amazing as we do, the reality is that, aside from family, few people want to sit through a 9 minute montage of someone's child. I wouldn't tell everyone to come inside to watch.



This.

Posted 5/31/13 8:45 AM
 

MarisaK
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Posted by Jugglemom

Posted by GoodThoughts

I agree with the others who said that 9 minutes is long. As much as we like to think that others find our children as wonderful, gorgeous, and amazing as we do, the reality is that, aside from family, few people want to sit through a 9 minute montage of someone's child. I wouldn't tell everyone to come inside to watch.



This.



Exactly - I agree. Skip the montage.

Posted 5/31/13 9:02 AM
 

yankeebaby
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Posted by LadyBug1209

I would just have it playing over and over on a laptop somewhere for your guests to watch throughout the party.



This... have fun at the party!

Posted 5/31/13 9:04 AM
 

StaceyWill
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Posted by StarsStripes

I don't think it is obnoxious but I would probably get a little Chat Icon after a few minutes....I agree with the PP who say to play it on a loop on the laptop or something.....



Ditto. I know I'd get antsy after a couple of minutes.

Posted 5/31/13 9:12 AM
 

Strawberry2468
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Re: Tell me if this is abnoxious

Id have it playing somewhere guest will pass by when going in to use the bathroom or something. Laptop on the kitchen or if they will pass the living room. That way they can sit for 9 mins if they want or watch for a few then move on and not feel obligated to sit there because they were called in to do so.

Posted 5/31/13 9:16 AM
 
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