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Posted 5/5/13 9:30 PM |
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evenedan
Need a little sunshine

Member since 9/05 3843 total posts
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Re: How do I respond to this? Newborn and hand washing....
I would just say, "Well, that's my rule... You don't have to like it, but if you want to touch my baby you'll have to respect it."
And if they don't, they wouldn't be holding my baby. End of discussion.
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Posted 5/5/13 9:46 PM |
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BlessedMomma
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Name: Momma Bear
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Re: How do I respond to this? Newborn and hand washing....
Posted by evenedan
I would just say, "Well, that's my rule... You don't have to like it, but if you want to touch my baby you'll have to respect it."
And if they don't, they wouldn't be holding my baby. End of discussion.
This DEF!!!
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Posted 5/5/13 9:48 PM |
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Sparrow
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Re: How do I respond to this? Newborn and hand washing....
They flat out refused to wash? Wow. I know how hard it can be, especially with some people but I would stand your ground and in turn refuse to let them touch or hold the baby. I know how hard and awkward it can be to push this issue but I think it's worth it. I would just say "My baby, my rules". Let them roll their eyes all they want. As a mom who had their 5 week old in the hospital getting a spinal tap for a fever (this is protocol under 6-8 weeks old), just make them wash. I made everyone wash and my baby still got sick. At least you can know you did all you can to protect them. Not sure why people are such idiots.
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Posted 5/5/13 9:50 PM |
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luvmotherhood
california dreamin'

Member since 2/13 1443 total posts
Name: love my family!
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How do I respond to this? Newborn and hand washing....
THIS!!! i asked everyone politely to wash or purell before holding her. no one refused. if they would have i wouldn't have let them hold her!
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Posted 5/5/13 10:03 PM |
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lvdolphins
My Loves!

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Re: How do I respond to this? Newborn and hand washing....
No Wash, No Hold. I'm sorry. That's obnoxious that they won't respect you with something as simple as washing hands.
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Posted 5/5/13 10:15 PM |
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mlny
blessed <3

Member since 10/09 2113 total posts
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Re: How do I respond to this? Newborn and hand washing....
I can't even believe someone would have the audacity to refuse to wash their hands before handling YOUR new baby. That is most definitely a fight I would have fought.
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Posted 5/5/13 10:43 PM |
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KwaaksNest
Love my boys!

Member since 6/10 2825 total posts
Name: Samantha
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Re: How do I respond to this? Newborn and hand washing....
Posted by evenedan
I would just say, "Well, that's my rule... You don't have to like it, but if you want to touch my baby you'll have to respect it."
And if they don't, they wouldn't be holding my baby. End of discussion.
This! I usually give them the option of hand sanitzer or to wash there hands
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Posted 5/5/13 10:50 PM |
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Strawberry2468
It's summatime

Member since 3/09 4739 total posts
Name: Christine
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Re: How do I respond to this? Newborn and hand washing....
Um yeah then they touched door handles, keys, steering wheel, etc. if they didn't wash they wouldn't hold them. Tough shitt. Your baby comes first. Tell them it's common knowledge that you wash your hands before touching a nb, peds instruction, your ruled. Done! You don't like it you leave.
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Posted 5/5/13 10:55 PM |
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