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CIO - did anyone try it and have it not work? would you do it in my situation?

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mdn13
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CIO - did anyone try it and have it not work? would you do it in my situation?

DD is 7 1/2 months. 6 months adjusted.
She has always slept in the rock n play at night and never slept more than 2 consecutive hours. When we try to put her in the crib she just cries. We've put her in awake, asleep, ddrowsy-nothing seems to work. Unfortunately every time she wakes up I feed her because her cries wake up older ds.

I am soooo tired and don't know what to do. I tried to let her cry in crib the other day and she cried for 45 minutes. I finally gave in and picked her up and put her to sleep in rocker.

Do you think it's too much change to put her in crib and do CIO?
If she does fall asleep should I feed her as usual if she wakes up? (She only drinks about 20oz of pumped breast milk before "bedtime") she drinks about 3 or 4 more times in the middle of night. Anywhere from half ounce to 2 and a half oz each time

Thanks for any suggestions/help you can give.

Posted 1/1/13 6:24 PM
 
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PregowithTwins
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CIO - did anyone try it and have it not work? would you do it in my situation?

My twins were born on time so no adjusted age. We did the CIO thing at 6 months & then wound up failing. I then started record keeping of every single day of time they woke up & napped, bed. I mean EVERYDAY. You may think that you remember but when you see it written down, it's amazing how a 1/2 hr can make a difference. I did this for 2 months. When I was ready to conquer again, it was of 8 months age. I then had better idea of nap time & they transitioned very quickly. Good luck.

Posted 1/1/13 8:13 PM
 

prunepie
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Re: CIO - did anyone try it and have it not work? would you do it in my situation?

How many oz do you give before the hopeful nightime sleep?

Posted 1/1/13 9:00 PM
 

Karen
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Re: CIO - did anyone try it and have it not work? would you do it in my situation?

Honestly, I think you need to cut out some of those night-time feedings. 3-4 times a night to only drink 1/2-2oz is her drinking out of comfort, not need.

Personally, I would conquer that first.

ETA: It is hard to let them cry when you have older siblings in the house, but it has to be done. DD and DS shared a room and DD very quickly was able to sleep through his cries.

Message edited 1/1/2013 9:05:30 PM.

Posted 1/1/13 9:04 PM
 

mdn13
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Marcie

Re: CIO - did anyone try it and have it not work? would you do it in my situation?

Posted by prunepie

How many oz do you give before the hopeful nightime sleep?



She will only drink 4 oz. I offer more but she won't take it. If she does she spits up a lot. All of her feeds are like this

Posted 1/1/13 9:18 PM
 

prunepie
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jennifer

Re: CIO - did anyone try it and have it not work? would you do it in my situation?

Have u spoken to ur ped about this? I would think she would be able to drink at least 5 or 6 oz at nighttime. Does she have reflux? 2 hours is just awful for everyone. She might be overtired and night eating for comfort kwim?

Posted 1/1/13 9:52 PM
 

Champ
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Re: CIO - did anyone try it and have it not work? would you do it in my situation?

My girls were not ready to sleep train until they were 8 months adjusted.
Can you get your lo to take more at the night time feedings? We always did a dream feed at 1030 ish. They also never took more then 4oz of bm at a time.

Good luck!!

Posted 1/1/13 10:34 PM
 

dlj97
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Re: CIO - did anyone try it and have it not work? would you do it in my situation?

Posted by mdn13

Posted by prunepie

How many oz do you give before the hopeful nightime sleep?



She will only drink 4 oz. I offer more but she won't take it. If she does she spits up a lot. All of her feeds are like this



My DD was the exact same way. I think for me it is because I am a FTWM, so the night was her time to be with me. She woke up for feedings during the night until she turned 1. Unfortunately I have no advice since DD is still in our bed, but my ped told us cry it out won't work for all kids and that DD will last way longer than we do. GL!

Posted 1/2/13 6:55 AM
 
 

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