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MrsKelly
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children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
So this morning (sunday), dh & i woke up to our neighbor's son and 3 of his friends playing football in the street at 7:30am. Granted, i did have the bedroom window open bc im 9 months pregnant and always sweating, but still, im not talking about a quiet game of catch. These kids were yelling and carrying on like it was a saturday afternoon at the park. I could hear them even after i closed my windows. This went on for hours. I didnt say anything - its never happened before and i definitely dont want to cause an issue or "rain on their parade", so to speak, but im wondering - are we the weird ones, that find the time they were doing this unacceptable? i think if it was a weekday, i wouldnt care as much - even though we'd still be sleeping (dh works 4x12s and im home from work) bc i know that most people are up that early for work, school etc and we're the minority. But 7:30 on a sunday morning? I just found it rude & obnoxious - even without bringing up the fact that i heard every curse word in the book from them. I cannot imagine letting my child yell and carry on outside at that hour... and i know my parents would have found it unacceptable as well. So - thoughts? Am i in the minority here? What would you have thought/done if it was your neighbors? What time IS acceptable to let your kids go outside with free reign (for lack of better phrasing)?
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Posted 10/21/12 8:47 PM |
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
9 am on a weekend.
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Posted 10/21/12 8:52 PM |
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DumpsterBaby
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children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
I'd rather kids be outside playing at any time rather than sitting inside playing video games, so I don't think they were out too early.
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Posted 10/21/12 8:55 PM |
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Deenintendo
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
I would be extremely annoyed but I know I wouldn't say anything, I hate confrontations...I think after 9 am would be acceptable
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Posted 10/21/12 8:55 PM |
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KwaaksNest
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
Posted by Deenintendo
I would be extremely annoyed but I know I wouldn't say anything, I hate confrontations...I think after 9 am would be acceptable
This would be me unless they woke up my sleeping child then i would say something
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Posted 10/21/12 9:03 PM |
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summerBaby10
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
7:30 is way to early for that! Earlier than 9am is pretty rude.
Wait until your little munchkin is a toddler & that neighbor kids is a teen & will want to sleep til noon, you can send your kid out along with all of his/her friends screaming!! lol payback... j/k of course
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Posted 10/21/12 9:17 PM |
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Tulips915
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
Posted by Deenintendo
I would be extremely annoyed but I know I wouldn't say anything, I hate confrontations...I think after 9 am would be acceptable
This. If it happens more than once then I would say something. 7:30 us wayyyy too early!!!
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Posted 10/21/12 9:19 PM |
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Sweetlax22
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
What kid /pre-teen would even want to be outside at that time?
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Posted 10/21/12 9:24 PM |
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Onemoretime
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
Posted by Sweetlax22
What kid /pre-teen would even want to be outside at that time?
This is what I was thinking! Why would they want to be out that early? 8:30 would be ok with, but I wouldn't say anything to them.
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Posted 10/21/12 9:27 PM |
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Goobster
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
Seems very odd. But could they have had a big game or something today, that they were practicing for (I know, so early)? I would see if it kept happening and only then address it possibly. Either way, yes, for sure, that's wayyy too early. Maybe 9am is better.
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Posted 10/21/12 9:32 PM |
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gina409
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
Posted by Deenintendo
I would be extremely annoyed but I know I wouldn't say anything, I hate confrontations...I think after 9 am would be acceptable
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Posted 10/21/12 9:42 PM |
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MrsKelly
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
Posted by summerBaby10
7:30 is way to early for that! Earlier than 9am is pretty rude.
Wait until your little munchkin is a toddler & that neighbor kids is a teen & will want to sleep til noon, you can send your kid out along with all of his/her friends screaming!! lol payback... j/k of course
They are prob in middle school or so - i dont think practicing for a game - i've never seen him in football attire etc. The 4 of them were outside last night until 10 or 11 and then until about noon today. i agree that id much rather kids be outside playing than video games or getting into trouble... i just thought their volume was obnoxious. I dont think id let my kids out to play like that before 9 on a weekend and if i heard them yelling like that i would definitely say something (if it was my kid). Like i said, i could hear them with the windows closed even and their language was quite colorful. I wouldnt ever say something unless it happened repeatedly, im just bewildered that their parents let this go on.
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Posted 10/21/12 11:04 PM |
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2BadSoSad
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
It is what it is, I think as long as the sun is up, the world is theirs. I would never begrudge children outside playing, I would fall back asleep eventually. I see no reason why my wanting to sleep trumps their wanting to play. I grew up in the kind of neighborhood where we were all out as soon as we had breakfast and were dressed.
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Posted 10/21/12 11:17 PM |
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Shroggie
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
To me, 7:30 s okay. They probably had breakfast at 7 and went out right after. We're up at that time and sometimes see the kids on our block outside. I'd rather that, than playing outside at midnight.
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Posted 10/22/12 5:41 AM |
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Mrs213
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children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
Prob wouldn't annoy me but I do find it strange...
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Posted 10/22/12 6:55 AM |
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moonmist09
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children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
i wouldn't say anything...however, 7:30am is very early to have kids making that much noise. i would send my child out before 9am...
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Posted 10/22/12 9:27 AM |
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TripletMom
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
I have had my kids out as early as 8:00 in the yard and or park bc they were driving me nuts in the house and I refuse to let them sit and watch tv all morning.
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Posted 10/22/12 9:50 AM |
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
Posted by 2BadSoSad
It is what it is, I think as long as the sun is up, the world is theirs. I would never begrudge children outside playing, I would fall back asleep eventually. I see no reason why my wanting to sleep trumps their wanting to play. I grew up in the kind of neighborhood where we were all out as soon as we had breakfast and were dressed.
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Posted 10/22/12 12:15 PM |
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ElizaRags35
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children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
It looks like I'm in the minority because I'd be very annoyed if I was woken up like that at 7:30am. DH and I don't have kids so we like to sleep in on the weekends. I probably wouldn't say anything though. After 9 is ok I guess but in my ideal world I'd be ok with after 10-10:30. If I had kids that wanted to play outside that early, I'd make sure they weren't loud because I know from experience how annoying it is to be woken up at 8am to the dribbling of a basketball under my window.
How realistic would it be to train my future child(ren), should I have any, to sleep late?
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Posted 10/22/12 12:31 PM |
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JRsMaMa
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
It wouldn't bother me because I am usually up anyway, DS is an early riser. The cursing would have bothered me more.
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Posted 10/22/12 12:34 PM |
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alli3131
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children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
If it was a one time thing then I'd ignore it. If it happens regularly then I'd address it.
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Posted 10/22/12 12:51 PM |
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AScottWolf
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
Posted by 2BadSoSad
It is what it is, I think as long as the sun is up, the world is theirs.
7:30 is a little early but they are kids playing outside, not really doing anything wrong.
I agree with what another poster said, the cursing would bother me more then anything else.
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Posted 10/22/12 1:40 PM |
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Xelindrya
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
Meh.
They'd be at school by that hour so it wouldn't bother me at all. I think its just nice that children were OUTSIDE actually PLAYING!
For me I let her out when I can but she's an only child so she won't stay out long and if its mosquito time I try not to get out too long either.
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Posted 10/22/12 2:18 PM |
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MrsFrizzle
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
Posted by DumpsterBaby
I'd rather kids be outside playing at any time rather than sitting inside playing video games, so I don't think they were out too early.
ITA!
It's a little strange but I wouldn't say anything.
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Posted 10/22/12 2:19 PM |
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MrsM-6-7-08
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Re: children playing outside - what time do you think is acceptable?
I am not a fan of kids playing in the street, I think we have a ton of playgrounds and parks around this area that kids should use.
People speed on sidestreets its often scary the high rate of speed i see people going, and if kids were in the street playing i am not sure if they would be able to get out of the way fast enough.
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