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Does anyone want a lot of kids?

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ARIELSMOM
Love my Babes

Member since 8/05

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MEREDITH

Does anyone want a lot of kids?

Like 3,4 or 5 kids? i feel like 3 kids these days is a large family. Im expecting my 4th and im apprehensive to tell people b/c im anticipating a reaction like "wow- 4 kids, your nuts" type of thing.
I was never set on how many kids i was going to have, im just lucky enough to have it turn out this way.
Does anyone else want a large family?

Posted 6/22/12 12:55 PM
 
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TheDivineMrsM
2 girls 4 me!

Member since 8/08

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Mama mama mama....

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

I've successfully lobbied for 3. (This is #2). If we started younger and had a lot more money, I'd have a bunch. I was one of four and loved it!

Posted 6/22/12 12:57 PM
 

wo0shply
LIF Adult

Member since 11/08

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Name:
Tass

Does anyone want a lot of kids?

this is DH and my first kid. so far we have said we only want one but thats because we're first time parents and know its hard and expensive to raise a child. So our minds could change

Posted 6/22/12 12:57 PM
 

babyfever08
Love my babies!

Member since 11/08

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Name:
Antonella

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

I've always wanted 3 kids, but this pregnancy changed my mind. I may end up changing my mind in a few years still on the fence.

Posted 6/22/12 1:02 PM
 

SHOPAHOLIC
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Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

We have 3 and if money were not an issue I would have happily gone for #4.
DH wanted to stop at 3 regardless though.

Posted 6/22/12 1:02 PM
 

maymama
my little loves

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Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

if $$$ didn't play a factor, sure! but it will be 2 for us. we'd like to live a comfortable life and having more than two will prevent that.

Posted 6/22/12 1:03 PM
 

PrettyPeonies
GAW my baby boy <3

Member since 8/10

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Pino

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

i would LOVE to have a huge family, 5+. Its just not a reality for us. The major factor is $$$ there is no way we could live a nice life style (comfy home, vacations, savings, kids activities, etc) and have that many kids. Chat Icon at least not on LI.

Another factor is age, we are expecting our 1st next month and we are both 35. I couldnt imagine having 5 really close pregnancies.

We are Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon that we are going to be blessed w/ 3 DC. I would be over the moon if that is what happens.

Posted 6/22/12 1:07 PM
 

BBin2012
Full heart!

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Ka

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

Posted by maymama

if $$$ didn't play a factor, sure! but it will be 2 for us. we'd like to live a comfortable life and having more than two will prevent that.



Same!! but also a little scared to be outnumbered Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/22/12 1:14 PM
 

EBG10
LIF Adolescent

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Erin

Does anyone want a lot of kids?

We always said 2, but if the second is a girl as well, i am sure DH is gonna wanna go for a third in hopes for a boy

Posted 6/22/12 1:16 PM
 

JDubs
different, not less

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Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

I think we'd probably have no more than 2 since its just so expensive...

Posted 6/22/12 1:49 PM
 

Poppy811
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Member since 2/12

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L

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

First of all, Congratulations! I would love a big family - 3 or 4 children. I am pregnant with my first and will be 35 two days before my due date (August) and my husband is 34, as well. I often wonder how realistic it is for us to have more than 2.

Message edited 6/22/2012 2:16:16 PM.

Posted 6/22/12 2:15 PM
 

Sparrow
LIF Adult

Member since 11/10

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Does anyone want a lot of kids?

I really hope to have at least 3. I'd even possibly go for 4 (maybe 5) but I know DH would never be on board unless it were an oops.

Posted 6/22/12 2:33 PM
 

TreAnt427
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Member since 8/06

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Tracy

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

We always said we would have 2 or 3. After DD I wanted a million! Chat Icon

But now that we are on #2 I think this might be it. It's not easy being pg with one kid, I can't imagine doing it with 2. And I don't think we can financially swing a 3rd.

Posted 6/22/12 2:40 PM
 

BaysideForever
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Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

I always imagined having at least two and maybe even three children. But then I am really not liking the whole pregnancy thing and I am not sure if I can ever do this again honestly. I'm sorry if that sounds terrible but this has been so stressful for me. So, I am struggling with the idea of maybe only having one. Also, financially, I am not sure if we will be able to afford 2 or more children. So I guess two is still an option but not as likely as I once thought it was. If money was not a concern, and being pregnant wasn't a factor, I would have 10 kids if I could! I love children and would love to have a large family.

Posted 6/22/12 2:41 PM
 

butterfly20
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Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

DH wants as many as we can afford without going broke Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

We originally had thought 2 when we got married, but after having DS have decided we want 3.........If we won the lotto/inherited money I think I'd go upto 4.

Posted 6/22/12 2:46 PM
 

Milerose
MY BABY!

Member since 9/06

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R

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

Posted by BaysideForever

I always imagined having at least two and maybe even three children. But then I am really not liking the whole pregnancy thing and I am not sure if I can ever do this again honestly. I'm sorry if that sounds terrible but this has been so stressful for me. So, I am struggling with the idea of maybe only having one. Also, financially, I am not sure if we will be able to afford 2 or more children. So I guess two is still an option but not as likely as I once thought it was. If money was not a concern, and being pregnant wasn't a factor, I would have 10 kids if I could! I love children and would love to have a large family.



I am right there with you. I know for a fact that I am done after and will only have one child and am okay with that. I do not enjoy pregnancy one bit and will be fine with one child however to eaches own I think it's a personal preference:)

Posted 6/22/12 2:47 PM
 

OrganicMama
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Member since 6/08

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Mama

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

Posted by TheDivineMrsM

I've successfully lobbied for 3. (This is #2). If we started younger and had a lot more money, I'd have a bunch. I was one of four and loved it!



Exaxtly everything that she said!!! Although if #3 is also a boy, I will do my hardest to convince DH to try for a girl for #4 Chat Icon

Posted 6/22/12 3:02 PM
 

Melmel821
Love being a mom!

Member since 5/08

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Melanie

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

I'd like 3 kids. I'm not sure it will happen especialy if we live on long island. A nurse i work with is expecting her 7th in august and she so excited!

Posted 6/22/12 3:34 PM
 

jams92

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Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

we are hoping for 3 kids...but we will see how it goes after #1! either way i dont think i would have just one...def at least 2 Chat Icon

Posted 6/22/12 3:53 PM
 

skinny
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Member since 11/08

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Momma

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

We want 4. People thought we were cazy having 3. I don't care what anyone says. Chat Icon

Posted 6/22/12 4:00 PM
 

TessMike214
Gabriella Aubrey born 3/26!

Member since 5/10

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Tess

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

I do!
God willing, I hope to have 3-4 children Chat Icon

Congrats to you!! Chat Icon

Message edited 6/22/2012 5:53:44 PM.

Posted 6/22/12 4:11 PM
 

Loveme
LIF Adult

Member since 6/11

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Me

Does anyone want a lot of kids?

We both would like 3, but after having my DS (my first) I would be 100% content with only having one child. But I definitly would love one more, I want to give my son a sibling, since I am an only child and it can be hard sometimes.

Message edited 6/22/2012 6:01:36 PM.

Posted 6/22/12 6:01 PM
 

BeachMom
Love my 4 kiddos!

Member since 11/08

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Kristie

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

I'm in the same boat as you. I currently have 3 kids and we're expecting #4, and yes you still do get the reaction of 4 really??? But who's business is it of theirs anyways. I have a friend with 5 who jokingly asks me about joining the crazy train with her. I love my 3 kids and can't wait to add this little bean to the mix!

I think with 4 we are done. We're out of space!! If we won the lotto and/or I didn't have to work, I would certainly have another!!

Posted 6/22/12 7:16 PM
 

MrsS2005
Mom of 3

Member since 11/05

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B

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

We plan on having 3.

Posted 6/22/12 8:51 PM
 

My4GirlsMyLife
My 4 girlies

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Valerie

Re: Does anyone want a lot of kids?

I always wanted a large family and with #5 I am super excited but this will be the last lol ! Tubes are getting tiedChat Icon

Posted 6/23/12 12:46 AM
 
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