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MrsRapz
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beyond-rude comment

i just walked into work and a co-worker of mine (somebody i always say hi to, but we rarely speak more than that) stopped me and said

him: can i tell you something...?
Me: sure, what's up?
him: you're getting fat

what the f- .... how rude is that!? i mean, i barely talk to the guy - who is he to say that to me! especially phrased like that!

but wait - it gets better!

my response was: yeah well that's what happens when you have a baby growing inside you
him: oh, you're pregnant, congratulations!

so um yeah .... he didn't even know i was preggo and he was telling me that i'm getting fat! i'm so offended and annoyed!

freakin' jerk!

ok, vent over, thanks for listening

Posted 6/8/12 8:47 AM
 
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lcherian
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Re: beyond-rude comment

usually, i'm not one to get offended by comments, but yes that was pretty rude!

i probably wouldnt have cared if it was someone i was close with and they said, hey you look to have gained some weight, but where does this guy think he can say that to you?? Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/12 8:52 AM
 

BBin2012
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Re: beyond-rude comment

What an A-HOLE!!! Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/12 8:55 AM
 

AngnShaun
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Re: beyond-rude comment

WOW... thats one huge dbag you work with!

Posted 6/8/12 8:59 AM
 

InShock
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Re: beyond-rude comment

Chat Icon Insanely rude!!!!

Posted 6/8/12 9:02 AM
 

Strawberry2468
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Re: beyond-rude comment

Ew what a jerk!!


I would have followed up with "can I tell you something? You are an arsehole who doesn't know when to keep his mouth shut"

Posted 6/8/12 9:14 AM
 

laurenandmike619
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Re: beyond-rude comment

That's insane!!!

Posted 6/8/12 9:17 AM
 

wo0shply
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Re: beyond-rude comment

wow what a D-bag

Posted 6/8/12 9:28 AM
 

Sparrow
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Re: beyond-rude comment

Chat Icon I think next time you see him you should kick him in the balls and just keep on walking.

Posted 6/8/12 9:51 AM
 

Samira0407
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Re: beyond-rude comment

wow I can't believe he would comment on your weight AT ALL; and then to top it off comment on your weight and not even realize you were pregnant!! Beyond Rude!!

Posted 6/8/12 9:55 AM
 

JDubs
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Re: beyond-rude comment

definite d-bag!

Posted 6/8/12 10:14 AM
 

mooshyboo
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Re: beyond-rude comment

downright RUDE!!!!!! What an A@@!!!! Sorry sweetie!! Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/12 10:32 AM
 

WorkinMom324
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Re: beyond-rude comment

OMG!!!! I would have flipped out!!!

Posted 6/8/12 10:37 AM
 

StaceyWill
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Re: beyond-rude comment

Posted by Sparrow

Chat Icon I think next time you see him you should kick him in the balls and just keep on walking.



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Posted 6/8/12 10:48 AM
 

toniV
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Re: beyond-rude comment

WTF is wrong with people??!!!!

Posted 6/8/12 10:57 AM
 

MrsRapz
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Posted by WorkinMom324

OMG!!!! I would have flipped out!!!



i was just so shocked he said that that my brain stopped working.

he's also Indian with a very heavy accent so it took me a minute to figure out if i really heard him correctly Chat Icon


thanks for the love everyone! Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/12 11:00 AM
 

labonnevie
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Re: beyond-rude comment

WOW, what a d!@&!!!!

Posted 6/8/12 11:04 AM
 

queensgal
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Re: beyond-rude comment

Seriously, this is ridiculous.

I think that says a lot about that person. He is going out of his way to be hurtful towards someone else. The way you described it, it's not like something was intended as a joke or something.

This person is just horrible - be happy that you barely have to interact with him and stay clear. Feel bad if he has wife anywhere, imagine what he must say to family, etc. where he doesn't even have to try to be professional Chat Icon

Posted 6/8/12 12:18 PM
 

wishing2012
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Re: beyond-rude comment

wow. what an a-hole. i definitely would not say hi to him anymore.

Posted 6/8/12 12:30 PM
 

MRsFaTThead
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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!

Re: beyond-rude comment

what a doucccchhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeeeChat Icon

Posted 6/8/12 1:02 PM
 

ArmyOfBabies
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Re: beyond-rude comment

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That is sooooo rude!!! I would have punched him!!!!

I had some random crazy lady at Target yell "WHEN ARE YOU DUE?" from 2 aisles away at me the other day. I have to say, for 18 weeks I look like I could just be fat still. What if I wasn't pregnant? WTH is wrong with people.

Posted 6/8/12 2:38 PM
 

Mrs213
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Posted 6/9/12 9:11 AM
 

Atherley
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Re: beyond-rude comment

The nerve of some people !!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/9/12 9:29 AM
 

LIGirl83
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Re: beyond-rude comment

Wow what an ass

Posted 6/9/12 11:19 AM
 

BeachGal
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Re: beyond-rude comment

What a loser!!! You should report him to hr. I would think that comment would be considered extremely inappropriate and technically harassment.

Posted 6/11/12 7:52 AM
 
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