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MrsRapz
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beyond-rude comment
i just walked into work and a co-worker of mine (somebody i always say hi to, but we rarely speak more than that) stopped me and said
him: can i tell you something...? Me: sure, what's up? him: you're getting fat
what the f- .... how rude is that!? i mean, i barely talk to the guy - who is he to say that to me! especially phrased like that!
but wait - it gets better!
my response was: yeah well that's what happens when you have a baby growing inside you him: oh, you're pregnant, congratulations!
so um yeah .... he didn't even know i was preggo and he was telling me that i'm getting fat! i'm so offended and annoyed!
freakin' jerk!
ok, vent over, thanks for listening
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Posted 6/8/12 8:47 AM |
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lcherian
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Re: beyond-rude comment
usually, i'm not one to get offended by comments, but yes that was pretty rude!
i probably wouldnt have cared if it was someone i was close with and they said, hey you look to have gained some weight, but where does this guy think he can say that to you??
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Posted 6/8/12 8:52 AM |
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BBin2012
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Re: beyond-rude comment
What an A-HOLE!!!
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Posted 6/8/12 8:55 AM |
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AngnShaun
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Re: beyond-rude comment
WOW... thats one huge dbag you work with!
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Posted 6/8/12 8:59 AM |
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InShock
life is good
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Re: beyond-rude comment
Insanely rude!!!!
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Posted 6/8/12 9:02 AM |
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Strawberry2468
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Re: beyond-rude comment
Ew what a jerk!!
I would have followed up with "can I tell you something? You are an arsehole who doesn't know when to keep his mouth shut"
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Posted 6/8/12 9:14 AM |
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Re: beyond-rude comment
That's insane!!!
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Posted 6/8/12 9:17 AM |
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wo0shply
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Re: beyond-rude comment
wow what a D-bag
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Posted 6/8/12 9:28 AM |
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Sparrow
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Re: beyond-rude comment
I think next time you see him you should kick him in the balls and just keep on walking.
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Posted 6/8/12 9:51 AM |
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Samira0407
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Re: beyond-rude comment
wow I can't believe he would comment on your weight AT ALL; and then to top it off comment on your weight and not even realize you were pregnant!! Beyond Rude!!
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Posted 6/8/12 9:55 AM |
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JDubs
different, not less
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Re: beyond-rude comment
definite d-bag!
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Posted 6/8/12 10:14 AM |
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mooshyboo
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Name: Christine
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Re: beyond-rude comment
downright RUDE!!!!!! What an A@@!!!! Sorry sweetie!!
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Posted 6/8/12 10:32 AM |
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WorkinMom324
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Member since 7/10 171 total posts
Name: Christine
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Re: beyond-rude comment
OMG!!!! I would have flipped out!!!
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Posted 6/8/12 10:37 AM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

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Re: beyond-rude comment
Posted by Sparrow
I think next time you see him you should kick him in the balls and just keep on walking.
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Posted 6/8/12 10:48 AM |
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toniV
LIF Adolescent

Member since 10/11 586 total posts
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Re: beyond-rude comment
WTF is wrong with people??!!!!
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Posted 6/8/12 10:57 AM |
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MrsRapz
mahna mahna!

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Re: beyond-rude comment
Posted by WorkinMom324
OMG!!!! I would have flipped out!!!
i was just so shocked he said that that my brain stopped working.
he's also Indian with a very heavy accent so it took me a minute to figure out if i really heard him correctly 
thanks for the love everyone!
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Posted 6/8/12 11:00 AM |
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labonnevie
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Re: beyond-rude comment
WOW, what a d!@&!!!!
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Posted 6/8/12 11:04 AM |
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queensgal
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Re: beyond-rude comment
Seriously, this is ridiculous.
I think that says a lot about that person. He is going out of his way to be hurtful towards someone else. The way you described it, it's not like something was intended as a joke or something.
This person is just horrible - be happy that you barely have to interact with him and stay clear. Feel bad if he has wife anywhere, imagine what he must say to family, etc. where he doesn't even have to try to be professional
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Posted 6/8/12 12:18 PM |
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wishing2012
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Re: beyond-rude comment
wow. what an a-hole. i definitely would not say hi to him anymore.
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Posted 6/8/12 12:30 PM |
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MRsFaTThead
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Re: beyond-rude comment
what a doucccchhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeee
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Posted 6/8/12 1:02 PM |
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ArmyOfBabies
Growing older but not up

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Re: beyond-rude comment
That is sooooo rude!!! I would have punched him!!!!
I had some random crazy lady at Target yell "WHEN ARE YOU DUE?" from 2 aisles away at me the other day. I have to say, for 18 weeks I look like I could just be fat still. What if I wasn't pregnant? WTH is wrong with people.
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Posted 6/8/12 2:38 PM |
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Mrs213
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Re: beyond-rude comment
Unreal
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Posted 6/9/12 9:11 AM |
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Atherley
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Re: beyond-rude comment
The nerve of some people !!!
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Posted 6/9/12 9:29 AM |
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LIGirl83
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Re: beyond-rude comment
Wow what an ass
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Posted 6/9/12 11:19 AM |
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BeachGal
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Re: beyond-rude comment
What a loser!!! You should report him to hr. I would think that comment would be considered extremely inappropriate and technically harassment.
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