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So who else isnt having sex?

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mrssoto
LIF Adolescent

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Lorin

So who else isnt having sex?

Cuz I sure havent since we got our bfp!

Its a combo of being nervous (yes i know i know, it cant do anything), not in the mood, feeling like crap and feeling bloated and fat.

Anyone else?

Posted 5/2/12 2:46 PM
 
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toniV
LIF Adolescent

Member since 10/11

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Name:
T

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

I know exactly what you mean.

I'm 32w6d and we have only had sex a hand full of times since we found out we were pregnant... I had 1st trimester nervousness than in the 2nd trimester I was just feeling chubby and gross and then when it got later in the 2nd tri and up until now, I have just been nervous about sex bringing on preterm labor-- which I know I might sound crazy cause there is no indication that I would go into preterm labor but it just makes me nervous.

So I have been telling DH to hang on until 37w and then it's "go time".

Posted 5/2/12 2:50 PM
 

JDubs
different, not less

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Re: So who else isnt having sex?

me...poor DH Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/12 2:52 PM
 

MRsFaTThead
NY GIRL IN TEXAS

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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

that would be me!!!!!!!!!!! Chat Icon

i wanna say a month. ever since we found out its a Chat Icon hes been weird about it.

Posted 5/2/12 2:52 PM
 

mrssoto
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/10

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Lorin

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

Posted by MRsFaTThead

that would be me!!!!!!!!!!! Chat Icon

i wanna say a month. ever since we found out its a Chat Icon hes been weird about it.



lol he's funny..cuz if it was a boy, he would be cool with it. guys are crazy, lol...but then again, all you have to do is look at my op to see we are crazy too.

Posted 5/2/12 2:56 PM
 

Melmel821
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Melanie

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

the first trimester between the nausea and soreness... it wasn't happening. Both have lightened up so we've been having more fun. Dh was weird about Chat Icon while pregnant at first but now he realizes he's not going to hurt the baby!

Message edited 5/2/2012 2:58:10 PM.

Posted 5/2/12 2:57 PM
 

cds58019
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Candice

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

I was on and off pelvic rest in the beginning. Then we were back to normal once I wasn't on it anymore. But then soon after I started getting a lot bigger and uncomfortable. Plus just laying there is sort of a tease. I think I'd rather not have it at all then have it but be limited to one position. Chat Icon I dont feel that bad for DH, he still gets taken care of Chat Icon .

Posted 5/2/12 3:00 PM
 

laurenandmike619
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Member since 8/10

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Lauren

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

We are!!!! I'm more shall we say "playful" than ever right now!!! But we did not for the first, I'd say, ten weeks because I was too nervous.

Posted 5/2/12 3:01 PM
 

StaceyWill
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Stacey

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

Me!!!!! Doc wouldn't let us in the 1st tri because of a previous loss, and I have SO not been in the mood. At 37 weeks, I can count on one hand how many times it's happened. I do feel very bad for DH, but he should really feel bad for me (and I know he does)- I’ve been sooooo uncomfy for most of the pregnancy.

Message edited 5/2/2012 3:06:26 PM.

Posted 5/2/12 3:03 PM
 

Cacarina
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Cari

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

We're not. It's been a while. Ever since DH heard her head was reallllly low down up against my cervix, he's out. I don't care, I'm not really in the mood anyway.

Posted 5/2/12 3:09 PM
 

Jags
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Jags

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

us! we were told at my 16wk appt that my placenta is low and so no sex for atleast one month Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/12 3:09 PM
 

mooshyboo
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Christine

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

us too my poor DH Chat Icon but I have a heart shaped uterus and I don't want anything to have an effect with my cervix to open 1st tri so sick and now tired and uncomfortable

Posted 5/2/12 3:19 PM
 

missfabulous
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Colleen

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

I feel bad b/c we're not...I'm just so nauseus and tired all the time Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/12 3:41 PM
 

PrettyPeonies
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Pino

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

We aren't either. We tried recently but it was awkward. I was uncomfortable and he sensed it so then it became uncomfortable for him. I feel bad but I'm sure he will pull through like a champ.

Posted 5/2/12 3:50 PM
 

MaZz
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Gina

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

Um we have yet to have sex this year. Sad but true. Dh always felt uncomfortable with it. And it didn't help him any that I gained the baby bump so fast Chat Icon I think we only dtd a handful of times since the bfp. He keeps telling me all systems are a go once she's out. Yeah, I'd like to see being in the mood after being sleep deprived and sore Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/12 3:50 PM
 

YourMama
LIF Adult

Member since 4/11

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YourMama

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

Poor DH, we only had sex once during our 1st trimester. It's a lot more regular since I've began my 2nd trimester

Posted 5/2/12 3:55 PM
 

lvb626
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Member since 12/11

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Re: So who else isnt having sex?

We aren't... I am just so tired all the time.

I come home from work, make my lunch for the next day, pick out clothes, shower, dinner, then straight to bed.

It's bad, I'm out by like 7/7:30!

Posted 5/2/12 4:00 PM
 

MrsKelly
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Krista

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

15 wks along here and noooChat Icon for usChat Icon

Posted 5/2/12 4:01 PM
 

MRsFaTThead
NY GIRL IN TEXAS

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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

when we got our bfp we are still Chat Icon

weeks 7-14 i didnt want him touching me thanks to ms but i think i felt good one moring at week 13 so i jumped his bones.lol

we've Chat Icon once since finding out its a Chat Icon but every time i make a move i get the " not right now babe i promise later tonight" Chat Icon im still waiting Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/12 4:02 PM
 

wo0shply
LIF Adult

Member since 11/08

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Name:
Tass

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

DH refuses to have sex with me, hes scared something might happen to the baby. So I'm stuck reading the 50 shades of Grey series. Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/12 4:11 PM
 

ArmyOfBabies
Growing older but not up

Member since 7/07

4427 total posts

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Jeri

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

Me! I've been on pelvic rest for the last 5 weeks.

Shoud be done in another week or two, then I'll be back in the saddleChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/12 4:13 PM
 

jessw
LIF Adolescent

Member since 2/11

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Jess

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

used to be 4-5 times a week now its like 3-4 times a week only because some nights eating a cupcake gets me more excited lol the pregnancy hormones are def true for me

Posted 5/2/12 4:31 PM
 

MrsSx2
Finally a MOM!

Member since 11/10

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Valerie

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

Throughout my 9 months of pregnancy, we only had sex 3 times...and the first time wasn't until week 15!

Posted 5/2/12 4:32 PM
 

mrssoto
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/10

833 total posts

Name:
Lorin

Re: So who else isnt having sex?

Posted by jessw

used to be 4-5 times a week now its like 3-4 times a week only because some nights eating a cupcake gets me more excited lol the pregnancy hormones are def true for me



wow, good for you guys!!!!!!!! thats awesome!

Posted 5/2/12 5:33 PM
 

Mrs213
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Re: So who else isnt having sex?

We are but not quite as often. He has been pissin me off lately though

Posted 5/2/12 6:47 PM
 
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