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bettybcafe
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Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
We rent a 2bd room apartment in a private house. We have the top apartment and an elderly lady rents the bottom apartment who happens to be the landlords mother...
so...Im due this Friday. My parents have been coming up for the last two weekends from the city (they stay the weekend with me and DH) and then leave. So, today they come again and my neighbor says to my dad, "Oh, are you moving in?" WTH?! Im I wrong to be upset at this? I mean, did she see a Uhaul truck? Their daughter is pregnant and they are here to be with me thats all, doesnt mean they are moving in. My parents plan to stay here maybe 1-2 weeks to be with me while the baby is born since DH works crazy hours and I feel the help would be nice. Im I wrong to be upset at this? Does she have the right to say that?
Message edited 4/17/2012 6:14:59 PM.
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readyornot2
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Re: Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
I can see how that would bother you. It would bother me more if it weren't the landlord's mother. It was a thoughtless question, I mean, come on, let's put 2 and 2 together here, it's probably pretty obvious you are having a baby soon. I wouldn't let it get to me that much but I can see why it did 
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anewday
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Re: Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
it may have just been a curiousity question...I wouldn't let it bother you
If it was the landlord or landlords mother then may be I'd be annoyed but a neighbor nah
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| Posted 4/17/12 6:21 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
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Re: Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
Posted by anewday
it may have just been a curiousity question...I wouldn't let it bother you
If it was the landlord or landlords mother then may be I'd be annoyed but a neighbor nah
It is the landlord's mother. She rents the bottom apartment from him.
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| Posted 4/17/12 6:24 PM |
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BlessedMomma
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Re: Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
I wouldnt personally be upset by that...
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| Posted 4/17/12 7:42 PM |
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mrsyoungmommy
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Re: Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
I wouldn't be upset over that. She may have been joking or just looking for something to say to him because she has seen him the past few weekends.
Don't let it bother you...you have bigger things to worry about, like having a baby!!
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| Posted 4/17/12 7:56 PM |
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ArmyOfBabies
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Re: Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
I'd be annoyed. She must know you're about to have a baby. She sounds like one of those people who wants someone to point out the obvious so she's more free to talk about it. Nosy Neighbor.
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| Posted 4/17/12 8:06 PM |
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bettybcafe
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Re: Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
Thanks ladies..maybe I am looking too into this 
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| Posted 4/17/12 8:26 PM |
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butterfly20
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Re: Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
she may just be curious.....I think if it were more concern the landlord would have called you.
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| Posted 4/17/12 9:02 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
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Re: Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
Posted by butterfly20
she may just be curious.....I think if it were more concern the landlord would have called you.
Well, Im sure she will probably tell him after today since my parents showed up today.
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| Posted 4/17/12 9:07 PM |
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BeachGal
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Re: Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
I Agree with you, I would find that annoying.
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| Posted 4/18/12 5:49 AM |
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jam11308
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Re: Sorta pregnancy related- would this upset you?
Posted by readyornot2
I can see how that would bother you. It would bother me more if it weren't the landlord's mother. It was a thoughtless question, I mean, come on, let's put 2 and 2 together here, it's probably pretty obvious you are having a baby soon. I wouldn't let it get to me that much but I can see why it did
I agree...hopefully she was just being neighborly & trying to make conversation/introduce herself since she's been seeing a lot of them lately
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| Posted 4/18/12 8:53 AM |
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