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do you look at spouses cell phone text messages/calls

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yes because your nosey 141 44.76%
yes you don't trust him 16 5.08%
no - never 158 50.16%
 

need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

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Mrs213
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Not regularly

Posted 5/9/11 10:57 PM
 

gina409
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g

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

no

Posted 5/9/11 10:57 PM
 

jlk51496
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Katie

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by DiamondGirl

No.

If a txt comes in and I am closer to the phone he will ask me to check it for him or something like that but I do not scroll through his messages and stuff.



same

Posted 5/9/11 11:09 PM
 

MichLiz213
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by nov04libride

We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets. Chat Icon



Same here.

Posted 5/9/11 11:29 PM
 

GoldenRod
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by KittyGags

Posted by KittyKatCopper

No. We have an agreement...no snooping through phones or reading e-mails or it's grounds for divorce. THAT would be a breach of trust for us...to snoop. I have no desire to check his phone...just cause we're married doesn't mean we need to share ever single thing...but that's what works for us.



this.



Same here.

Posted 5/10/11 7:18 AM
 

summerBaby10
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by CrankyPants

No, I have no interest. I answer his phone if I am closer to it, but just to see what is going on, no.



same here.

Posted 5/10/11 7:52 AM
 

ODonnell
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

I have never checked as if to snoop. The only time I might look at his phone is if he's in the shower and his phone rings. Then I just check to see who's calling to let him know.

Posted 5/10/11 8:07 AM
 

Pomegranate5
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

I don't. The few times in the past that I got nosey and did look I was bored to tears. There is nothing interesting in there. So now I don't waste my time.

If he gets a text while I'm with him and I ask him who it was he never hesitates to tell me. When he starts getting shady about his phone I'll probably start getting nosey again.

Posted 5/10/11 8:11 AM
 

Mrs007
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K

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Nope. And I won't answer it if it's ringing unless he tells me to

Posted 5/10/11 8:15 AM
 

JennZ
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

No. I dont even look to see who is calling if I hand him the phone. Neither does he.

Posted 5/10/11 8:24 AM
 

kelkel09
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by shadows

Once in a blue moon, just out of sheer nosiness.



same here!

Posted 5/10/11 8:42 AM
 

neener1211
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

No, have never had any reason to.

Posted 5/10/11 8:47 AM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Not really but more because I am literally the only person that txts and calls him and I am the only person he will ever txt or call. He really isn't a cell phone user. He doesn't need it for work at all and he has it on him just in case of an emergency or if I need to reach him.

Posted 5/10/11 8:49 AM
 

ThePinkGoose
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Once in a while if it's laying around or i'm using it for some reason but never to find anything in particular, just because i'm nosey and probably bored at the moment. I think the same for him, he hardly ever handles my phone but would scroll through if he had it.

With that being said, if I felt that I had a reason to snoop, I would.

Posted 5/10/11 8:55 AM
 

StaceyWill
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Stacey

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Nope- but if I'm closer and he gets a text/call-I'll check who it is. That's about it.

Posted 5/10/11 9:03 AM
 

annoyedTTCer
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

I'll tell him who is calling or texting if its on the screen and I'm closer but I never pick it up and rummage through it on him.

If I felt I needed to do that I wouldn't be married to him.

Posted 5/10/11 9:07 AM
 

smdl
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Member since 5/06

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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Never. He does not check mine either.

Same for emails.

We respect each other's privacy but have nothing to hide or be ashamed of if asked to check it out which has never happened.

Posted 5/10/11 9:10 AM
 

CaMacho
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Jess

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by nov04libride

We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets. Chat Icon



Same.

Posted 5/10/11 9:16 AM
 

IrishLasss334
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Patty

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

We answer each other's phones if the other one is closer especially if one of us is expecting a call.

Posted 5/10/11 9:29 AM
 

MrsFrizzle
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by nov04libride

We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets. Chat Icon



Same here. There's nothing to hide so neither one of us care.

Posted 5/10/11 9:29 AM
 

saraH
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Do I need to check it? No. Do I look at it because I'm nosey? Every now and then. But if it goes off and he's in the shower or whatever, I don't look to see who it is.

Posted 5/10/11 9:31 AM
 

NervousNell
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..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by Dee

its not that i don't trust him... i am just nosey ;) i just want to know if i am the only one.. does your husband get mad if you do?



I do it for the same reason as you. I'm nosey. Sometimes I am bored just sitting there and take a peek.
I dont' do it every day- just once in a blue moon.

And it's not that I dont' trust him- I do.

I haven't told him I do it, but he saw me doing it a few times- didn't get mad

Posted 5/10/11 9:35 AM
 

sugar-magnolia
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n

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Never. He doesn't check my either.

Posted 5/10/11 9:57 AM
 

Jax430
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Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by cateyemm

Posted by nov04libride

We both answer each other's phones, or read texts as they come. No secrets. Chat Icon



yup



Same here. I've never checked his phone secretly.

Posted 5/10/11 10:01 AM
 

HomeIsWithU
Baby #2 on the way!

Member since 9/07

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Jenn

Re: need to ask.. do you check your spouses cell phone?

Posted by ItsTime2011

Yep - just cause I am nosey...I tell him when I do and he doesn't get upset, he can check mine at anytime he wants.



same here. It has nothing to do with trust...I'm just nosey Chat Icon

Posted 5/10/11 10:02 AM
 
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