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Hang in there mama.....my advice is to take it easy and have a SPECIAL MOVIE DAY....convince the boys it's a special day where they get to lay in mommy's bed in their PJ's ALL day and watch movies together

At least you'll be off your feet for the most part. Praying for you

If you find yourself in dire straits....I'm home tomorrow and just an FM away

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Hey Diana, I'm around tomorrow all day if you need anything. Please let me know.

Prayers for the baby and hugs for you!

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Posted by Diana1215

Posted by Reese32

Diana, I'm so sorry. Is there any way, in light of the circumstances, that DH or your mom can stay home tomorrow to help out? I'll say a prayer for you guys, and take it easy for today at least!

Dh took off three days last week because we closed on our refinance and he got the Lasik surgery.

My mom works a crazy crazy job and I hate asking her to do things like this. I just don't know.

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Oh Diana....

I can come help you for a few hours tomorrow. Like 10:30am to 2pm. DS will be in school. I am serious. If you need me I will come and watch the boys and play with them while you rest/lay down.

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Oh Diana,
If there is anything at all that you need let me know. I am so sorry you are going through this.

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So so sorry you're going through this! Many for you and lots and lots of for the baby. Hang in there!

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Feel free to FM to just even vent if you need to

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I wanted to offer you hugs and prayers. I would totally do a movie day tomorrow. Have your DH take out juice boxes and pre-make fruit dishes, cheese and crackers, or other snacks that your DS can reach in the fridge. Tell them to be your big helpers. Hugs!!!

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Just want to say I bled through my 1st tri with my boys and had a horrible history and still ended up with two healthy boys. I'll be thinking about you. Stay positive and do some visualization

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. Keeping you in m prayers!

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Continued thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay positive....

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Thinking of you ... hang in there ...

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OMG I am just seeing this Diana…..I don’t even know what to say. I am praying sooooooo hard for you. Seriously, I hope with all my might that everything will be okay. Please keep me posted…..

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Oh Diana!!!!! I hope someone is there with you today and you are resting.

but please please remember, like the other girls have said...it is NOTHING you have done, are doing, or will do that can control this. please do not think that way at all!!!!!!! I can only imagine how difficult this is, but know you have no control over whatever happens.

I am praying for you!!!!

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It is never easy to hear but truly, what's meant to be will be. As much as everyone says rest up and such I don't know that it really makes any difference.

I do have a very close friend who had constant bleeding her whole first trimester. They don't know why. And now she has a very happy and healthy 2.5 year old

And speaking from my own personal experience....with this pregnancy at 6w they told me no HB and drew blood. When my blood came back my HCG was at like 30,000 which they said by 10,000 they see HB and fetal pole. They told me to come back in for another sono in 3 days. I went. No HB. They told me non viable pregnancy. Scheduled me for D&C 3 days later.

DH and I talked about not having the procedure and waiting it out since I still felt pregnant. But on day 3 I decided I just wanted to move past this horrific experience. I show up for my appointment. They do sono first to confirm no change. At sure enough, there it was, bright as day 2 healthy heartbeats and 2 healthy fetal poles!

I am no 29 weeks pregnant with identical twin !

Hang in there. Sometimes miracles truly do happen! I'm thinking of you!!

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still thinking of you!!! Lots of you get some answers and everythings OK!

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I hope everything works out... I'm so sorry you're dealing with this!