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I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in {UPDATE}

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Blissful
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I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in {UPDATE}

UPDATE: Went to the ped. She changed the anti biotic to a broad spectrum one, added flovent with an aero chamber, maintaining the albuterol nebs and prednisone until the specialist on Thursday.

Sent us for a Chest X-ray... Part of her lung has collapsed due to the pneumonia... GREAT!.... She is still satting fine 95% on room air so she doesn't think she needs to be hospitalized. We got a pule ox today to monitor her sats at home, the minute they drop I'm off to the hospital....

PLEASE if you are friends with me on FB don't mention this... I have a few "hysterical" family members on there that if I tell them this they'll start FREAKING OUT!

I'll let you know what the pulmonologist says on Thursday






and it's called DENIAL......

She has asthma, whether I call it reflux induced or cold induced... it's freakin asthma.

Heck, I'm an asthmatic I know.... It's not sensitive lungs its ASTHMA....

Ok, now that is out of the way.

LONG story short. She's been sick about 2 weeks now.

started on neb treatments every 3-4 hours 9 days ago. Put on prednisone 7 days ago

diagnosed with pneumonia (No chest X-ray) 6 days ago


Getting worse.... or same.

Call ped on Saturday, she's not better. Ped says, I'm not in town or I'd have you bring her in, take her to Yale.

I'm not taking her to the ER just cause the ped doesn't have coverage. We find an urgent care fascility so I can get a pulse ox on her and have them evaluate her.

MD there is really cool, ex-paramedic so he knows my level of knowledge. Pulse ox is decent 94-95% room air and she is wheezing. Starts her on Singulair and says to continue prednisone see ped on MOnday

Give Singulair and she wakes up Sun morning WAY LESS congested!!! YAY!!! THought she was getting better but all the Singulair did was get rid of the congestions so I can hear more underlying wheezing....

I called my pulmonologist today, one of the BEST in the North East, Best in CT. Earliest he can get her in is THursday on his lunch hour

Going to the ped at 1 today to go over everything and get another pulse ox

I'm at a loss.... this ped can't manage this I know.... what the h e l l do I do until THursday?

Has your kid ever been sick this long at home with nebs every 2-3 hours and steroids for so long and not hospitalized???


I'm not even sure what I'm looking for here.... I'm EXHAUSTED... I've been playing healthcare practitioner more than a mother lately and I can't take it...


any advice? things to ask? what would you do???

Personality wise she's been great, a little more whiny than normal but playing and smiling... that is the only thing that is keeping me sane.

She doesn't LOOK sick but the symptoms is that she's pretty sick!

Help? I'm going to have a major meltdown soon!

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Posted 4/5/10 11:59 AM
 
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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

I don't have any advice - I wish I did, you are always so helpful to me! I just want to send both of you lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/10 12:04 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

OMG, thats scary...You poor guys Chat Icon

My only concern would be that the pulse ox would dip when she sleeps...which is normal to begin with , but if its starting at 94 ish, it could easily dip into the 80's asleep..this is what happened with Chloe and why she was hospitilized for so long with her pnemonia.

But the wheezing couls also last weeks with pnuemonia and not be a bad thing neccesarily.

Is she eating/drinking normally? If she is, thats a great sign and really a big plus and indicator that she is ok .

See what the ped says....if they say hospital, ask what will they do there that cannot be done at home.

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Posted 4/5/10 12:04 PM
 

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No advice just Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
DS is happy but the cough and wheezing are so scary!!!

Posted 4/5/10 12:05 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

I am not sure if I am correct or not but doesn't the singular work over time as opposed to results from one or 2 doses? Jordan took is years ago, but this is ringing a bell with me.

Posted 4/5/10 12:09 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

Posted by dm24angel

OMG, thats scary...You poor guys Chat Icon

My only concern would be that the pulse ox would dip when she sleeps...which is normal to begin with , but if its starting at 94 ish, it could easily dip into the 80's asleep..this is what happened with Chloe and why she was hospitilized for so long with her pnemonia.

But the wheezing couls also last weeks with pnuemonia and not be a bad thing neccesarily.

Is she eating/drinking normally? If she is, thats a great sign and really a big plus and indicator that she is ok .

See what the ped says....if they say hospital, ask what will they do there that cannot be done at home.

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hasn't eaten much in about 6 days. Drinking GREAT!

she has these horrible coughing episodes like 1X a day where she coughs and vomits up mucous everywhere its horrendous.

Everytime I ask about the hospital when they mention it they say they'll "monitor her".... NOTHING different than what I'm doing now... so way take her and subject her to more disease, not to mention I have to pay 20% of the hospital say because of crap insurance

THe pulse ox dipping in her sleep does worry me... she did do that when she was hospitalized in December as well...

ughhhh

Posted 4/5/10 12:10 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

This has been my life since Frankie was 7 weeks old...he was sick for weeks in a row...thank God never been hospitalized...though there were a few close calls.

I am have Asthma, my hubby has severe allergies. SO an official "asthma diagnosis" is more than likely. BUt for now, I treat my kid who has "reactive airway disease" diagnosed by his Pediatric Pulmonologist with the usual Asthma protocol, i.e. corticosteroid and albuterol, until he is old enough to complete the breathing tests to give him the official diagnosis. We see his regular Ped when the specialist is not open. We also keep a bottle of predisone on hand for respiratory distress.

Hang in there. I will say, with regular treatments, this year was bad, but nothing like last year, even despite a bout with pneumonia a month ago.

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Posted 4/5/10 12:10 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

Posted by ChrisDee

I am not sure if I am correct or not but doesn't the singular work over time as opposed to results from one or 2 doses? Jordan took is years ago, but this is ringing a bell with me.



I think so.....

Posted 4/5/10 12:11 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

our longest was 9 days.

pulmicort twice a day

have you tried duoneb? we need that when ever it is cold induced.

duoneb every 3-4 hours

no dairy at all

presidone 5 days

i HATE going to ped's office when pulm can't see us. i feel like whatever pharm rep just left, that is what they try and sell me on. like leave me alone, lets get him hooked up, give me his number so i can see if we need the ER.

I wish post ox machine wasn't 100.00! i need to get one, i just hate spending more.

the dairy for us is huge though.

i know you are exhasted. i swear sometimes we would take him to ER because i needed a few hours off. we would just stare at his stomach all night...bags packed ready to throw him in the car. i am so sorry you are going through this!!

Posted 4/5/10 12:13 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

Maria this sounds dreadful. Awful. and I'm sure that the lack of sleep is NOT helping you cope at all.
No medical advice, but can you call the urgent care ped who you liked and follow up with him, between now and Thursday?
Also make sure the pulmo's office knows that if they get a cancellation you will take the appointment!!!! Is the office staff there helpful or are they dingdongs????

I really don't know anything about asthma so there's no medical contribution I can make but I'm just hoping Lexi feels better!!!! And you too!!!

Posted 4/5/10 12:18 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

Posted by Janice

our longest was 9 days.

pulmicort twice a day

have you tried duoneb? we need that when ever it is cold induced.

duoneb every 3-4 hours

no dairy at all

presidone 5 days

i HATE going to ped's office when pulm can't see us. i feel like whatever pharm rep just left, that is what they try and sell me on. like leave me alone, lets get him hooked up, give me his number so i can see if we need the ER.

I wish post ox machine wasn't 100.00! i need to get one, i just hate spending more.

the dairy for us is huge though.

i know you are exhasted. i swear sometimes we would take him to ER because i needed a few hours off. we would just stare at his stomach all night...bags packed ready to throw him in the car. i am so sorry you are going through this!!



I'll ask about duoneb... I haven't heard of that one. She's been dairy free for 6 days now.....Is he permanently dairy free or just when sick.

We JUST started dairy like 4 weeks ago and FINALLY got her to gain weight while on dairy.... geez, I can't get anythign right! LOl

Posted 4/5/10 12:30 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

Posted by colette

Maria this sounds dreadful. Awful. and I'm sure that the lack of sleep is NOT helping you cope at all.
No medical advice, but can you call the urgent care ped who you liked and follow up with him, between now and Thursday?
Also make sure the pulmo's office knows that if they get a cancellation you will take the appointment!!!! Is the office staff there helpful or are they dingdongs????

I really don't know anything about asthma so there's no medical contribution I can make but I'm just hoping Lexi feels better!!!! And you too!!!



thanks Colette. The MD we saw is not a ped so I'm not 100% comfortable having him follow her until Thurs, then again i'm not comfortable with what my ped is doing either so I guess I'm just effed....

The pulmonologist office is already doing me a HUGE favor in squeezing me in. They know my mom really well since she's a nurse and has worked with them often and I was one of his first patients 15 years ago so they are being super helpful and accommodating with me right now.... He's seeing her on his lunch break...

Posted 4/5/10 12:32 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

I have nothing to offer but Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and to tell you that even though I know you want to go back to being Lexi's mom and not part of her official health care team, she is lucky to have you as her mommy since you know so much about this stuff. I would be in completely over my head and I give you a huge amount of credit!

I hope she feels better very soon!

Posted 4/5/10 12:32 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

Posted by Blissful



I'll ask about duoneb... I haven't heard of that one. She's been dairy free for 6 days now.....Is he permanently dairy free or just when sick.

We JUST started dairy like 4 weeks ago and FINALLY got her to gain weight while on dairy.... geez, I can't get anythign right! LOl



duoneb we use for wetness
albuterol for a dry annoying hack

he was dairy free for 8 months, just bringing it back now...ped wants him off soy...so now we are half dairy, half rice

also have him for the most part gluten free.

i will do anything to get my life back. tore out brand new carpets from his room, took all toys out, curtains down, got all allergy bedding....asthma dyson, diet...see a snot nose kid, we RUN the other way.

for a year...18 mos-2.5 years old...i fell apart. gained so much weight, tired, could not get pregnant, anxiety attacks. i can't live like that. josh wasn't gaining at all. i blame pulimort. we finally got the okay for 1 a day, he put on 5 pounds that month and finally grew a little taller. was at a standsill for a year.

Posted 4/5/10 12:42 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

Posted by Janice

Posted by Blissful



I'll ask about duoneb... I haven't heard of that one. She's been dairy free for 6 days now.....Is he permanently dairy free or just when sick.

We JUST started dairy like 4 weeks ago and FINALLY got her to gain weight while on dairy.... geez, I can't get anythign right! LOl



duoneb we use for wetness
albuterol for a dry annoying hack

he was dairy free for 8 months, just bringing it back now...ped wants him off soy...so now we are half dairy, half rice

also have him for the most part gluten free.

i will do anything to get my life back. tore out brand new carpets from his room, took all toys out, curtains down, got all allergy bedding....asthma dyson, diet...see a snot nose kid, we RUN the other way.

for a year...18 mos-2.5 years old...i fell apart. gained so much weight, tired, could not get pregnant, anxiety attacks. i can't live like that. josh wasn't gaining at all. i blame pulimort. we finally got the okay for 1 a day, he put on 5 pounds that month and finally grew a little taller. was at a standsill for a year.




This is where I am headed...Chat Icon

we have 2 dogs and 2 cats...... All hardwood floors though so I vacuum 1X a day...

Posted 4/5/10 12:47 PM
 

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i'm so sorry mama...i know nothing about asthma or it's conditions Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon just wanted to send you some of these in hopes that she gets better real soon...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

only thing i can think of - can they tell what she's allergic to? maybe she recently developed an allergy to the dogs? maybe the season now that its getting nicer out?

eta - i meant to say, what triggers the asthma, not what she's allergic to! Chat Icon

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Posted 4/5/10 1:10 PM
 

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no advice - justChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/10 1:12 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in

I cant give you advice from a parental view since my DD doesnt have asthma (as of now)

But as a child, i had very very bad asthma. Hospital all the time, pump regularly, a cold would knock me down so much worse than anyone else.

My asthma was allergy-induced. We had a cat and a dog (yorkie). Dog didnt bother me, but cat did. Once the cat passed away (my fam never put two and two together i guess, was different back then), my asthma got soooooo much better.

As of today, my asthma almost non-existant, the ONLY time it acts up is if i go into a house with a cat (im that allergic) or pollen/lots of dog hair

I would try to get her to an allergist for testing if i were you. That way if she is allergic to anything in particular you can control it and hopefully the asthmatic episodes will lessen.

HTH

Posted 4/5/10 1:56 PM
 

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no advice justChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon and prayers for LexiChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/10 2:04 PM
 

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BUMP for update

Posted 4/5/10 5:20 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in {UPDATE}

OMG, I just saw this. How terrible for the both of you.

Why doesn't the ped think she should go to the hospital? I'm pretty sure you can go against your ped on this one and take her. No one at the hospital would question you. Poor thing! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/10 5:29 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in {UPDATE}

Posted by Diana1215

OMG, I just saw this. How terrible for the both of you.

Why doesn't the ped think she should go to the hospital? I'm pretty sure you can go against your ped on this one and take her. No one at the hospital would question you. Poor thing! Chat Icon Chat Icon




I'm ok with her not being hospitalized... I'm still comfortable managing everything at home... She is doing remarkably well considering everythign in maintaining a good amount of oxygen. I didn't get to see the x-ray but I'm assuming the collapse is really small and not affecting her as much.. I'm more concerned about this infection. We are going on 7 days of fevers so hopefully this new prescription will help...

But TRUST ME.. the minute she changes or that pulse ox goes down its off to Yale we go...

We just can't catch a break over here with this...

Posted 4/5/10 5:32 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in {UPDATE}

Posted by Blissful

UPDATE: Went to the ped. She changed the anti biotic to a broad spectrum one, added flovent with an aero chamber, maintaining the albuterol nebs and prednisone until the specialist on Thursday.

Sent us for a Chest X-ray... Part of her lung has collapsed due to the pneumonia... GREAT!.... She is still satting fine 95% on room air so she doesn't think she needs to be hospitalized. We got a pule ox today to monitor her sats at home, the minute they drop I'm off to the hospital....

PLEASE if you are friends with me on FB don't mention this... I have a few "hysterical" family members on there that if I tell them this they'll start FREAKING OUT!

I'll let you know what the pulmonologist says on Thursday



Poor little thing!!Chat Icon

Not that you asked.....but I would bring her to the hospital at this point....you've done what you can....and it doesn't seem to be getting better....I would need to bring her to be monitored in case something goes wrong....
And you need to keep your own sanity, and focusing on her health for this long can't be good for either one of you!Chat Icon

Posted 4/5/10 5:35 PM
 

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Re: I'm in a DEEP river.... Asthma moms come in {UPDATE}

Posted by Palebride

Posted by Blissful

UPDATE: Went to the ped. She changed the anti biotic to a broad spectrum one, added flovent with an aero chamber, maintaining the albuterol nebs and prednisone until the specialist on Thursday.

Sent us for a Chest X-ray... Part of her lung has collapsed due to the pneumonia... GREAT!.... She is still satting fine 95% on room air so she doesn't think she needs to be hospitalized. We got a pule ox today to monitor her sats at home, the minute they drop I'm off to the hospital....

PLEASE if you are friends with me on FB don't mention this... I have a few "hysterical" family members on there that if I tell them this they'll start FREAKING OUT!

I'll let you know what the pulmonologist says on Thursday



Poor little thing!!Chat Icon

Not that you asked.....but I would bring her to the hospital at this point....you've done what you can....and it doesn't seem to be getting better....I would need to bring her to be monitored in case something goes wrong....
And you need to keep your own sanity, and focusing on her health for this long can't be good for either one of you!Chat Icon




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Trust me... I'm almost there... almost. I may just end up taking her...She's sleeping comfortably now and I'm waiting for DH to get home from a buisness trip. I just can't even think clearly anymore.

Ironically I'm waiting for teh ped to call back because the prescription for the new antibiotic I have here is NOT WHAT she prescribed Chat Icon I think the pharmacy gave us the wrong thing or changed the script without telling me...

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Posted 4/5/10 5:48 PM
 

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i'm so sorry maria Chat Icon keep me posted, Chat Icon for lexi Chat Icon Chat Icon

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