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I am quitting temping

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jteach
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Jess

I am quitting temping

I have a very regular cycle and O on pretty much the same day every cycle. I think I became alittle (ok a lot) OCD last month with the temping, and symptoms, and poas, it just got out of hand.

So this month will be different. I will still use my OPK's and I will BD like a bunny and I will not test unless AF is late, I will not obsess over a damm chart or look into every single symptom that may or may not really be there.

Here is to a stress free month Chat Icon

CD5 and waiting

Posted 4/3/10 12:00 PM
 
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ns1011
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Name:
Nic

Re: I am quitting temping

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Posted 4/3/10 12:21 PM
 

TheDivineMrsM
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Member since 8/08

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Mama mama mama....

Re: I am quitting temping

You've got to do what works for you.

For me, not temping would've stressed me more. I needed those little clues and information - even it was an answer I didn't like. But if it's making you crazy and affecting your sleep, plenty of women get pg w/o it.

Good luck!

Posted 4/3/10 12:25 PM
 

babylove628
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Member since 11/09

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Name:
Maggie

Re: I am quitting temping

Good Luck!!!

I think we have the same OCD personality, I can't temp bc i will obsess way too too much...And I refuse to POAS before AF is late!! We can support each other Chat Icon

Posted 4/3/10 1:09 PM
 

jteach
2 and through

Member since 9/07

3939 total posts

Name:
Jess

Re: I am quitting temping

Posted by babylove628

Good Luck!!!

I think we have the same OCD personality, I can't temp bc i will obsess way too too much...And I refuse to POAS before AF is late!! We can support each other Chat Icon




I should have known, I am OCD in every aspect of my life, so why would TTC be any different LOL. I can definetly use all the help I can get so I would love to help support each other. Where are you in your cycle?

Posted 4/3/10 2:08 PM
 

babylove628
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Member since 11/09

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Name:
Maggie

Re: I am quitting temping

Posted by olliesmama

Posted by babylove628

Good Luck!!!

I think we have the same OCD personality, I can't temp bc i will obsess way too too much...And I refuse to POAS before AF is late!! We can support each other Chat Icon




I should have known, I am OCD in every aspect of my life, so why would TTC be any different LOL. I can definetly use all the help I can get so I would love to help support each other. Where are you in your cycle?



I'm in the 2WW, CD25 today and I usually get AF around CD30 so 4/9 is my cut off date then if she doesn't show im POAS Chat Icon

Posted 4/3/10 3:56 PM
 

MrsC614
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Member since 7/09

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Name:
Gina

Re: I am quitting temping

The thing I liked about temping though is that you're able to tell whether or not you're pregnant.................I didn't have to pee on a stick until I knew I was sure, and I could tell that by my chart after I ovulated. Something to think about. I know it's frustrating, but it's worth doing. JMOChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/3/10 4:03 PM
 

jteach
2 and through

Member since 9/07

3939 total posts

Name:
Jess

Re: I am quitting temping

Posted by MrsC614

The thing I liked about temping though is that you're able to tell whether or not you're pregnant.................I didn't have to pee on a stick until I knew I was sure, and I could tell that by my chart after I ovulated. Something to think about. I know it's frustrating, but it's worth doing. JMOChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Yeah, I hear ya, but I can also tell just by seeing if AF comes. I mean my cycle is so regular so its not a problem for me.

I know this is a good idea for me, not for all but definetly for me Chat Icon

Posted 4/3/10 4:43 PM
 

keepingsecrets
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Member since 7/09

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Re: I am quitting temping

good luck!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon hope you have a stress free month!!!

Posted 4/3/10 5:36 PM
 

FlowerWife
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Re: I am quitting temping

Posted by TheDivineMrsM

You've got to do what works for you.

For me, not temping would've stressed me more. I needed those little clues and information - even it was an answer I didn't like. But if it's making you crazy and affecting your sleep, plenty of women get pg w/o it.

Good luck!



same here. but it did take me about a month of temping before i stopped looking into every temp. now i cant imagine not temping!

Posted 4/3/10 5:49 PM
 

maybemommy10
Big Brothers to Be !

Member since 2/10

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Re: I am quitting temping

My cycle has always been pretty regular, and between temping, opks, checking CM, etc etc i was making myself crazy. When i wasn't obsessing over TTC in real life, i was combing the internet reading anything i could about TTCing. I wore myself out. The one good thing about seeing a RE is now HE worries about my O:)

I say take a few months off of temping, you can always start again. Good Luck !!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/3/10 5:59 PM
 

MrsH2007
LIF Infant

Member since 12/09

79 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: I am quitting temping

I am in the same boat as you. I just stopped temping this month. I have a VERY regular cycle (has been the same my whole life) and I know exactly when I O. My OB actually told me to stop the temping for a while bc the stress could interfere with the actual baby making. So I am going to give it a little while and let nature take its course and see what happens. I am on CD10 and I honestly feel completely stress free. I am not worrying about waking up at the same time every morning (especially during my week long vacation) or analyzing every little detail in my chart. So I definitely agree with you, for some people I think temping definitely works, but for others...I guess like me and you, maybe we can hold off on it!

GOOD LUCK to a stress free month!!!!

Posted 4/3/10 7:28 PM
 

alli3131
Peanut is here!!!!!!

Member since 5/09

18388 total posts

Name:
Allison

Re: I am quitting temping

i dont temp...I just use OPK and that's it....for me it cuts down on a lot of stress. My doc said the less stress the better you are during this time so this is the best scheme for me .

Posted 4/3/10 10:09 PM
 

WishingforBaby
LIF Adult

Member since 10/09

1110 total posts

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Re: I am quitting temping

I stopped temping too for that reason, you get a little crazy. I'm back to it now though. Chat Icon

Posted 4/4/10 8:35 PM
 
 

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