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AnxiousPants
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/09 864 total posts
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EDD 10/22!
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I'm just so sad.
Woke up to another big drop in temps (down to my coverline now) and AF is here.
And is a full day early ... that means my LP was 12 instead of the 13 days it was the previous 2 months of charting. Not sure what to make of that.
My chart was perfect, even triphasic for a number of days. I really do believe that all the symptoms I was feeling were real. They were not in my head. I didn't imagine them. I didn't manufacture them. I didn't convince myself I was feeling them.
I almost feel like maybe things were headed in the right direction and then something went horribly wrong. Does that make any sense?
I know this was only our third cycle trying so I am sure that many of you have gone through similar disappointments multiple times in the past.
I'm just so sad. Overwhelmingly sad.
And I don't know how to pick myself up and move on.
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LadyBug1209
Mommy to FOUR little men!
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Re: I'm just so sad.
I'm so sorry! 
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| Posted 2/3/10 10:04 AM |
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matzena
Lucky 7 <3
Member since 9/08 1213 total posts
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Ashley
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Re: I'm just so sad.
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| Posted 2/3/10 10:10 AM |
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Karebaby
Precious
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Karyn
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Re: I'm just so sad.
I'm sorry. It's horriible when you have all the symptoms, and the "feeling" and then stupid AF shows. It's way worse then if you never had any symptoms at all.
I will be crossing my fingers and hope you get your BFP this cycle!
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| Posted 2/3/10 10:11 AM |
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AnxiousPants
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/09 864 total posts
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EDD 10/22!
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Re: I'm just so sad.
Posted by Karebaby
I'm sorry. It's horriible when you have all the symptoms, and the "feeling" and then stupid AF shows. It's way worse then if you never had any symptoms at all.
I will be crossing my fingers and hope you get your BFP this cycle!
Yes, that's it exactly!
Last month, even though our BD timing was right on target, I just didn't have symptoms. I didn't "feel pregnant". I never tested with HPTs. And I was perfectly fine when AF showed.
This time was so different.
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| Posted 2/3/10 10:14 AM |
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BlueDiamonds
mommy to 3 boys
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Re: I'm just so sad.
I'm so sorry It is perfectly normal for your LP to vary by a day.
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| Posted 2/3/10 10:14 AM |
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AnxiousPants
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/09 864 total posts
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Re: I'm just so sad.
Posted by BlueDiamonds
I'm so sorry It is perfectly normal for your LP to vary by a day.
Thanks for that info.
I was a bit worried, though I didn't have the energy to research it quite yet.
I thought that O day would change but LP would stay the same.
Good to know that I don't need to be freaked out by a varying LP.
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| Posted 2/3/10 10:16 AM |
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MayBbaby21
Baby no. 3 coming soon!
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Re: I'm just so sad.
I'm sorry It just stinks!
Every month I have a thought of "what if an egg implanted but didn't stick?" but the truth is, we'll never know so you can't drive yourself crazy thinking about that.
I'm hoping  next month is your month!
Message edited 2/3/2010 10:24:25 AM.
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jteach
2 and through
Member since 9/07 3939 total posts
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Jess
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Re: I'm just so sad.
I am so sorry, I wish there was something one of us could say to make you feel better. Just remember that each month there is only about a 25% change of conceiving.
Just try and hang in there and focus on next month
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| Posted 2/3/10 10:26 AM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
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LB
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Re: I'm just so sad.
I'm so sorry. It really is very frustrating.
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| Posted 2/3/10 10:29 AM |
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dcl08
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Re: I'm just so sad.
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Hofstra26
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Re: I'm just so sad.
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| Posted 2/3/10 10:51 AM |
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AMPirate
Missing our peanut :(
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Re: I'm just so sad.
I'm so sorry
Hoping that next cycle you get your BFP
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| Posted 2/3/10 10:57 AM |
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mrsSandsohappy
LIF Infant
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Jeanette
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Re: I'm just so sad.
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MrsC614
My little angel is here <3
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Re: I'm just so sad.
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
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Re: I'm just so sad.
Oh I'm so sorry! for next month.
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| Posted 2/3/10 2:41 PM |
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HolyBabyFever09
LIF Infant
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Shhh, Its a secret!
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Re: I'm just so sad.
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FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...
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Re: I'm just so sad.
im soo sorry i really thought this was your month!!
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| Posted 2/3/10 3:10 PM |
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TheDivineMrsM
2 girls 4 me!
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Re: I'm just so sad.
You're not alone! Rant, scream (or write in all caps), whatever you need to do. It helps. I felt the same way last month. I couldn't stop crying for an entire day. (I think DH was ready to ship me off to therapy).
Wouldn't it be easier if babies actually came from storks??
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Re: I'm just so sad.
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Coosie
So in love with my little boy!
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Re: I'm just so sad.
Oh no! I'm so sorry!!! I hope next month is your BFP!!
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| Posted 2/3/10 6:18 PM |
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jerseygirl
LIF Adolescent
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Re: I'm just so sad.
It is SO HARD to stay positive when TTC. It took us 10 months before we got our BFP...and there were some days that I just couldn't stop crying. The sadness and disappointment really can be alot to handle some months. But...hopefully you won't have to wait too much longer and you get your BFP very soon! Good Luck.
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Miss2mrs
LIF Adolescent
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Re: I'm just so sad.
I know how you feel. I am in my 5th cycle ttt and it is hard. I think we all get down everytime AF shows her face.
But usually when AF finishes, I get more excited to start again and then torture myself during the 2ww.
Keep your head up girl. It will happen. Just have faith but I totally understand what its like to get down.
I think we all do.
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Re: I'm just so sad.
I'm sorry!! TTC sucks and is overwhelming.
Please don't lose hope, things will work out. Sometimes it's the things you want most that we struggle and have to be patient for.
I know how you feel though!!
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BabyFever10
St. Gianna Pray for us
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Re: I'm just so sad.
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