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This is so hard sometimes ~Update!

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DanielleP
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This is so hard sometimes ~Update!

This is only our thrid month trying and its already so hard. I have had always had a regular AF. I spoke to be Doctor before TTC and she said all looks good and every month I am not pregnant.

I have had AF like symptoms for three days now and it is due today and nothing yet. I haven't tested since 10DPO and it was a BFN. I know it was early but I wanted to test on Christmas just in case.

I do not post often but when I read this board it really does help. Thanks everyone!


UPDATE: I am officially out. I was two days late which is not like me but AF came this morning.
Thanks again for the support

Message edited 12/30/2009 8:41:37 AM.

Posted 12/28/09 1:41 PM
 
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LKDRNW
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Re: This is so hard sometimes

Chat Icon Chat Icon TTC is def not an easy process
I do agree that 10DPO was early
and you are not out till AF
But you could be late due to stress of the holidays and TTC
Maybe you can test tom with FMU???
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Posted 12/28/09 1:45 PM
 

MayBbaby21
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Re: This is so hard sometimes

I can relate. This process is a lot harder than I imaginedChat Icon

I also agree 10DPO can be too early and I would wait until tomorrow am to test again.
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Posted 12/28/09 2:17 PM
 

8ternity
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Re: This is so hard sometimes

We are all in this together, we all know how you feel. If you ever need to talk you can count on us girls!

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Posted 12/28/09 3:06 PM
 

ElizaRags35
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Re: This is so hard sometimes

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Posted 12/28/09 10:04 PM
 

MrsList
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Re: This is so hard sometimes

It took us 3 months as well, mostly because we weren't timing BD correctly. But it'll happen! It can take someone with absolutely NO reproductive issues up to 6-9 months to get pregnant just because of odds. And 10DPO is a little too early to test and not worth the disappointment IMO. I tested on 10DPO (BFN) and again 12DPO (BFP!).

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Posted 12/28/09 10:38 PM
 

DanielleP
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Re: This is so hard sometimes

Thank you. I tested this morning and nothing. Still no AF either so I guess its a waiting game now.

Posted 12/29/09 10:31 AM
 

Dee0522
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Re: This is so hard sometimes

Agreed... this is much more difficult than I ever thought it would be too. You see so many teenagers and people who aren't ready for kids having them left and right, and it makes it seem so easy!

We all just have to keep remembering: it will be SO worth the wait!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/29/09 3:56 PM
 

wants2bamom
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Re: This is so hard sometimes

It really is hard and I never thought it would be so hard to get pregnant! I am 12 DPO and Im discouraged too...in limbo land. I tested 10 & 11 DPO and both BFN! I dont even think I want to test today- thats how sure I am that Im going to see AF in 2 daysChat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 12/29/2009 4:23:05 PM.

Posted 12/29/09 4:22 PM
 

MrsList
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Re: This is so hard sometimes

Posted by Dee0522

Agreed... this is much more difficult than I ever thought it would be too. You see so many teenagers and people who aren't ready for kids having them left and right, and it makes it seem so easy!

We all just have to keep remembering: it will be SO worth the wait!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon



I think it's less easy than it seems for those people. The women who get all knocked up without trying may have had sex every O day, RIGHT on time, for 6 months and STILL have not gotten pregnant except this one month when they did. Since they weren't testing, agonizing, analyzing, they had no idea that it took 6 months to get pregnant.

I will say that people who get pregnant in the first month of trying are a little irritating but honestly, if my DH wasn't a huge prude, I probably would have been one of those women because we're very fertile in my family.

Posted 12/29/09 4:25 PM
 

HereIAm
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Re: This is so hard sometimes

It is THE hardest thing. Chat Icon Best of luck to you! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/29/09 6:01 PM
 

DanielleP
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Re: This is so hard sometimes ~Update!

update above

Posted 12/30/09 8:46 AM
 
 

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