Not Helping!!! - Now with TMI! FINAL UPDATE

So DH and I were just eating McDonalds (yeah reall healthy I know - but we both worked late tonight) and about 2 minutes after DH opened up the sticky bun bites, or whatever the heck they were, I had to run out of the room to puke cause the smell of the sticky buns got to me. AF is due Mon-Tues. I really really feel like AF is coming, but then I do things like this! I probably just inhaled my food a bit too fast. DH was jokingly like, so if you puke on the stick will it still tell you you're pregnant? Now DH is bouncing around the house just a little too happy and I just feel like crud. And of course, reality, who I was actually getting along with for once, is now running away and letting my imagination take over Maybe I should test tomorrow with FMU. This is annoying, like someone said last month, it would be great if life was like the Sims and you just got a ! over your head when you got pregnant.

***Update at bottom***

Message edited 10/15/2009 8:03:56 PM.

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Wow. I would have to test tomorrow morning w/ FMU if I were you. I know I am not being helpful at all with helping you wait, but if it were me I know after that I couldn't.

Good luck!!! Keep us posted. Also I was due mon-tue of this week & got a faint line on friday night last weekend. Just saying.

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Test this morning!!!

I hope you get your BFP!!!!! Keep us posted.

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OK, so I tested this morning with FMU and as I'm waiting on the test, I realize it is not an "early response" test. D'Oh! Of course it comes up with a BFN.

I had DH pick up FRER tonight and I just took it (6 hour hold) and it is also BFN...but in some angles I think I see the slightest of a line (although it is probably just from staring at it for so long that the image of a line is burnt onto my retina so I see something that isn't there ). But seriously if there is something, it is even less than what ShhDontTell has on her post.

This just means that I can keep POASing

I don't know if I should test again tomorrow morning with FMU, seeing how I just got a BFN at 10pm, and I will be getting up at about 7 tomorrow...but I probably will cave

I'll keep the updates rolling.

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Did you test???? WhAT IS THE RESULT.....I ahd a line with DS that everyone thought I was crazy two days later that line was alot darker and people felt bad calling me crazy

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I tested this morning with my last internet cheapy, and bfn. Now I really feel like AF is coming though. Of course its not over till AF actually does come! I'll continue to keep you guys posted till I get an answer either way

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I know how you mean. I know that AF is on her way (I can feel it - she's due tomorrow), and yet I've been soooo exhausted all week & weekend (more so than I ever am). The only explanation to ME would be that I'm pregnant, however, i really don't feel that I am. So it's one of those annoying situations like what you're in. Plus I'm getting sick, so that would explain the exhaustion & such.

Definitely test again when you can. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

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Once again with a BFP and all the AF symptoms stopped - except for exhaustion - I've napped soooo much this weekend!! AF is due either today or tomorrow. Just want an answer either way at this point.

Oh and I've been really gassy lately.

OK I'm delusional and just keep trying to come up with excuses at this point

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It's not over till AF shows her ugly face.




when i got my BFP it was not untill a few days after my missed period....... it kept coming up a bfn pior. So there still is a chance.

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ooh, what about the fact that I feel like I've been running a really low fever for the past few days? I don't have a thermometer (well actually I do, but I have no clue where it is) so I cannot confirm that....plus I don't temp so I wouldn't even know if my temp is up...i just know that my face feels warm while the rest of me feels cold, as it always does when I have a slight fever

Once again, grasping at straws here

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and btw thank you ladies for being there with me for this one!

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So today is the day AF is due. I've been crampy on and off today. Driving home today, I thought for sure that AF was here.
Warning! Here is where the TMI comes in!
Anyway, driving home I thought for sure that AF was here. I could feel the flow KWIM? Of course I was panicking because I wasn't 'prepared' for AF since I didn't feel like she was about to come. I get home and run to the bathroom so I could armor up. Well, still no AF. Instead, I had a TON of CM. I don't usually have CM, so I'm not really sure what it is supposed to be like at this point in my cycle. Of course I still have no AF and BFNs! I just want to cry. I want a decisive answer! I know from reading this site and randomly finding posts on other TTC sites, I know that some ladies have AF-like cramping before a BFP - and I'm trying not to get my hopes up. I am just so frustrated right now!!!!!!

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hang in there!!!!

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I completely know how you feel....

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What kind of test are you using??? How long do you wait before looking at them??? Have you checked any of them after the time limit???

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I'm using FRER. I give them 8 minutes to 'bake' and then have 2 minutes to examine them for any extra pink lines (which end up just being spots that are baked onto my eyes). I don't check after the 10 minutes though because I did that once last month and now I know why they tell you not to

Oh and have I mentioned that I can't even take out the garbage now without feeling like I'm about to puke? I just put the garbage in the back yard so DH can bring it to the can when he gets home.

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I say if AF doesn't come by the weekend go to the doc and demand a blood test.

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Have you taken a digital? I am not a huge fan of those FRER tests. You sound exactly like I did before I got my BFP. The CM was out of control.

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1. I'm on vacation Saturday till next Friday...and I can't get into the doc before then

2. If I don't get any answers tomorrow either way I'm getting a digital.

I give up why is it such an epic thing this month?

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Posted by KNic19

1. I'm on vacation Saturday till next Friday...and I can't get into the doc before then

2. If I don't get any answers tomorrow either way I'm getting a digital.

I give up why is it such an epic thing this month?

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So far no new news! Actually, all everything has stopped. No symptoms of either. This is getting very annoying.

And DH isn't being helpful any more...he's getting close to a big kick in the rear. My mom always had this fun tendancy to get AF while on vacation. Every single vacation. Since her honeymoon. I have been getting AF the end of vacation for the past few times (and you know just how much I want to BD right before AF? Not at all - I get miserable). DH thinks thats why I don't have AF yet. That I am stressing myself out trying to get packed and get schoolwork out of the way before vacation. Which is very likely. HOWEVER, telling me every night for the past 2 days that I have to just get over it and calm down and that I'm doing this to myself, is doing nothing more than stressing me out and ticking me off! I am going to have to have a talk with him if he starts that tihs tonight. I nearly smacked him last night.