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Question as per DH's request? possible TMI
So last night when we BD (still a little early for us but just in case don't want to miss it) DH freaked out that all the sperm/semen fell out of me. Now realistically I stayed lying down for at least 20 mins after. So he says you better go on there (LIF's) & ask those other girls if it matters. So he wants to know does it matter that it leaks out? Will we still get pregnant? I tried to explain to him that the speed at which it happens surely does the job, but he just doesn't buy it. I am going to have to make him what that movie they show you in hs health class. So please humor him opinions please!
btw: does anyone else experience a lot of "stuff" leaking out after BD? and if so how to manage to keep the sheets clean. I feel like I have to change them all the time after we BD.
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Posted 9/16/09 1:55 PM |
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queenOFhearts
LIF Adolescent

Member since 9/09 694 total posts
Name: Jacquie
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Re: Question as per DH's request? possible TMI
Tell him it's called GRAVITY ! LOL! Everybody is a little different so if you leak more then some no worries, may be DH has a big load
Message edited 9/16/2009 2:21:43 PM.
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Posted 9/16/09 2:17 PM |
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ns1011
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Member since 4/09 2697 total posts
Name: Nic
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Re: Question as per DH's request? possible TMI
I've learned that its the semen that's coming out and the sperm still get where they need to go. Happens pretty often for me too so I just am careful afterwards.
HTH
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Posted 9/16/09 2:18 PM |
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JenMarie
One day at a time

Member since 11/07 7397 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: Question as per DH's request? possible TMI
A lot comes out of me also. The good sperm get where they need to go. It's just the semen and "dead" sperm that leak out. We usually put a towel underneath to keep the bed clean.
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Posted 9/16/09 2:47 PM |
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8ternity
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Member since 11/08 10586 total posts
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Re: Question as per DH's request? possible TMI
Happens to me all the time, I keep a box of tissues near me now lol Theres not much you can do unless you stand upside down!
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Posted 9/16/09 3:15 PM |
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Re: Question as per DH's request? possible TMI
Posted by JenMarie
We usually put a towel underneath to keep the bed clean. We do this too
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Posted 9/16/09 3:33 PM |
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Re: Question as per DH's request? possible TMI
These responses are great! I can't wait to share w/ DH. Still plan to find & make him watch the miracle of life video.
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Posted 9/16/09 3:35 PM |
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Otherme
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Re: Question as per DH's request? possible TMI
We keep a box of tissues by the bed, and as soon as he pulls out, i use the tissues to keep anything from leaking out on the sheets.
i too have heard that the 'good' sperm basically stays inside as soon as it comes out of him, and that what leaks out is semen and 'extra' stuff. I wouldn't worry too much about losing any of the good guys! they're trained to swim up 
As old as i am, i sometimes think i could use a refresher on the high school movie basics too!
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Posted 9/16/09 4:29 PM |
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lucamon
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Member since 6/09 1133 total posts
Name: Samantha
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Re: Question as per DH's request? possible TMI
This might be TMI. If DH pulls out right after then I leak. If he stays put for a few minutes I hold it better. or at least till I pee then it comes out.
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Posted 9/16/09 5:54 PM |
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