I'm so confused

Let me start off with saying that AF shows up every 30 days ....I have a very regular cycle.

Last month I started using opk's on cycle day 13 ...i got a positive..did again on cd 14 and got a positive too..dh and I did our thing but dh wasnt feel well so we skipped a few days which didnt help..so on to this month

so now this month... I tested on cd 13, 14, 15, 16 and no positive yet..I'm aggravated as to what is going on. I'm most fertile this week (mymonthlycycles) from tues to saturday...it's already thur and nothing. I dont get it!!!!!!!! I've still been bd every other day with dh hoping that sometihng will stick. This whole process is so discouraging!!!



Thanks for the vent,...needed to get it out there..cause im at a loss!!

Re: I'm so confused

You don't ovulate on the same day every month...every month is different.
I would BD every other day unitl you see a positive.

Just Hang in there!

Re: I'm so confused

Thank you!!! I'm running low on the opks too!! ughh...but one good thing...I got Pre-Seed in the mail. Hopefully that helps too

Re: I'm so confused

hey there,
i'm having an off month too. i usually O on day 17 and today is day 19 w/ no signs (CM or BBT) that O is anywhere in sight.

i am trying not to stress about it, which was good advice from the other ttc ladies on here.

i don't have any words of wisdom, but here's some

Re: I'm so confused

If you're stressing about Oing, it can delay it, so try your best to relax.

Oing can happen at all sorts of different times in your cycle and just because you normally O at a certain time, does not mean you'll always O at that time. I know it's so frustrating!!!! I would keep BDing. Are you charting your temps? That's a great way to see whether or not you Oed. Good luck!

Re: I'm so confused

I don't have much wisdom to offer b/c I'm sorta new at this myself but I wanted to let you know that I too am experiencing an off month. I have always been very regular as far as AF, Oing, EWCM - the whole nine yards. Of course the month that we are both pretty serious about TTC, DH is sick, I have no EWCM and my OPK seemed a bit wierd (although I did get matching lines).

Try not to let it get you down. The good thing is that you are pretty much regular, so it probably just is an "off month" and nothing more. And like a PP said, stress is def a major factor so try to just relax and if it's not this month - on to the next. Easier said than done -trust me I know. I was really hoping to at least be in the running this month but DH was SO sick that my chances are pretty much non existent. I'm trying to look on the bright side and chalk it up to the whole "what's meant to be is meant to be".