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Ladyinred
LIF Adolescent

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Want to cry

just took a test and got a BFN.. I am so upset. I know its only been a couple of months but I feel like my fears are coming true that there is something wrong. I want to be pregnant so bad. I cant take this anymore..

Posted 6/10/09 2:39 PM
 
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MaMaTeenie
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Mommy

Re: Want to cry

i'm so sorry. I know how much those BFN's hurt. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/09 2:47 PM
 

MrsTeachMe
LIF Toddler

Member since 1/08

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Re: Want to cry

I know what you mean. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/09 3:34 PM
 

08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.

Member since 10/07

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Re: Want to cry

I am so sorry. Those stupid BFN's are a real blow. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Lot's of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for next month!!!

Posted 6/10/09 3:34 PM
 

InShock
life is good

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Posted 6/10/09 3:49 PM
 

Makin-da-baby
Praying so hard this is it!!!

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Undercover Lover

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Posted 6/10/09 4:39 PM
 

Ladyinred
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/09

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Re: Want to cry

Thank you. I feel better, it just really hurts to see a BFN.

Posted 6/10/09 8:12 PM
 

couldbtwins
I love you so much!

Member since 10/08

1761 total posts

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Re: Want to cry

We have all been where you are Chat Icon Some months are harder than others. Hang in there and don't let this get you down! Think of the wonderful reward that comes from all of this Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/09 9:35 PM
 

Tinyswife
My family is complete

Member since 4/07

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Cathleen

Re: Want to cry

It does not get easier each month. I wish it did. I have been doing alot of reading and learned that the average healthy woman takes 8-9 months to get pregnant. I know it does not help the BFN's, but it made me feel like less of a failure to here that. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/10/09 9:40 PM
 

munchkinfacemama
LOVE

Member since 11/07

15800 total posts

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Michelle

Re: Want to cry

I can definitely relate to how you are feeling-the first few months, you cry, the next few you become numb. Let yourself feel emotion-it is natural. We have been TTC since November and i am ready to Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon bang my head against the wall. Just hang in there and remember that it can take a normal couple under 35 1 year to conceive. And if you feel something is off, call the OB and ask to come in for a consult-that always helps.

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Posted 6/10/09 9:45 PM
 

Lisa982006
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Lisa

Re: Want to cry

Posted by Tinyswife

It does not get easier each month. I wish it did. I have been doing alot of reading and learned that the average healthy woman takes 8-9 months to get pregnant. I know it does not help the BFN's, but it made me feel like less of a failure to here that. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



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Posted 6/11/09 7:15 AM
 

bunintheoven09
LIF Infant

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Samantha

Re: Want to cry

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Posted 6/11/09 7:57 AM
 

nferrandi
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Nicole

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Posted 6/11/09 9:46 AM
 

lbw
I am ONE !!!!!

Member since 5/07

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Lisette

Re: Want to cry

I know how you feel... Chat Icon It can be very frustrating and painful. Here are some Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for you and I wish us all lots and lots of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for our next cycles

Posted 6/11/09 12:19 PM
 

Otherme
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Member since 3/06

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Re: Want to cry

Please don't feel discouraged. I know we all want this to happen so badly, but for some people it just takes time and doesn't happen in just a few months. If you're under 35 and its only been a few months, try to hang in there a little longer.
If you really want to make yourself feel better then make an appt. with your dr
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Posted 6/11/09 12:57 PM
 

scanlj
LIF Toddler

Member since 4/09

379 total posts

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Re: Want to cry

i'm sorry sorry i havent been trying long either - but the BFN's do hurt :(

Posted 6/11/09 2:56 PM
 

jerseygirl
LIF Adolescent

Member since 11/08

808 total posts

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Re: Want to cry

Chat Icon I know how you feel. I've been trying since November and unfortunately it does not get any easier.

Posted 6/11/09 3:15 PM
 

HighHopes
U are my best Christmas gift!

Member since 3/09

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Name:
Kathy

Re: Want to cry

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope this next cycle proves to be productive for you Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon!

Posted 6/14/09 6:39 PM
 
 

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