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BayB614
LIF Adolescent
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BD trouble
I think the stress of ttc is starting to get to us... especially DH. he's always asking if I used the OPK, what did it show, am I Oing.. etc. when it get to BD time... well... sometimes we start and don't finish.  and we obviously cant get pregnant if we aren't BDing!!
Is anyone else having issues with DH like this? I don't know what to do to get rid of the stress in the bedroom.
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Posted 4/30/09 11:08 PM  |
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Angel321
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Re: BD trouble
we had the same issue...knowing it was THE time - was a mental problem for Dave. the pressure was too much....
i stopped sharing when i was using them....or i'd lie and say it was now (when really it was next week)...
talk to him about it and let him know you're not going to share the opk info anymore - as it'll be easier on both of you!!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 4/30/09 11:38 PM |
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Agape08
LIF Adolescent
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Kathy
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Re: BD trouble
you are not alone! just try not to think about it (ha) 
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| Posted 5/1/09 7:47 AM |
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kms717
St Philomena Protect My Son
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Kelly
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Re: BD trouble
I had that issue one month, then DH told me not to tell him when I'm O. No problems since.
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| Posted 5/1/09 8:34 AM |
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JennyPenny
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Jen
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Re: BD trouble
DH had the same issue when it was "BDing on demand".
I agree with not letting him now it HAS to be right now!!
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| Posted 5/1/09 8:42 AM |
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nferrandi
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Nicole
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Re: BD trouble
We have had that problem before, you're not alone. But the best thing you can do is try to take the pressure off. Keep DH out of the loop about OPKs and make sure you BD even when you don't need to, otherwise he'll know you're just coming for him to make a baby. 
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| Posted 5/1/09 9:09 AM |
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BayB614
LIF Adolescent
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Re: BD trouble
we talked this morning and I told him don't ask me about the opk's because i don't think we should worry about it so much and its stressing him out (not lilke the opk's are showing any signs of O right now anyways!) I told him i think he is just thinking about everything way too much and we shouldn't really worry about it too much anymore and just have fun. (but of course I will still be analyzing every little thing with my body right now; I just won't tell him about it!!) I feel kind of bad keeping this kind of stuff from him right now; I like to talk to him about everything. But I don't want him to worry so much either.
Thanks for the support ladies, it's nice to be able to hear from other people who have been there!!
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| Posted 5/1/09 3:02 PM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: BD trouble
FM!
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| Posted 5/1/09 3:04 PM |
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wants2bmommy
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Re: BD trouble
this became an issue our secondm onth trying, try and not tell him all this info it makes them crazy, just give him extra attention and get him in the mood. best of luck
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| Posted 5/1/09 3:04 PM |
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Cherry77
LIF Toddler
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Cher
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Re: BD trouble
you have FM!!!
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| Posted 5/1/09 6:37 PM |
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