| Posted By |
Message |
| Pages: [1] 2 |
ArmyOfBabies
Growing older but not up
Member since 7/07 4427 total posts
Name:
Jeri
|
I Guess This Might Be It...
My beta came back and I'm not pregnant
I'm going to talk to DH tonight about it, but I think this is it for me. This has been more emotionally straining than I ever thought it would be. Back in November 2007 I thought that I would have no problem getting pregnant since I got pregnant so easily with DD. After 15 months of this and all the tests, I still have no answers and no baby.
Today for the first time I looked at the paper they give me to give the receptionist and I read "female unexplained infertility". I guess I never thought of it that way.
I always wanted 4 or 5 kids. Now I don't know if I'll ever have 2. I'm so incredibly sad right now. I had a feeling I wasn't going to be pregnant this month and even though I didn't get my hopes up, it's still hurts bad.
I don't know if I'll be on much anymore. I'll look in to check up on you girls. But I've had enough. I thought I was a stronger person than I am.
I wish you all the best of luck and I appreciate all the support, encouragement, advice and friendship you've all given me during this journey.
  
|
Posted 3/7/09 4:25 PM  |
| |
|
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource |
mommyago
♥ Lucas and Layla
Member since 8/08 2979 total posts
Name:
Jenise
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
|
| Posted 3/7/09 4:48 PM |
| |
|
couldbtwins
I love you so much!
Member since 10/08 1761 total posts
Name:
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
This happend to DH's cousin and she ended up PG with twins at some point. Just give yourelf a beak for a while and enjoy what you do have. TTC is sho hard on us in the best of circumstances.
|
| Posted 3/7/09 5:42 PM |
| |
|
CrankyPants
I'm cranky
Member since 7/06 18178 total posts
Name:
Mama Cranky
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how difficult this has been-I've been TTC for our second for some time now and it has been a struggle-I'm hoping you will have your little one soon
|
| Posted 3/7/09 7:52 PM |
| |
|
JavaJunkie
Someday, Somehow
Member since 6/05 5857 total posts
Name:
Lois
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
Call me, let's go out for coffee
|
| Posted 3/7/09 10:28 PM |
| |
|
annienyc
LIF Adult
Member since 10/06 1347 total posts
Name:
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
I'm so sorry! I know how it feels...
Take a break and hope you come back to us with happy news some day!
|
| Posted 3/7/09 10:33 PM |
| |
|
skinny
3 boys and a princess!
Member since 11/08 8178 total posts
Name:
Momma
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
I'm so sorry! Maybe u just need to take a break and re-group.
|
| Posted 3/8/09 7:59 AM |
| |
|
MaMaTeenie
Party of 5
Member since 4/08 6489 total posts
Name:
Mommy
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
|
| Posted 3/8/09 8:41 AM |
| |
|
MG156
LIF Infant
Member since 2/07 358 total posts
Name:
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
|
| Posted 3/8/09 10:34 AM |
| |
|
maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief
Member since 10/07 17048 total posts
Name:
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
Don't give up!
You are so much stronger than that!
Unexplained infertility doesn't mean that you can't get pregnant. It just means that they haven't figured out the reason YET! MANY MANY people with unexplained IF get pregnant after simple procedures like unmedicated IUIs, Clomid, etc.
Please don't give up on your dreams!
If I can still be here fighting the good fight - and planning on having 3 kids... then you can still fight too! I'm here to support you whenever you need it - and you know you can always FM me to talk! PLEASE don't give up!
|
| Posted 3/8/09 12:35 PM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
All the best wishes-I am so sorry you are dealing with all of this and you are very strong!
|
| Posted 3/8/09 2:09 PM |
| |
|
LuvmyShihTzu
<3 I <3 my DD <3
Member since 8/08 3325 total posts
Name:
Happiest Mommy <3
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
I am so sorry. Keep on trying and keep a positive attitude....I am praying for you!
|
| Posted 3/8/09 3:26 PM |
| |
|
luckystar08
LIF Infant
Member since 9/08 354 total posts
Name:
C
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
|
| Posted 3/8/09 3:42 PM |
| |
|
Makin-da-baby
Praying so hard this is it!!!
Member since 4/08 1391 total posts
Name:
Undercover Lover
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
I agree, maybe a break is exactly what you need for now. I am sorry you are going through this much difficulty
|
| Posted 3/8/09 5:13 PM |
| |
|
GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
Member since 7/05 21138 total posts
Name:
Genna
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
|
| Posted 3/8/09 6:26 PM |
| |
|
nferrandi
too excited for words
Member since 10/05 18538 total posts
Name:
Nicole
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
|
| Posted 3/8/09 7:48 PM |
| |
|
Agape08
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/08 807 total posts
Name:
Kathy
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
 
|
| Posted 3/8/09 8:17 PM |
| |
|
08BabySurprise
My Life. My Everything.
Member since 10/07 9151 total posts
Name:
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
I am so sorry
|
| Posted 3/9/09 9:12 AM |
| |
|
sleepie76
enjoying every minute
Member since 12/07 3881 total posts
Name:
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
I'm sorry.
Don't give up on yourself.
Maybe a little break would be good for you! I took a break of almost a year after 2 miscarriages and it was the best thing for me.
Hope to see you back soo with a BFP!
Take care of yourself. 
|
| Posted 3/9/09 9:36 AM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
i think a break sounds like a good idea too. and like they said, it doesn't mean it's not going to happen.
i feel like taking a break too, and it's only been 4 months.
i know it's been taking you longer, but i've been comforted by the thought that my MIL had DH just fine. but when she was trying for her 2nd years later, it took almost 2 years for her to get pregnant. and then she had her third.
stay positive much peace
|
| Posted 3/9/09 9:47 AM |
| |
|
MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
Name:
Deanna
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
i am so sorry Jeri..
please dont give up..
i also have "unexplained Infertility"
it scared me too when my RE mentioned those words to me... but i wasn't going to give up.. i just had to realize that i needed some help.. and now i have never felt better.. its much more relaxing to know they are in control..
and i give ALL the credit to Hayley .. she has helped me get past the fact that it is OK.. to get help and see an RE.. i probably would have never gone if it wasn't for her..
you can do this!! i know you are so strong..
|
| Posted 3/9/09 10:54 AM |
| |
|
lolipep
My prayers have been answered
Member since 10/08 3642 total posts
Name:
Lori
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
I'm so sorry Jerilyn--but like everyone is saying please don't give up
I felt the same way after my second m/c --i actually said to my husband that I give up.. but you have to stay strong
|
| Posted 3/9/09 11:53 AM |
| |
|
katiebug
I'll love you for always
Member since 2/08 4624 total posts
Name:
Katie
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
Please don't give up Jeri.
|
| Posted 3/9/09 2:36 PM |
| |
|
ETAB
Mother Mary Pray for us
Member since 7/07 2052 total posts
Name:
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
Give yourself some time to heal and regain your strength... but do not give up.. it will happen for you.... I am sorry youa re going through a hard time
|
| Posted 3/9/09 3:01 PM |
| |
|
JRsMaMa
LIF Adult
Member since 11/07 2044 total posts
Name:
Jake's Mama
|
Re: I Guess This Might Be It...
|
| Posted 3/9/09 3:03 PM |
| |
|
| Pages: [1] 2 |
