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Mount sinai teacher arrested for the rape of the bartender

A physical education teacher was arrested Wednesday and accused of raping a bartender in Mount Sinai, police said.

An investigation led detectives to Michael J. Wachholder, 30, of 43 Sams Path, Rocky Point, a teacher in the Three Village school district, Suffolk police said.

According to police, on Feb. 3 at 3:30 p.m., two men entered the Mount Sinai bar. They ordered drinks and talked with a female bartender, who was the only other person in the bar.

Twenty minutes later, the men approached the bartender from behind, struck her in the head and face, knocked her to the floor and sexually assaulted her, police said. During the assault, one of the men asked her how to access the cash register. After the attack, the men fled the scene; no cash was taken, police said.Wachholder is being held overnight and will be arraigned in Central Islip Thursday. He is charged with first-degree rape, aggravated sexual abuse and assault.






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Posted 2/25/09 5:56 PM
 
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OMG.

I know him.

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Posted 2/25/09 6:11 PM
 

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Posted by heathergirl

OMG.

I know him.

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Do you?

I was wondering if my SIL and my friend know him, they teach in the same district.

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Posted 2/25/09 6:13 PM
 

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OMG.

I know him.

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Posted 2/25/09 6:14 PM
 

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Posted by heathergirl

OMG.

I know him.

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Do you?

I was wondering if my SIL and my friend know him, the teach in the same district.



I do.

He went to HS with FH; they were good friends. He frequents the the restaurant where I bartend. Guy's married, kids...a little shady, but still.

Thank God he never pulled anything like that when I was working

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I have *such* a yucky feeling in my belly.

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Posted 2/25/09 6:15 PM
 

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Re: Mount sinai teacher arrested for the rape of the bartender

Posted by heathergirl


I do.

He went to HS with FH; they were good friends. He frequents the the restaurant where I bartend. Guy's married, kids...a little shady, but still.

Thank God he never pulled anything like that when I was working

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Posted 2/25/09 6:16 PM
 

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How disgusting this guy actually works with kids!

Posted 2/25/09 6:42 PM
 

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Posted by heathergirl

I do.

He went to HS with FH; they were good friends. He frequents the the restaurant where I bartend. Guy's married, kids...a little shady, but still.

Thank God he never pulled anything like that when I was working

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I have *such* a yucky feeling in my belly.



I can't imagine how you feel, to think you've been around this guy and now find out what he's capable of doing.

His poor wife. If I were her, I'd be SICK.

What a POS.

Posted 2/25/09 7:04 PM
 

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Hmmm...I just got a thing for jury duty at the end of the march in CI. Maybe I will get this case and can help get him put awayChat Icon

Posted 2/25/09 7:07 PM
 

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Posted by Marcie

Posted by heathergirl

OMG.

I know him.

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Do you?

I was wondering if my SIL and my friend know him, the teach in the same district.



I do.

He went to HS with FH; they were good friends. He frequents the the restaurant where I bartend. Guy's married, kids...a little shady, but still.

Thank God he never pulled anything like that when I was working

Chat Icon

I have *such* a yucky feeling in my belly.




ugh, i am SO SORRY Chat Icon

Posted 2/25/09 7:09 PM
 

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Re: Mount sinai teacher arrested for the rape of the bartender

Posted by Tabitha

Posted by heathergirl

Posted by Marcie

Posted by heathergirl

OMG.

I know him.

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Do you?

I was wondering if my SIL and my friend know him, the teach in the same district.



I do.

He went to HS with FH; they were good friends. He frequents the the restaurant where I bartend. Guy's married, kids...a little shady, but still.

Thank God he never pulled anything like that when I was working

Chat Icon

I have *such* a yucky feeling in my belly.




ugh, i am SO SORRY Chat Icon


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Posted 2/25/09 7:16 PM
 

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My friend knows him too. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/26/09 5:20 AM
 

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Re: Mount sinai teacher arrested for the rape of the bartender

What a POS
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In a prepared statement, Ralph P. Ferrie, Three Village school district superintendent, said: "The teacher has been placed on indefinite leave from his position pending the outcome of the legal process. In compliance with New York State law, a background check was conducted prior to hiring this individual, and the state reported no prior criminal record."

A Newsday check of Wachholder's criminal background Wednesday indicated a number of arrests since the 1990s, including a felony criminal mischief arrest in 2000. But that charge, and other arrests for misdemeanors, ultimately resulted in either dismissals or guilty pleas to lesser offenses, including a misdemeanor conviction for operating a vehicle while impaired and several violations.

Michael Conte, a spokesman for the school district, said Wednesday, "The state had reported no prior criminal conviction when the district checked his record pursuant to state law. We plan to look into this tomorrow to ascertain why these prior convictions were not reported to the district."

McVeigh said after police asked the public for information about the attack and put out a sketch of the suspect, several tips came in from people who said they recognized Wachholder

Posted 2/26/09 6:31 AM
 

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Uggghhhhhh.....FH was *shocked* when I called him. We went to Tara's in Port for dinner and it came on News 12...We were like, we lost our appetite!

I always thought he was a little "off" but then I found out some stuff that put that in perspective...But still, it is absolutely disgusting!!! I am definitely NOT surprised that he had a prior record.

My BIL is a SCPO and he said it was like a bloodbath at Secrets, like a murder scene Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon He FUUUUKKKKKED that poor girl up....Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope she's OK Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/26/09 9:01 AM
 

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Re: Mount sinai teacher arrested for the rape of the bartender

i thought there were 2 men - right? Any word on who the other guy was? I mean, it was 3:30 in the afternoon, it makes sense that it was a teacher or someone else with an early-release job

Posted 2/26/09 9:05 AM
 

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Re: Mount sinai teacher arrested for the rape of the bartender

Posted by heathergirl

Posted by Marcie

Posted by heathergirl

OMG.

I know him.

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Do you?

I was wondering if my SIL and my friend know him, the teach in the same district.



I do.

He went to HS with FH; they were good friends. He frequents the the restaurant where I bartend. Guy's married, kids...a little shady, but still.

Thank God he never pulled anything like that when I was working

Chat Icon

I have *such* a yucky feeling in my belly.



I went to high school with him too.
He was always a jerk.

Posted 2/26/09 9:46 AM
 

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Re: Mount sinai teacher arrested for the rape of the bartender

I hope he rots. I hope there really is a hell and he goes there and it's far worse than any torture we could even imagine.

Posted 2/26/09 9:50 AM
 

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Posted by usuk2004

Posted by heathergirl

Posted by Marcie

Posted by heathergirl

OMG.

I know him.

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Do you?

I was wondering if my SIL and my friend know him, the teach in the same district.



I do.

He went to HS with FH; they were good friends. He frequents the the restaurant where I bartend. Guy's married, kids...a little shady, but still.

Thank God he never pulled anything like that when I was working

Chat Icon

I have *such* a yucky feeling in my belly.



I went to high school with him too.
He was always a jerk.



What year did you graduate? Maybe you know my FH or his siblings?

Posted 2/26/09 9:51 AM
 

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Posted by heathergirl
My BIL is a SCPO and he said it was like a bloodbath at Secrets, like a murder scene Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon He FUUUUKKKKKED that poor girl up....Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope she's OK Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



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THis is just so horrible. I hope they both pay for what they did to her!

Posted 2/26/09 9:53 AM
 

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Re: Mount sinai teacher arrested for the rape of the bartender

Posted by heathergirl

Posted by usuk2004

Posted by heathergirl

Posted by Marcie

Posted by heathergirl

OMG.

I know him.

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Do you?

I was wondering if my SIL and my friend know him, the teach in the same district.



I do.

He went to HS with FH; they were good friends. He frequents the the restaurant where I bartend. Guy's married, kids...a little shady, but still.

Thank God he never pulled anything like that when I was working

Chat Icon

I have *such* a yucky feeling in my belly.



I went to high school with him too.
He was always a jerk.



What year did you graduate? Maybe you know my FH or his siblings?



Probably. I graduated in 94 and my brother graduated in 96. My brother wrestled with Mike.

Posted 2/26/09 9:55 AM
 

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Posted by heathergirl
My BIL is a SCPO and he said it was like a bloodbath at Secrets, like a murder scene Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon He FUUUUKKKKKED that poor girl up....Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope she's OK Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
THis is just so horrible. I hope they both pay for what they did to her!



Apparently his accomplice didn't touch her, he's cooperating with police but he's still in a world of trouble tool. It calms me a little to know this pr*ck's gonna be someone's b*tch shortly. I hope they're already Chat Icon over his asssssss....

Posted 2/26/09 10:10 AM
 

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Re: Mount sinai teacher arrested for the rape of the bartender

Posted by heathergirl

Uggghhhhhh.....FH was *shocked* when I called him. We went to Tara's in Port for dinner and it came on News 12...We were like, we lost our appetite!

I always thought he was a little "off" but then I found out some stuff that put that in perspective...But still, it is absolutely disgusting!!! I am definitely NOT surprised that he had a prior record.

My BIL is a SCPO and he said it was like a bloodbath at Secrets, like a murder scene Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon He FUUUUKKKKKED that poor girl up....Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope she's OK Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon




I hope they catch the other guy as well - and have someone chop both of their weenies off so they can never do this again

This just sickens me to my stomach. This poor woman Chat Icon

Posted 2/26/09 10:14 AM
 

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OMG thats horrible!!!!!!vChat Icon

Posted 2/26/09 10:18 AM
 

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Re: Mount sinai teacher arrested for the rape of the bartender

The woman that was raped and beaten is my friend I hope they punish him to the fullest.

Posted 2/26/09 10:29 AM
 
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