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Xmas getting you down?

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babyonthebrain
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Rafaela

Xmas getting you down?

We are so broke, I am seriously dreading the holiday this year! I can't even seem to be able to finish my registry PLUS we just got hit with a $500 VET bill, both dogs are seriously sick! One with a bad eye infection and one with a horrible throat infection!!!!
Everytime we turn around it's something else!!!!!! GRRRRRR
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OK vent over
XOXOXO
BOTB

Posted 12/11/08 7:58 PM
 
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hannahsmom
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Member since 10/08

2005 total posts

Name:
Laura

Re: Xmas getting you down?

Believe me, I am right there with you. We are limiting spending big time, especially now knowing we have a baby coming....

Posted 12/11/08 8:01 PM
 

MorningCuppaCoffee
Tired!

Member since 12/07

16353 total posts

Name:
Allison

Re: Xmas getting you down?

I hear ya. Especially knowing we may need to dip into our savings for a couple months.......We are also going to try to limit our holiday spending as much as possible and I am sure our families will understand......I have to take one of my pugs to the vet on Saturday because she has a strange bump on her foot that looks infected. I hope it's nothing serious at all...........

Posted 12/11/08 8:16 PM
 

nov04libride
big brother <3

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Me

Re: Xmas getting you down?

Money aside, I am just too exhausted to enjoy the festivities. Chat Icon I just want it to be over with, which is sad.

Posted 12/11/08 8:18 PM
 

TLC1018
I AM A BIG SISTER!!

Member since 8/07

3880 total posts

Name:
Tracy

Re: Xmas getting you down?

I am sooooo not prepared for Christmas this year. Mostly because I am due on Christmas Eve, so I dont know where I will be this holiday. I am hoping to have her early, but you never know.
I am trying to tell everyone how we're cutting back on buying gifts this year! Besides the fact that I'm too uncomfortable to shop anymore!

Posted 12/11/08 8:23 PM
 

nyteacher13
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Member since 8/06

6405 total posts

Name:
~ THERESA ~

Re: Xmas getting you down?

I'm so friggin exhausted. Christmas is my most FAVORITE holiday/time of the year, and I have no desire for anything this year. All I want is my baby Chat Icon. I can care less about gifts and STILL have not started Christmas shopping.

Posted 12/11/08 8:24 PM
 

MrsS518
Big Sister to be!

Member since 7/07

3423 total posts

Name:
Tara

Re: Xmas getting you down?

oh i hear ya!! DH and I are not going crazy this year with gifts. we wish we could but now that we have a baby on the way we need to be careful on what we spend on. i have to say tho DH isnt doing a good job about not spending he just brought me a new nikon camera but he says its for the babys birthChat Icon it could of waited then the baby isnt due till aug lol

Posted 12/11/08 9:28 PM
 

ReiRei13
Life is Good!!

Member since 1/08

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Re: Xmas getting you down?

X-Mas could never get me down- I'm so freakin excited!! I'll be driving down to NC (which is going to suck being that I'll be 32/33 weeks pregnant), but I can't wait to see my family!! I also started X-Mas shopping in Oct which def helped financially- didn't feel it as much!

Hope you're feeling better!!Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/08 9:45 PM
 

alisonggg
Cutie

Member since 3/06

4749 total posts

Name:
a

Re: Xmas getting you down?

Posted by nov04libride

Money aside, I am just too exhausted to enjoy the festivities. Chat Icon I just want it to be over with, which is sad.




this is how I feel. I have been so down because I am sick all the time and exhausted. I normally love Christmas and its really bugging me that I am not able to enjoy it this year

Posted 12/12/08 7:38 AM
 

mrsgafforio
LIF Adult

Member since 3/07

3929 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: Xmas getting you down?

I'm with you. DH got let go about a month ago and my job isn't very secure either.

Posted 12/12/08 8:51 AM
 

babyfever08
Love my babies!

Member since 11/08

3938 total posts

Name:
Antonella

Re: Xmas getting you down?

I can't believe it's almost here! I still have to start shopping and put up all the decorations! I have no motivation!

Posted 12/12/08 9:19 AM
 

JennZ
MY LIFE!!

Member since 8/05

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Re: Xmas getting you down?

Yes, but not just for the financial reasons. This is the first Christmas I will not have my loud, crazy sometimes annoying Italian family around...And It SUCKS! It is just going to be DH, my brother and his 2 kids. Such a change. I cant even fly home (past my cutoff) to be there.

Posted 12/12/08 9:22 AM
 

MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!

Member since 5/06

14562 total posts

Name:
Marisa

Re: Xmas getting you down?

Posted by JennZ

Yes, but not just for the financial reasons. This is the first Christmas I will not have my loud, crazy sometimes annoying Italian family around...And It SUCKS! It is just going to be DH, my brother and his 2 kids. Such a change. I cant even fly home (past my cutoff) to be there.





Chat Icon Chat Icon You can come to hang w/ MY crazy, loud, sometimes annoying Italian family !!
Do you want me to send you some strufoli in place of the NY bagels ??? Chat Icon

I'm actually not dreading Christmas this year b/c I'm more focused on the baby and not thinking about plans w/ my dreaded ILs

And I'm hosting a big holiday party @ our house next weekend, which I'm excited to prep for too !!

Posted 12/12/08 9:43 AM
 

JennZ
MY LIFE!!

Member since 8/05

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Re: Xmas getting you down?

Posted by MarisaK

Posted by JennZ

Yes, but not just for the financial reasons. This is the first Christmas I will not have my loud, crazy sometimes annoying Italian family around...And It SUCKS! It is just going to be DH, my brother and his 2 kids. Such a change. I cant even fly home (past my cutoff) to be there.





Chat Icon Chat Icon You can come to hang w/ MY crazy, loud, sometimes annoying Italian family !!
Do you want me to send you some strufoli in place of the NY bagels ??? Chat Icon

I'm actually not dreading Christmas this year b/c I'm more focused on the baby and not thinking about plans w/ my dreaded ILs

And I'm hosting a big holiday party @ our house next weekend, which I'm excited to prep for too !!




Chat Icon My grandma makes them every year. They are in the mail as we "speak". Chat Icon

Posted 12/12/08 9:49 AM
 

starryeyes
Baby number 2 is on its way!

Member since 9/06

2020 total posts

Name:
Kristin

Re: Xmas getting you down?

Posted by babyonthebrain

We are so broke, I am seriously dreading the holiday this year! I can't even seem to be able to finish my registry PLUS we just got hit with a $500 VET bill, both dogs are seriously sick! One with a bad eye infection and one with a horrible throat infection!!!!
Everytime we turn around it's something else!!!!!! GRRRRRR
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OK vent over
XOXOXO
BOTB



I know exactly how you feel. I lost my job a month ago and DH's hours have been cut majorly. He doesn't seem concerned but our savings are slowly dissapearing. I have anxiety over this everyday. I wish I was little again!

Posted 12/12/08 9:50 AM
 

MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!

Member since 5/06

14562 total posts

Name:
Marisa

Re: Xmas getting you down?

Posted by JennZ
Chat Icon My grandma makes them every year. They are in the mail as we "speak". Chat Icon



Lucky you - My mother rallies me and my sister every year to make them .........roll, cut, roll, cut, roll, cut - it's a special kind of torture !!!
I don't even eat the damn things !!!

Posted 12/12/08 9:53 AM
 

Mere09
So Dam* Lucky

Member since 10/08

6368 total posts

Name:

Re: Xmas getting you down?

We are right there with ya. Seems like one thing after another.
Things will get better though--they always do. Just try and keep that frame of mind.

Posted 12/12/08 9:57 AM
 

SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!

Member since 12/05

20105 total posts

Name:
Lauren

Re: Xmas getting you down?

OMG we have been having pet issues also!
We decided awhile back we weren't going to give holiday gifts this year. We told both our families, and they are fine with it. With the expenses of the babies, plus the fact I am pretty sure I will be delivering right around then, and I have been on bed rest for the past 4 weeks, buying gifts for people is honestly really low on our priority list this year. The families understand. Next year we will do more.

Posted 12/12/08 10:45 AM
 

nrvbrd
LIF Adolescent

Member since 5/05

796 total posts

Name:
Kysha

Re: Xmas getting you down?

I hear ya.

I have not even started shopping yet. With my job loss and this baby on the way, I am stressing financially. Not a good feeling.Chat Icon

Posted 12/12/08 11:05 AM
 

staceyd
LIF Adult

Member since 8/08

2052 total posts

Name:
stacey

Re: Xmas getting you down?

Posted by MarisaK

Posted by JennZ

Yes, but not just for the financial reasons. This is the first Christmas I will not have my loud, crazy sometimes annoying Italian family around...And It SUCKS! It is just going to be DH, my brother and his 2 kids. Such a change. I cant even fly home (past my cutoff) to be there.





Chat Icon Chat Icon You can come to hang w/ MY crazy, loud, sometimes annoying Italian family !!
Do you want me to send you some strufoli in place of the NY bagels ??? Chat Icon

I'm actually not dreading Christmas this year b/c I'm more focused on the baby and not thinking about plans w/ my dreaded ILs

And I'm hosting a big holiday party @ our house next weekend, which I'm excited to prep for too !!



Haha!! i am dreading the belly touching and talking to of the in laws.. and dont forget the kiss goodbye my belly gets... I am hoping to be having a non-bloated day and maybe... just maybe.. my belly wont be so tempting...

Other than that.. I dread spending moeny on gifts for people... my family isnt doing gifts.. my parents are taking me, DH, my bro and his wife to Vegas for 5 days.. and we all decided the time together would be gift enough.. so at least we have reprive with that one.. I am trying to tutor and chaperone as much as I can to pay for DH's side of the families gifts...

Posted 12/12/08 11:09 AM
 
 

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