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mrsgafforio
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Member since 3/07 3929 total posts
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Christine
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For those just starting out....do
you worry that you will have trouble getting pregnant? How long will you try before you see a Dr.? I have no reason to believe that something will stop me from getting pregnant but how do you really know? Do women get fertility testing done before they start trying?
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Posted 3/4/08 11:16 AM  |
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ArmyOfBabies
Growing older but not up
Member since 7/07 4427 total posts
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Jeri
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Re: For those just starting out....do
A girl I went to high school with got tested and she's not even married yet... she had it in a blog on her myspace, lol.
I didn't think I would have any trouble, but we're in month three now. If we don't get a BFP by May, I'm going to see my Dr.
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| Posted 3/4/08 11:19 AM |
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katiebug
I'll love you for always
Member since 2/08 4624 total posts
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Katie
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Re: For those just starting out....do
Message edited 7/16/2012 7:57:47 PM.
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| Posted 3/4/08 11:21 AM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
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Kristen
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Re: For those just starting out....do
DH & I never imagined that we would have troubles (no one in our families have any history). Once we hit the 6 month mark, I went to my reg OB & we discussed some things. Now that we are onto Month 10, we are pursuing more consultations. We truly wanted to wait the 1 year bc we both do not believe there is anything wrong. But how much of "doing it all right" can you take 
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| Posted 3/4/08 11:24 AM |
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Dani922
Here's to new beginnings
Member since 10/07 7260 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: For those just starting out....do
I was absolutely terrified. We already have a child together, but I was convinced she was just a miracle & we'd never conceive again (I have reasons for believing that, but they're probably not true). We ended up conceivingon our second month, but unfortunately, I miscarried. We're in the middle of our first cycle trying after the m/c. I'm slightly more relaxed because now I'm figuring if we could conceive twice, quickly & with no issue, we're probably fine.
I think it's a normal & very common fear.
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| Posted 3/4/08 11:59 AM |
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hidingttcer
LIF Toddler
Member since 1/08 378 total posts
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Me
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Re: For those just starting out....do
I worry about everything in my life, so this is at the top of the list. I think it's even further emphasized because being a mom is all I've ever wanted. 
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| Posted 3/4/08 12:01 PM |
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sweetbabydreams
My Dream come true!
Member since 12/07 2205 total posts
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Stephanie
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Re: For those just starting out....do
The thought never leaves my mind. Everytime i see a pregnant woman, or a woman with children i wonder will i ever have that same oppurtunity. Dh and i did get BFP after are second time just trying but we too unfortunately misscarried at 8 weeks. So is it me? was there something wrong? these are the questions i have as well. 
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| Posted 3/4/08 2:28 PM |
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hmm8191
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Heather
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Re: For those just starting out....do
I'm terrified as well. I worry that we should have started sooner. I worry that my DH is going to begin to resent the sex tyrant, I worry about getting my BFP and then m/c. Too much worrying!!
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| Posted 3/4/08 2:54 PM |
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Kris516
Love The Roo
Member since 2/08 2024 total posts
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Kris
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Re: For those just starting out....do
The fear crosses my mind frequently. I just didn't think it would be this hard/complicated (and we haven't been trying long at all). Especially when you see the Spears sisters popping out babies like its their j-o-b. The "what if" factor has already planted a seed in my mind. I think it's natural. The more we try, the more we want a baby, so when it doesn't happen, you can't help but fear something bigger may be going on.
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| Posted 3/4/08 3:04 PM |
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conigs25
So in love with this kid!
Member since 5/06 11197 total posts
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Michele
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Re: For those just starting out....do
I will try until my next scheduled gyno appt and then mention to him that its been difficult. my next appt however is July and dont know how actively we willbe trying until then so....
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| Posted 3/4/08 4:15 PM |
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babyfaith
Onward and Upward!
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Re: For those just starting out....do
I can totally related to everyones anxiety about TTC. My regular gyn did some preliminary check of hormone levels on me after 3 months TTC because I requested it. I went to a RE and my DH had his swimmers checked after 6 months of BFN's.
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| Posted 3/4/08 7:31 PM |
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Ladybug3
Two is better than one!!!
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Re: For those just starting out....do
Yes...I wish that I didn't think this way but I do. I that I'm wrong. I don't know why I drive myself crazy with these thoughts!?!
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| Posted 3/4/08 9:23 PM |
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Serendipity
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Re: For those just starting out....do
Posted by Ladybug3
Yes...I wish that I didn't think this way but I do. I that I'm wrong. I don't know why I drive myself crazy with these thoughts!?!
I hear ya!
I worry too!
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| Posted 3/5/08 7:35 AM |
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