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sweetbabydreams
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Member since 12/07 2205 total posts
Name: Stephanie
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DH was IN ER this weekend!!
Evening Girls,
I just wanted to stop in and say hi. I have had one hell of a weekend with work and all. DH was in the ER becasue he couldnt PEE!!! yes thats right. Poor man he was holding so much urine in that it wouldnt come out. They tried putting a catheter in and they couldnt get it to pass teh prostate or pass the bladder. So they sent home on a pill called FLOMAX and will go for a cystogram to look at the bladder next wed. He is feeling better today thank god!! Why am i down... well doctor told him that flomax will reduce ejaculation and dont be surprized if you see nothing come out. I was hoping to be able to start BD right away once we got in our new house. I almost feel now i followed my gut and just tried right away after the MC. Now he is so upset that he wont be able to produce a baby. Anyone else been through this. Im so bummed out. Dont get me wrong im not being selfish and dont just want a baby I want him to be happy and healthy as well he is my life, but i just know this is something we really want. Thanks for letting me vent
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Posted 2/26/08 4:15 PM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!

Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
Name: Kristen
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Re: DH was IN ER this weekend!!
I am so sorry to hear about your DH It is a different situation but my Dad was on Flomax bc of Prostrate problems. Tell your DH to explain to the urologist that you are TTC, I am almost positive there is something they can give him.
But like you said, first comes first, make sure your DH is healthy. The same thing happened to my dad & we had to rush him to the ER & he ended up having surgery that night. He has an enlarged prostrate. I am sure they will be able to determine what is causing it when they do the tests on DH
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Posted 2/26/08 4:22 PM |
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bicosi
life is a carousel

Member since 7/07 14956 total posts
Name: M
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Re: DH was IN ER this weekend!!
I am so sorry sweetie!
I am a true believer in that things happen for a reason! I pray that your DH gets better quickly and that you can get back to business!
Hang in there!
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Posted 2/26/08 4:27 PM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
Name: LB
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Re: DH was IN ER this weekend!!
oh stephanie i can't imagine how you are feeling... it's been a rough couple of months for you and DH
i think you have every right to feel "gypped" a little... you are still grieving and i think most people in your situation would feel that way - just b/c you love DH and want him to be healthy doesn't mean you can't really, really want a baby now too.
i hope he feels better soon - and lots of to you!!!
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Posted 2/26/08 5:54 PM |
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FLaCaTaCa
Kelsey Elyse = Love

Member since 5/05 1855 total posts
Name: Stacy
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Re: DH was IN ER this weekend!!
I'm sorry hunny! Wow that must have really been uncomfortable! Happy to hear all is well!!!
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Posted 2/26/08 9:09 PM |
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sydniesmom
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Member since 2/08 700 total posts
Name: susan
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Posted 2/26/08 9:17 PM |
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Ladybug3
Two is better than one!!!

Member since 12/07 4474 total posts
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Re: DH was IN ER this weekend!!
Hang in there!!!
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Posted 2/26/08 10:26 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
Name: Lisa
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Re: DH was IN ER this weekend!!
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Posted 2/27/08 12:40 AM |
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BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be

Member since 5/06 9746 total posts
Name: She who shall remain nameless
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Re: DH was IN ER this weekend!!
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Posted 2/27/08 9:15 AM |
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kmac
Two under two!

Member since 5/07 3703 total posts
Name: Kris
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Re: DH was IN ER this weekend!!
I'm so sorry you both have been having a rough time, you'll be back in the game before you know it.
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Posted 2/27/08 9:20 AM |
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natasa
Girls Rule

Member since 2/07 2035 total posts
Name: natasa
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Re: DH was IN ER this weekend!!
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Posted 2/27/08 9:38 AM |
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Stephybaby
Love my two girls!!
Member since 11/07 1966 total posts
Name: Stephy
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Re: DH was IN ER this weekend!!
Im so sorry Stephanie!!!
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your DH right now!!!!
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Posted 2/27/08 9:58 AM |
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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime

Member since 10/05 14656 total posts
Name: Mama
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Re: DH was IN ER this weekend!!
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Posted 2/27/08 12:17 PM |
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