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pinkandblue
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Thanks girls

Message edited 2/5/2008 2:34:56 PM.

Posted 2/5/08 2:09 PM
 
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CathyB

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Re: Hypothetical question

I'd have to be honest. No point in putting my job on the line too. I know that's not really nice.

Posted 2/5/08 2:10 PM
 

LFitzy79
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Re: Hypothetical question

I would tell him I won't answer any questions without a union rep present! Chat Icon

Posted 2/5/08 2:11 PM
 

leighdvm
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Re: Hypothetical question

Posted by CathyB

I'd have to be honest. No point in putting my job on the line too. I know that's not really nice.



ITA

Posted 2/5/08 2:11 PM
 

Emily
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Re: Hypothetical question

This is the one situation where being a sellout is okay. Think of the lil cutie with the mohawk, she needs more pink Puma sweatsuits. Chat Icon When it comes down to it, you have to look out for yourself and your family.

Posted 2/5/08 2:11 PM
 

LuckySV
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Re: Hypothetical question

I think in this case IMO honesty really is the best policy. If your co-worker is really doing s/t against company policy he's the one getting himself into a pickle, not you.

Posted 2/5/08 2:12 PM
 

MsSissy
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Re: Hypothetical question

If I was being asked directly from a superior, I would answer honestly. I wouldn't want my lie to come back and bite ME in the a$$ later.

Posted 2/5/08 2:12 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Hypothetical question

Message edited 2/5/2008 2:35:13 PM.

Posted 2/5/08 2:13 PM
 

Kara
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Re: Hypothetical question

I would be honest.

It's not my fault a coworker is violating company policy. Why should I lie and risk my job to save someone who (1) is lying or cheating by violating company policy and (2) will likely get in trouble anyway since clearly the company is already onto them.

Posted 2/5/08 2:14 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Hypothetical question

Message edited 2/5/2008 2:35:33 PM.

Posted 2/5/08 2:14 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Hypothetical question

Message edited 2/5/2008 2:35:51 PM.

Posted 2/5/08 2:15 PM
 

Kara
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Re: Hypothetical question

Posted by Emily

This is the one situation where being a sellout is okay.



How is telling the truth selling out?

The other person chose to violate the policy. You signed up to work for this company, not to protect someone else from trouble they got themselves into...

Posted 2/5/08 2:15 PM
 

bird382
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Re: Hypothetical question

I wouldn't lie for a co-worker.

Posted 2/5/08 2:15 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Hypothetical question

Message edited 2/5/2008 2:36:02 PM.

Posted 2/5/08 2:16 PM
 

Ginger123
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Re: Hypothetical question

I would tell the truth and say that I was extremley uncomfortable in this situation and would give no comment unless it directly affected me you never know the real story or who will twist your words

Message edited 2/5/2008 2:17:54 PM.

Posted 2/5/08 2:16 PM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: Hypothetical question

1) I am not a liar on the regular

2) helping my coworker isn't putting food on my table

3) you play, you pay

all these add up to...I would sing like a nightingale.

Posted 2/5/08 2:17 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Hypothetical question

Message edited 2/5/2008 2:36:17 PM.

Posted 2/5/08 2:18 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: Hypothetical question

Posted by stephanief

Posted by Emily

This is the one situation where being a sellout is okay. Think of the lil cutie with the mohawk, she needs more pink Puma sweatsuits. Chat Icon When it comes down to it, you have to look out for yourself and your family.



ha, I love you Emily...you are too much Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


I knew it was Emily that ratted me outChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/5/08 2:18 PM
 

Domino
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Re: Hypothetical question

Are you friends with the co-worker (do you socialize outside of work)? If not, I would have no hesitation in telling the truth. I would especially feel more comfortable knowing that the co-worker is not in office due to suspension and I wouldnt have to see them. The question you have to ask yourself is whether the co-worker is work losing your job over. Is this co-worker worth making a stand for? I would answer the investigator's questions directly without offering any unnecessary pieces of information.

Posted 2/5/08 2:21 PM
 

Emily
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Re: Hypothetical question

Posted by Phyl

Posted by stephanief

Posted by Emily

This is the one situation where being a sellout is okay. Think of the lil cutie with the mohawk, she needs more pink Puma sweatsuits. Chat Icon When it comes down to it, you have to look out for yourself and your family.



ha, I love you Emily...you are too much Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


I knew it was Emily that ratted me outChat Icon Chat Icon



I could not resist...your boss is hot like ummm a hotcake! Chat Icon

Posted 2/5/08 2:22 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: Hypothetical question

Posted by Emily

Posted by Phyl

Posted by stephanief

Posted by Emily

This is the one situation where being a sellout is okay. Think of the lil cutie with the mohawk, she needs more pink Puma sweatsuits. Chat Icon When it comes down to it, you have to look out for yourself and your family.



ha, I love you Emily...you are too much Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


I knew it was Emily that ratted me outChat Icon Chat Icon



I could not resist...your boss is hot like ummm a hotcake! Chat Icon


Yep in all his azzhorse glory!Chat Icon

*sorry for the hijack StephanieChat Icon

Message edited 2/5/2008 2:25:47 PM.

Posted 2/5/08 2:24 PM
 

Emily
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Re: Hypothetical question

Posted by Kara

Posted by Emily

This is the one situation where being a sellout is okay.



How is telling the truth selling out?

The other person chose to violate the policy. You signed up to work for this company, not to protect someone else from trouble they got themselves into...



The slang of defintion of sellout is:

2. Slang To betray one's colleagues: He sold out to the other side.

Posted 2/5/08 2:25 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: Hypothetical question

Posted by Phyl



*sorry for the hijack StephanieChat Icon



no problem Chat Icon

Posted 2/5/08 2:26 PM
 

pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

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Re: Hypothetical question

Message edited 2/5/2008 2:36:36 PM.

Posted 2/5/08 2:27 PM
 

imthecindyofcindyandkevin
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Cindy

Re: Hypothetical question

I would have no problem telling the truth.

Posted 2/5/08 2:31 PM
 
 

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