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maybeamommy
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YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
Okay, here's the deal. Normally I get a +OPK on CD 17 and I don't typically see EWCM.
This month, started testing on CD 13, all negatives. CD 17 comes and goes, still negative. CD 19 see LOTS of EWCM (we BD'd), OPK still negative. CD 21 we BD, still negative. CD 22 we BD, still negative.
NOW... CD 23.... +OPK!!!!! w t f ?
We can't BD more than 2 days in a row. The whole BD, then skip a day, then BD two more in a row was like a record for us.
So now what should I do?
I know I should BD today, tomorrow, and the next day... but it physically will NOT happen.
What's your best advice for me? I feel like we "wasted" our BDing just because I saw EWCM. I was convinced that I wouldn't get a +OPK this month since it's almost a week late.
Please help! 
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Posted 1/16/08 7:50 PM  |
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lovemy2boys
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
what if you BD today, then see if you can tomorrow. if you can't tomorrow, then do the day after. 3 days in a row is a lot
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| Posted 1/16/08 7:54 PM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
The only thing is that I feel like tonight it just won't be able to work. We already did last night and the night before...and last night was a struggle to the finish line if you get my drift. 
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| Posted 1/16/08 7:57 PM |
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julz33
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
Every other day should be fine! Sperm can live inside of you for a few days.
  
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| Posted 1/16/08 7:59 PM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
Posted by julz33
Every other day should be fine! Sperm can live inside of you for a few days.
even if we got the +OPK today?
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| Posted 1/16/08 8:00 PM |
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wannabemom
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
try 1.5 days..... instead of tonight... how about tomorrow morning? Studies suggest it takes a day and a half for a guy to 'recharge' so your DH should be fine then.
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| Posted 1/16/08 8:01 PM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
Posted by wannabemom
try 1.5 days..... instead of tonight... how about tomorrow morning? Studies suggest it takes a day and a half for a guy to 'recharge' so your DH should be fine then.
really? Thank you, that's good to know!
Tomorrow morning won't work though  I have a meeting at 7am!
Do you girls think it could still work if we BD tomorrow night and Friday night (if possible)?
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| Posted 1/16/08 8:07 PM |
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wannabemom
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
Posted by maybeamommy
Posted by wannabemom
try 1.5 days..... instead of tonight... how about tomorrow morning? Studies suggest it takes a day and a half for a guy to 'recharge' so your DH should be fine then.
really? Thank you, that's good to know!
Tomorrow morning won't work though I have a meeting at 7am!
Do you girls think it could still work if we BD tomorrow night and Friday night (if possible)?
yeah, do that then. a 7am meeting? Don't they know they're getting in the way of TTC???!!! 
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| Posted 1/16/08 8:17 PM |
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Stephybaby
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
Well doesnt an OPK indicate that you will ovulate within 12-36 hours...so that being said...take a break tonight and go for it tomorrow night!!
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| Posted 1/16/08 11:06 PM |
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Kissy331
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
I think it will be just fine if you didn't BD last night & do it tonight. The +OPK means you are "about" to O & not that it is too late...
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| Posted 1/17/08 7:01 AM |
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headoverheels
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
i just saw this now - i think it's eprfectly fine if you didn't BD last night and you BD tonight.
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| Posted 1/17/08 8:22 AM |
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Dani922
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
Posted by headoverheels
i just saw this now - i think it's eprfectly fine if you didn't BD last night and you BD tonight.
Agreed! I think you'll be fine if you do it tonight & maybe tomorrow if you can.
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| Posted 1/17/08 8:30 AM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
Thanks everyone! We didn't last night, but we'll be sure to tonight!
And we'll TRY for tomorrow too
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| Posted 1/17/08 9:23 AM |
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pickles16
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
Posted by julz33
Every other day should be fine! Sperm can live inside of you for a few days.
ITA...every other day should be more than enough!!!
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| Posted 1/17/08 9:34 AM |
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mikeswife06
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Re: YIKES!!!!!!! What do I do now?
Definately tonight. Do not worry. If you see EWCM hopefully the spermies are trapped in it TMI I know but hey, that's how it goes.
They can totally hold out for 4-5 days so anything is possible. I believe that is how it happened for us last month. 
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| Posted 1/17/08 11:28 AM |
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