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mommy2bella
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OK...Help us...

me and my sister that is (kdelace)

our friend has cancer and has some pretty ***-kicking chemo every two weeks. I think she has 8 sessions left...

I wanna do a countdown like 12 days of Christmas...and get her presents for each chemo treatment...

the one I am sure of is:

<<sings>>ONE BOTTLE OF PATRON for when she is done (or an even more expensive bottle of tequila)

maybe 6 cupcakes from Magnolia

stuff like that...wanna make her look forward to it on days she dreads...

I need ideas...it's a numbers thing,

so who's got an idea for 8...want it to be kickass so we can start off with a bang.

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Message edited 6/20/2007 5:30:37 PM.

Posted 6/20/07 5:28 PM
 
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KrisT
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Re: OK...Help us...

Maybe for 2 you can get her a pair of earings?? I will try to think of some more!!!!

How about a 6 pack of beer Chat Icon

Message edited 6/20/2007 5:34:09 PM.

Posted 6/20/07 5:32 PM
 

dooodles
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Re: OK...Help us...

Has she lost her hair? Maybe 8 beautiful scarves for her head?

Posted 6/20/07 5:36 PM
 

ggt08
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Posted by dooodles

Has she lost her hair? Maybe 8 beautiful scarves for her head?




she is starting to...Chat Icon good idea but shes picky with scarves

Posted 6/20/07 5:39 PM
 

dooodles
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Posted by dooodles

Has she lost her hair? Maybe 8 beautiful scarves for her head?




she is starting to...Chat Icon good idea but shes picky with scarves




How about 8 summer hats instead?

Posted 6/20/07 5:42 PM
 

KrisT
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Or what about some kind of make-up sets like these? They come in different numbers or you could probably make up your own!

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Posted 6/20/07 5:43 PM
 

mommy2bella
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Kris, maybe a mac attack with 8 different things of make-up?

fun colors and stuff?

Posted 6/20/07 5:45 PM
 

dooodles
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Gift certificates for 8 manicures?

Posted 6/20/07 5:45 PM
 

BikerGrl
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Can she have manicures?

Maybe a gift cert. for bi weekly manicures for the rest of the treatment, so 8 manicures?

Maybe she can get the manicure o the off week without the Chemo?

Message edited 6/20/2007 5:49:19 PM.

Posted 6/20/07 5:48 PM
 

BikerGrl
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Posted by dooodles

Gift certificates for 8 manicures?



How crazy!!! Although I posted a fe minutes later, I got sidetracked & had started typing before I even saw your post!!!! Great minds!

Posted 6/20/07 5:49 PM
 

mommy2bella
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ooooh, Donna and Val....
I love that idea...

Posted 6/20/07 5:49 PM
 

ggt08
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manicures is a good idea.. the mac is a good idea too.. kel- christine gets 40% off at mac!!!! :)

Posted 6/20/07 5:55 PM
 

mommy2bella
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wanna pile on for mac at 8 and do mani pedi at like 6 or 7?

Posted 6/20/07 5:59 PM
 

KrisT
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I don't know if she likes to read, but you could get her a few books or magazines for one of the numbers.

Posted 6/20/07 6:02 PM
 

DebG
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Posted by mommy2bella

wanna pile on for mac at 8 and do mani pedi at like 6 or 7?



Not to be a bubble buster, but chemo supresses your immune system and mani's and pedi's are a very easy way to gett sick.
Maybe it''s different for the person you know but I STILL haven't been given the aok by my oncoloogist (and trust me, I have asked..A LOT)

Message edited 6/20/2007 6:08:16 PM.

Posted 6/20/07 6:03 PM
 

dooodles
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Your friend is lucky to have you both! Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 6:03 PM
 

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is she a coffee drinker.......maybe 8 g.c.'s for starbucks or dunkin donuts?

also like the mani/pedi idea!

8 different nice lip glosses?

Message edited 6/20/2007 6:04:43 PM.

Posted 6/20/07 6:03 PM
 

DebG
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Mac is a good idea- Does her cancer center have a program called "Look good, Feel better"
If so, she could take that and do wonders with GOOD makeup

Posted 6/20/07 6:03 PM
 

dooodles
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Deb,

Is makeup okay or do you also have to wait for an a-okay on that?

Posted 6/20/07 6:04 PM
 

DebG
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Posted by jmf423

is she a coffee drinker.......maybe 8 g.c.'s for starbucks or dunkin donuts?

also like the mani/pedi idea!

Dunkin Donuts has a way that you can put whatever picture you want on a GF, maybe you guys can take a recent pic together and do that?

What about (insert ANY number here) books of puzzles/crosswords/wordfinds type book. I had 8 hours worth of chemo and it helped keep my mind off watching the clock.

Make a meal/bring a meal over (8 slices of pizza)

It's important to stay hydrated during chemo, the docs were always making me choke down water...what about different waters? Flat and sparkling and nutrition and flavored. I also had about 5 or 6 different flavors of gatoraid as my tastebuds were always changing

Is she feeling fatigue? The exhaustive kind? If so maybe a stress pillow and sleep mask? with a relaxation cd

Posted 6/20/07 6:07 PM
 

DebG
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You stated she is losing her hair and she is picky on scarves...what about hats? I have a hat I got from Dana Farber Cancer institute. It's called a "hat of hope" inside it has a few sayings of inspration and on the inside rim, I read
H O P E I wear this had almost all the time (It's the pink one you guys see in pictures and also where Sigh. Sob. Scream. Laugh. Repeat. saying came from.) Another saying is
"Women are like teabags, you never know how strong they are until they're in hot water>' That was Eleanor Roosevelt

Posted 6/20/07 6:10 PM
 

MissingLI
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Does she have a home? Maybe you can pay for a cleaning service to come in and clean her place for a few weeks for her.

Or what about the catered meal places, the ones where you go and pick up the ingredients for a full meal so there is less prep and she doesn't have too cook?

Posted 6/20/07 6:15 PM
 

DebG
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Posted by dooodles

Deb,

Is makeup okay or do you also have to wait for an a-okay on that?


Mac up is AOK.
Although, if she does the class, she will get some free. I got a red shoulder type bag with doactions of makeup in it from mac, elizabeth arden, revlon, estee lauder, aveda, bobbi brown, clarins-paris, avon and others

Posted 6/20/07 6:15 PM
 

lipglossjunky73
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Posted by DebG

You stated she is losing her hair and she is picky on scarves...what about hats? I have a hat I got from Dana Farber Cancer institute. It's called a "hat of hope" inside it has a few sayings of inspration and on the inside rim, I read
H O P E I wear this had almost all the time (It's the pink one you guys see in pictures and also where Sigh. Sob. Scream. Laugh. Repeat. saying came from.) Another saying is
"Women are like teabags, you never know how strong they are until they're in hot water>' That was Eleanor Roosevelt



I just looked up this hat Deb - its awesome!!!

Heres the link!

Posted 6/20/07 6:17 PM
 

mommy2bella
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Re: OK...Help us...

wow thanks for the GREAT insight Deb, I didn't even think of that Chat Icon

great ideas, keep them coming! I am gonna bother you guys a few times for ideas.

I really want her to look forward to this on Chemo day.

Posted 6/20/07 6:18 PM
 
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