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MarathonKnitter
HAPPY

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EMBRACING CHANGE

hopefully, the last update

i know i haven't been on in a while.

i want to start with a big "thank you" to everyone who offered kind words. i still haven't gotten to all the fm's to respond to them.

it seems like i won't be getting a divorce anytime soon. the last time i was on here, i mentioned that things were still quite rocky. soon after that, we had another BLOW OUT. i seriously thought i was going to get divorced in the middle of that.

funny enough, it ended up being a good thing. somwhere along the way, in the middle of the screaming, yelling, and crying we had a breakthrough.

so when the tears were dried, we decided to slow down and talk in ways that the other can understand. we also are working on the one snowflake that turned into the texas-sized snowball that was killing our marriage.

we're moving slowly, but we're moving in the right direction.

we even hosted our first "cook-out" last weekend.

there's still tension at times, but we're working... working really hard. d a m n! this is hard work.

i wanted to give this update to thank you all for your words/thoughts/prayers when i didn't know what to do or where to turn. i am eternally grateful for each and every person on this board.
now, i'm making myself cry Chat Icon

lizbeth

Posted 6/20/07 12:39 PM
 
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JennZ
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Re: hopefully, the last update

Glad to hear things are headed in the right direction. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 12:41 PM
 

MichelleR
my Becks

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tracyg

Re: hopefully, the last update

Chat Icon Chat Icon Glad to hear you guys are trying to work it all out.

Posted 6/20/07 12:43 PM
 

TheWhiteRabbit
Thru the rabbit hole!

Member since 7/06

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Re: hopefully, the last update

I am SO GLAD to hear that you're working it out! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 12:45 PM
 

Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!

Member since 5/05

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Professional Aunts No Kids

Re: hopefully, the last update

Good luck to you! Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 12:45 PM
 

PotofLuck06
Our Baby Boy Is Here!!!

Member since 11/06

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Betsy

Re: hopefully, the last update

Glad to hear that you're working things out! Good luck!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 12:50 PM
 

Beth
The Key to your new home....

Member since 2/06

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Beth

Re: hopefully, the last update

we had one of those too last year- it cleared the air and we have been find since!

we were only married about 7 months when it happened- Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 1:07 PM
 

lvdolphins
My Loves!

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Re: hopefully, the last update

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I am so glad things are going in the right direction. Take it one day at a time.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 2:03 PM
 

Chrisnamy
Summer is coming soon

Member since 1/07

3991 total posts

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Amy

Re: hopefully, the last update

Glad to hear that you talked!
Keep the communications flowing

Posted 6/20/07 2:06 PM
 

debsey75
My two best friends!

Member since 11/06

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Debbie

Re: hopefully, the last update

Glad to hear you are both trying to work things out.

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Posted 6/20/07 2:25 PM
 

Kara
Now Zagat Rated!

Member since 3/07

13217 total posts

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They call me "Tater Salad"

Re: hopefully, the last update

Thanks for the update. I really wish all the best for you both! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 2:27 PM
 

IluvBo
NICKY & EVIE

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Rose

Re: hopefully, the last update

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Posted 6/20/07 2:27 PM
 

MrsPowers
So blessed!

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Ivelysse

Re: hopefully, the last update

I am so glad to hear that things are working out! That is great news! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 4:00 PM
 

CkGm
They get so big, so fast :(

Member since 5/05

13848 total posts

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Christine

Re: hopefully, the last update

Glad to hear you are able to work it out- Sounds like you guys are really both putting in the effort and that's greatChat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 4:49 PM
 

Phyl
R.I.P. Sweet Mia ♥

Member since 5/06

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The Mystical Azzhorse! ™

Re: hopefully, the last update

I'm so glad you two are working on things! It's refreshing to see a couple not throw away a marriage and work together to save itChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 5:08 PM
 

LightUpOurLife
Totally in love

Member since 8/06

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Bonnie-Jean

Re: hopefully, the last update

SOOOO glad things are going well!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 5:17 PM
 

sunnyplus3
:)

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Re: hopefully, the last update

Chat Icon to you.
working hard to hold on to what you have is always harder than giving up, I hope you two can work through it together & get back to a more happy place that makes you both feel good & comes easy for you.
Chat Icon to you & your DH working things out!

Posted 6/20/07 5:26 PM
 

Tracey
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Tracey - brideinapril

Re: hopefully, the last update

I am so happy you are working things out - I wish you all the luck you need.

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No one ever said marriage was easy.

Posted 6/20/07 5:27 PM
 

evnme
My little lamb

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aka momma2b

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Posted 6/20/07 5:27 PM
 

reggie
I love my boys!!

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Posted 6/20/07 5:41 PM
 

LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis

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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)

Re: hopefully, the last update

I'm so glad you're working things out.

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Posted 6/20/07 5:55 PM
 

JenandMikey
life is good =)

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We're so blessed!

Re: hopefully, the last update

wow! good for u two!!!!!!! keep trying hard!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 6:26 PM
 

MarathonKnitter
HAPPY

Member since 2/07

17374 total posts

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EMBRACING CHANGE

Re: hopefully, the last update

thanks for the continued encouragement and kind words. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 7:26 PM
 

Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!

Member since 5/05

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Gerty ®

Re: hopefully, the last update

I am so glad to hear you are working on things and it's headed in the right direction.
Good luck to you both!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 10:46 PM
 

julz33
i run for bacon

Member since 5/05

20584 total posts

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julz

Re: hopefully, the last update

I am glad to hear things are better Chat Icon

Posted 6/20/07 11:08 PM
 
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