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NewlyMrs
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Member since 10/06

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Name:
Jennifer

Re: Living Expenses

Posted by SweetestOfPeas

Posted by angnick

Posted by MikesWife

Posted by Lisa

Posted by LaurenExp

All the money goes into one pot and I pay the bills.



same for us



Same here



same here!

same



us too!

Posted 6/6/07 12:33 PM
 
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chikita315
Love

Member since 8/06

7945 total posts

Name:
M-lo

Re: Living Expenses

Our living expenses (mortgage, utilities, food, cell phone - we have a family plan) come out of our joint account.
3 of his 4 monthly paychecks go into that account and about 70% of my monthly take-home go into the joint account.
His 1 check a month is for his student loan and whatever spending money he needs. He'll put some money in his savings account as well.

My 30% goes towards my LIRR ticket, my student loan and some cc debt I have and spending money, I also put 10% into my savings.

I take money out of our joint checking and put it in to a joint savings account as well.
DH also gets "vacation" pay from the union, that goes right to savings, unless it's needed for unexpected expenses. As does any bonus money I get.

ETA: I do the bills. DH sux at handling money.

Message edited 6/6/2007 12:35:12 PM.

Posted 6/6/07 12:33 PM
 

hazeleyes33
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

13060 total posts

Name:
Ginger

Re: Living Expenses

Posted by LaurenExp

All the money goes into one pot and I pay the bills.



Same here

Posted 6/6/07 12:34 PM
 

pmpkn087
Life is good...

Member since 9/05

18504 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: Living Expenses

I make more than DH, so I think I pay more. But, I definately spend more as well.

He gives me a set amount at the end of the week and keeps $100 for himself (plus any overtime he makes). I pay the bills, rent, cc, car payment, savings, etc., with my money and the money he gives me is spending and food money. Also if we go out, I use that money. Lots of times I don't use it all and I get a whole bunch of "extra" money and I will put that in our savings when it really adds up.

Posted 6/6/07 12:37 PM
 

ml110
LIF Adult

Member since 1/06

5435 total posts

Name:

Re: Living Expenses

we have a joint account and we also each have our own accounts.
we do it by percentage, since DH makes about 30 K more than i do. we each deposit an equal percentage of our paychecks into the jiont account, and use that to pay mortgage, bills. groceries, etc... and the rest of each of our paychecks goes into our seperate accounts that we do what we want with. it works out great Chat Icon we each contribute to house bills, but each stil have our own "just in case" money, too Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/07 12:50 PM
 

JenBenMen
party of five

Member since 9/06

11343 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: Living Expenses

We both almost the same amount in and it gets divided for all the expenses and savings

Posted 6/6/07 12:53 PM
 

bikramaddict
mommy-to-be

Member since 8/06

4376 total posts

Name:

Re: Living Expenses

Posted by LaurenExp

All the money goes into one pot and I pay the bills.



same

Posted 6/6/07 12:54 PM
 

Kara
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Member since 3/07

13217 total posts

Name:
They call me "Tater Salad"

Re: Living Expenses

There is no "my money" and "his money." ALL of our bank and financial accounts are joint (except our 401(k)s b/c that would be impossible). We pay all the bills and contribute to savings from OUR money.

Posted 6/6/07 12:59 PM
 

FRAPPALICIOUS
sexxxxxy

Member since 10/05

2236 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Living Expenses

Both paychecks go into one account, I pay the bills and spend the majority of the money Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
From time to time I will give DH an allowance Chat Icon

Posted 6/6/07 1:09 PM
 

MSeid
LIF Adolescent

Member since 11/05

805 total posts

Name:

Re: Living Expenses

All our money goes into one acct and then I pay bills and allocate savings.

Posted 6/6/07 1:17 PM
 

nylisa
My Children

Member since 5/05

7905 total posts

Name:
MaMa

Re: Living Expenses

Posted by LaurenExp

All the money goes into one pot and I pay the bills.


us too

Posted 6/6/07 1:22 PM
 

TwoGirls4Me
Treasure what you have

Member since 5/05

1839 total posts

Name:
Marie

Re: Living Expenses

Posted by MikesWife

Posted by Lisa

Posted by LaurenExp

All the money goes into one pot and I pay the bills.



same for us



Same here



same here

Posted 6/6/07 1:27 PM
 

VickiC
Rocking the party

Member since 5/05

4937 total posts

Name:
Vicki

Re: Living Expenses

Posted by LaurenExp

All the money goes into one pot and I pay the bills.



Same here too.

Posted 6/6/07 2:04 PM
 

sunflowerjesss
Mommy to 3!

Member since 10/05

20369 total posts

Name:
Jesss, duh.

Re: Living Expenses

We each put a certain amount away each week for combined expenses (house, life insurance policies, utilities etc).

Monthly we put away a certain amount into joint savings.

Whatever left over is our own (individually) to spend/save and pay our own credit cards.

Posted 6/6/07 2:16 PM
 

njbound07
LIF Adolescent

Member since 4/07

799 total posts

Name:
pimpette

Re: Living Expenses

Posted by Kara

There is no "my money" and "his money." ALL of our bank and financial accounts are joint (except our 401(k)s b/c that would be impossible). We pay all the bills and contribute to savings from OUR money.



same goes here.

Posted 6/6/07 2:31 PM
 

KateDevine
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Member since 6/06

24950 total posts

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Re: Living Expenses

Posted by christina-and-mike07

Posted by Kara

There is no "my money" and "his money." ALL of our bank and financial accounts are joint (except our 401(k)s b/c that would be impossible). We pay all the bills and contribute to savings from OUR money.



same goes here.



Us too. Since we moved in together almost four years ago.

Both checks go into one account, right now it works out that DH's pay the rent and mine pay the bills. But that changes based on a lot of variables.

I pay everything. DH has no idea what we pay for things and just uses the money I give him.

Recently I was at lunch with my parents who have been married for 35 years and my dad asked my mom for $20. She handed it to him and then yelled at him for not telling her that he spent $5 on their debit card. I almost died laughing bc he makes A LOT of money and they sounded just like me and DH.

Posted 6/6/07 2:58 PM
 

GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!

Member since 7/05

21138 total posts

Name:
Genna

Re: Living Expenses

Posted by MikesWife

Posted by Lisa

Posted by LaurenExp

All the money goes into one pot and I pay the bills.



same for us



Same here



same for us except DH pays the bills

Posted 6/6/07 3:56 PM
 

MST9106
My life:)

Member since 6/06

9589 total posts

Name:

Re: Living Expenses

We split 50/50 on rent and utilities...we pay our own cc bills, he pays insurance, I make the car payments, our savings are together.

Posted 6/6/07 3:58 PM
 

BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be

Member since 5/06

9746 total posts

Name:
She who shall remain nameless

Re: Living Expenses

Since I am a SAHM my DH pays for mostly everything. I sell on ebay and that usually brings in enough to cover the groceries or other minor things that need to be paid.

Posted 6/6/07 3:59 PM
 

curliegirl
He's here!!!!

Member since 3/06

10128 total posts

Name:
Gina

Re: Living Expenses

DH pays the mortgage, electric, oil, cable, his car and his own private credit cards

I pay the telephone, internet, cell phones, water (big woop), groceries my car, credit cards and student loans

We have a joint savings which pays our car insurance, vet bills and any other larger "surprises".

It works for us

Posted 6/6/07 4:02 PM
 

Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

Member since 5/05

14266 total posts

Name:
Jes

Re: Living Expenses

DH gets direct deposit. I get cash.

So, i pay more of the rent (alittle more than half) and he pays all of the other bills (cells, cable, electric, etc)

Posted 6/6/07 4:05 PM
 

evnme
My little lamb

Member since 8/05

12633 total posts

Name:
aka momma2b

Re: Living Expenses

all the money is in the same pot

Posted 6/6/07 4:50 PM
 

TeddyBear922
LIF Adult

Member since 8/06

1265 total posts

Name:
Chris

Re: Living Expenses

S/O make a bit more than me, but we each put a certain amount in and pay all our bills from that. As long as the bills are paid he never questions how I spend, or what I spend it on. We've been doing in this way for a few years now....and it works for us!

Message edited 6/7/2007 9:07:05 AM.

Posted 6/7/07 9:06 AM
 

Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!

Member since 5/05

20046 total posts

Name:
Gerty ®

Re: Living Expenses

Posted by LaurenExp

All the money goes into one pot and I pay the bills.



This is what we do.

Posted 6/7/07 9:35 AM
 

Wendy
Wheeee!

Member since 5/05

13736 total posts

Name:

Re: Living Expenses

DH pays the mortgage, his car payment and his CC.

I pay everything else.

Posted 6/7/07 9:54 AM
 
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