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Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!
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Leslie....
When are you having your D & C/Hysteroscopy?
I just wanted to wish you luck.
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rose825
Best Friends
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Re: Leslie....
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| Posted 5/1/07 7:17 AM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)
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Re: Leslie....
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| Posted 5/1/07 7:58 AM |
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LIBOUND
Texting king
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Suzy
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Re: Leslie....
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| Posted 5/1/07 8:34 AM |
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Goldi0218
My miracles!
Member since 12/05 23902 total posts
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Leslie
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Re: Leslie....
Posted by Gertyrae
When are you having your D & C/Hysteroscopy?
I just wanted to wish you luck.
Thanks ladies. The procedure is on Thursday morning. We have to be there at 6:15 for a 7am start time. Joy! DH is all set with his PS2. I fluctuate between being a nervous wreck and semi-calm. DH is very very calm. He is amazing and I am blessed to have him.
My ILs know and they are supportive too. MIL called me the other day to see how the pre-op testing went. It was a good feeling. Telling them wasn't easy for me, but they are family and their son is going through this with me.
My mother offered to sit with DH for "his sake/support" but it isn't open heart surgery. It is diagnostic. I promised her that he would call her as soon as he could. I appreciate her concern, but she is not a well woman and she gets very anxious. She walks with a walker and sometimes uses a wheelchair. DH shouldnt have to worry about 2 people. Heaven forbid, we should get any bad news, he shouldnt have to field questions from anyone else.
I just got an email from my brother yesterday expressing his concern and support. My sisters are supportive too but for some reason, his note hit my heart. He did not really know what to say which was so much like my Dad and I just broke down getting all teary. My father was a gentle man of few words. However, he was a lousy poker player so you always knew how he felt - especially about his family. My brother now has this trait - one that I miss so much. This prompted a major fear that if I can't have kids, then I won't be able to give my father a name in legacy. That hurt so much - as much as it hurts to think that I may not be able to give a child to DH.
I realize that there are technologies and procedures to help people like us. I also realize that people have it worse than we do. I realize that there are other ways for us to be parents. But frankly, we are nowhere near considering adoption until and unless we have exhausted every effort through medicine or surgery even if it means second or third or fourth opinions.
I also realize that I may be blowing this whole thing out of proportion and everything can be just fine. But I need to get through things step by step. My heartache is my heartache and I am beyond the "just relax" and the "it will all work out" phase of this.
I am so sorry for the rantings and ramblings of a crazy person. I am not going to lie. I am scared. But I have to do this for my family. There are no choices.
Thanks again. You are all amazing!
Message edited 5/1/2007 8:41:36 AM.
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CityNYGirl
My everything!!!!!
Member since 5/05 2324 total posts
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Betty
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Re: Leslie....
Leslie, you will be in my thoughts that day!!!
Stay strong, positiive and everything will be ok!!!!!
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| Posted 5/1/07 9:11 AM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
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Re: Leslie....
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| Posted 5/1/07 9:30 AM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: Leslie....
Leslie - I haven't been posting much here or on TTC as I'm trying not to obsess about things too much, but I've been thinking about you and hope you get a quick BFP after this procedure!
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| Posted 5/1/07 9:31 AM |
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angel7
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Leslie....
Good Luck!!
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| Posted 5/1/07 9:34 AM |
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calendargrl
LIF Adult
Member since 5/05 1686 total posts
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jan
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Re: Leslie....
Good luck.
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| Posted 5/1/07 10:14 AM |
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natasa
Girls Rule
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natasa
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Re: Leslie....
Good luck!
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| Posted 5/1/07 11:13 AM |
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Red
spring is in the air
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helen
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Re: Leslie....
good luck
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| Posted 5/1/07 11:14 AM |
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jellybean78
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Mommy
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Re: Leslie....
Good Luck!
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| Posted 5/1/07 11:19 AM |
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DRMom
Two in Blue
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Melissa
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Re: Leslie....
Good luck Leslie.
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| Posted 5/1/07 11:59 AM |
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CAT215
The Merlster
Member since 10/06 2540 total posts
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Cathie
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Re: Leslie....
Good Luck
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| Posted 5/1/07 12:03 PM |
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LisaW
Time for me to FLY!
Member since 5/05 13199 total posts
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?
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Re: Leslie....
Good luck
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| Posted 5/1/07 12:05 PM |
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princess99
LIF Adult
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ME
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Re: Leslie....
Leslie,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please let us know how you are doing.
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| Posted 5/1/07 1:53 PM |
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Snozberry
I might steal your diamonds
Member since 2/06 4680 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: Leslie....
I'm sorry - I giggled a little at the thought of Ed with the PSP in his hands. 
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| Posted 5/1/07 2:28 PM |
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Goldi0218
My miracles!
Member since 12/05 23902 total posts
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Leslie
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Re: Leslie....
Posted by Snozberry
I'm sorry - I giggled a little at the thought of Ed with the PSP in his hands.
I know what makes my man happy. Actually, the PSP is very mind numbing, requiring focus and if it keeps him from getting nervous, I am all for it.
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| Posted 5/1/07 2:47 PM |
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Jen2999
Baby girls & beagles rock!
Member since 8/06 10356 total posts
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Jen
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Re: Leslie....
good luck leslie!
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| Posted 5/1/07 3:53 PM |
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skygirl
Our prayers were answered:)
Member since 6/05 4919 total posts
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Erica
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Re: Leslie....
I'll be thinking of you-
Good luck on thursday-
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| Posted 5/1/07 5:49 PM |
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Lee
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Leslie....
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| Posted 5/1/07 6:11 PM |
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boosh1002
We like hanging together!
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Mommy to twins
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Re: Leslie....
Good Luck!!!!
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| Posted 5/2/07 9:33 AM |
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Goldi0218
My miracles!
Member since 12/05 23902 total posts
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Leslie
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Re: Leslie....
Thanks everyone. I just called to confirm the procedure and I am good to go.
Lets talk irony for a minute here. I got a positive on my OPK today, my CM is more apparent then usual and I feel crampy. When Dr. R. is in there, he should see one hell of a "Fertile Myrtle." I almost wish as if he could "deposit" a little happiness from DH while he is in there though I know it isnt possible.
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| Posted 5/2/07 9:41 AM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
Member since 8/06 11613 total posts
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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)
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Re: Leslie....
Posted by Goldi0218
Thanks everyone. I just called to confirm the procedure and I am good to go.
Lets talk irony for a minute here. I got a positive on my OPK today, my CM is more apparent then usual and I feel crampy. When Dr. R. is in there, he should see one hell of a "Fertile Myrtle." I almost wish as if he could "deposit" a little happiness from DH while he is in there though I know it isnt possible.
I wish he could, too. Why not? He's already in there!! Might as well put the instruments to good use. All he needs is a specimen and a turkey baster, and you're all set!
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| Posted 5/2/07 9:48 AM |
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