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Wagust74
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Pregnancy test?

My ex girlfriend is pregnant. The day she told me her daughter clicked on an email on her phone. It looked to be a pregnancy test but she claims it was an ovulation test. I don’t believe her. She claims to went in for an embryo transfer without ever going in to the clinic the day she did.

I have been trying to find a picture of it on line with no luck. She wouldn’t send it to me.

The test was completely pink. The one end was rounded for easy to use with your thumb and the area you pee on was a long rectangle. I know it’s not the assured test from dollar.

Searching for help!!!

I need to prove to her that this is mine. I know she is laying to me.

Posted 7/27/21 3:38 PM
 
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NervousNell
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Re: Pregnancy test?

I'm confused- you need to prove what to her?
That the baby is yours?
What does the pregnancy vs ovulation test have to do with that?
I'm not following the story here.

Message edited 7/27/2021 4:29:34 PM.

Posted 7/27/21 4:28 PM
 

Wagust74
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Pregnancy test?

Hard to explain via text. I’ll try to clear it up a little bit

She claims to have done an embryo transfer. That was six days after she broke up with me.

She says the baby is not mine because she did that. Her daughter accidentally open an email that I saw in the picture what looked to be a pregnancy test. The subject line was surprised number 3. That was dated the day before she supposedly went in for the embryo transfer.

Just last week she showed me all these papers that said that she did it on 12 April. Well there’s a lot of things about that paperwork that was concerning to me. They called a fertility clinic and it turned out to be the one that she went to. She claims that she did nothing prior to the embryo transfer in the clinic said that they would not do that because of liability issues. We had a pregnancy scare at the beginning of. After the scare was over she told me that if she got pregnant she won’t tell the father.

When she had broke up with me things are great between us she just had to come up with a story.

I had told her parents that I had questions about this and they did as well. He told me that she was controlling and manipulative.

I remember exactly what the picture looks like in my head but I just can’t find it online.

Posted 7/27/21 5:17 PM
 

Wagust74
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Pregnancy test?

I’m trying to catch her in the sly because I would like her to admit it but I have to wait to take her to court. I would like to be there when the babies born and hold my child that very day.

Posted 7/27/21 5:18 PM
 

Momma2015
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Re: Pregnancy test?

The way you describe it sounds like a First Response test, but they make both ovulation and pregnancy tests.

Posted 7/28/21 1:48 PM
 

Wagust74
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Re: Pregnancy test?

The only problem is I have only seen white one. The housing was all pink.

I seen one that is similar. I uploaded a picture similar. The one I had seen had no writing on it. Also the part where you hold it was a little larger and the end where you test was slimmer.

Posted 7/28/21 3:34 PM
 

Wagust74
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Pregnancy test?

The color of the test that I posted is spot on

Posted 7/28/21 3:49 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: Pregnancy test?

Well regardless you won't be able to prove anything unless you get a DNA test.
Even if you had concrete proof of what that test was, she would still deny it.
So as much as i know it kills you, you have to wait for the court to order a dna test otherwise it really doesn't matter what you know- you need proof.
Sorry you're dealing with all this.

Posted 7/28/21 5:23 PM
 

Wagust74
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Pregnancy test?

Thank you. It’s terrible because I’m a great father.

Well I’m still in contact with her parents so I might need to go that route

Posted 7/28/21 6:14 PM
 

AugustEvermore
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Pregnancy test?

Good luck !!!

Posted 8/4/21 10:18 PM
 

Katareen
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Pregnancy test?

Are these your embryos? Or did she have a donor?
And why is she having “pregnancy scares” if she has frozen embryos that she wants to get pregnant with?

Posted 8/5/21 8:37 AM
 

hmm
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Pregnancy test?

how did she have a transfer without going to the clinic?

Posted 8/13/21 10:47 PM
 

Wagust74
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Re: Pregnancy test?

She claims to have went in to the clinic to get the embryo transfer. She did all of this Per her claims she just showed up to do it after an ovulation test. Never went to the clinic prior to anything. She claims 2 1/2 years ago that the eggs were in storage. I know for a fact she never went.

What I’m looking for our pregnancy tests that match the description I was looking.

Posted 8/14/21 2:23 AM
 
 

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