LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Teacher/bus driver/ lunch aide gifts???

Posted By Message
Pages: 1 [2]

alli3131
Peanut is here!!!!!!

Member since 5/09

18388 total posts

Name:
Allison

Teacher/bus driver/ lunch aide gifts???

I don’t give anything other than the class gift. I did get the teacher and aide something at teacher appreciation day last month.

Posted 6/18/18 1:17 PM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

lightblue
LIF Adult

Member since 1/17

2249 total posts

Name:

Re: Teacher/bus driver/ lunch aide gifts???

My son is in a special education class and he has a lot of people involved in his life between teacher, aides, school therapists, home therapists, bus drivers/matrons. Our class mom collected for the teacher and classroom aides so that helped at least. For the rest I got $10 Dunkin Giftcards, (because before I know it I'm spending $200 on Giftcards), along with a Thank you note.

Posted 6/18/18 3:54 PM
 

PurpleC
Miracles Do Come True

Member since 8/10

2287 total posts

Name:
Caren

Re: Teacher/bus driver/ lunch aide gifts???

Posted by mnmsoinlove

Posted by WannaBeAMom11

Can I ask why parents buy above the class gift? I collected a lot of money for my class gift for dd’s Teachers and thought that was beyond generous. I couldn’t see giving more.



Honestly I feel like a good teacher deserves more than just $10 a child. They spend all year with my child, caring for them, teaching them, and they play a big role in my child’s life. This year I gave $25 extra per teacher on top of the class gift but in years prior I did $50 because those teachers were phenomenal and made extra efforts to make the year a great experience.



This! I felt that my sons kindergarten teachers did a great job with my son. I wanted to do something extra special since I felt that 5.00 towards each teacher was not enough. I didn't want to buy them a wine glass, mug or something they did not need. I gave 25.00 Target gift cards.

Posted 6/18/18 4:19 PM
 

NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09

54917 total posts

Name:
..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: Teacher/bus driver/ lunch aide gifts???

I wonder if collecting more per person for the class gift would be better.
Seems people want to spend at least $20- $25.
So if they suggested that amount (with a caveat that you can give whatever you want so people don't feel like they HAVE to give that much) the teacher could get a really kick ass gift and everyone wouldn't have to scramble to give ANOTHER gift on top of it .
And the teacher doesn't end up with a 25 smaller gifts instead.


Posted 6/18/18 5:14 PM
 

Bamama
LIF Adult

Member since 8/11

991 total posts

Name:

Re: Teacher/bus driver/ lunch aide gifts???

Our district strictly limits the amount the class parent can collect. It is $6 per teacher for the year from each student.

To me, a $50 gift card in December and June from the whole class is just not enough to show our appreciation, so I gift separately as well. It's a pesonal choice. We've been lucky to have wonderful teachers who go above and beyond, so I feel they deserve it, and as much as it hurts my pocketbook, I feel it is the right thing to do.

Posted 6/18/18 7:16 PM
 

NervousNell
Just another chapter in life..

Member since 11/09

54917 total posts

Name:
..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: Teacher/bus driver/ lunch aide gifts???

Posted by Bamama

Our district strictly limits the amount the class parent can collect. It is $6 per teacher for the year from each student.

To me, a $50 gift card in December and June from the whole class is just not enough to show our appreciation, so I gift separately as well. It's a pesonal choice. We've been lucky to have wonderful teachers who go above and beyond, so I feel they deserve it, and as much as it hurts my pocketbook, I feel it is the right thing to do.



We collect $5 pet student and there are 24 kids in the class so that's $120 at Christmas, Teacher Appreciation Week and end of year. Not bad.
I still would gladly give more to the class gift to avoid having to buy my own on top of it

Posted 6/18/18 8:06 PM
 

butterfly20
Party of 5 - 2015

Member since 4/06

7390 total posts

Name:

Teacher/bus driver/ lunch aide gifts???

my kids class has a person who collects 20 a kid for the teacher. then there is a head parent in the school that collects for the principal/vice principal , specialty teachers, lunch aides etc.... its a catholic school so they dont make as much or volunteer to start with

Posted 6/18/18 11:05 PM
 

KarenK122
The Journey is the Destination

Member since 5/05

4430 total posts

Name:
Karen

Teacher/bus driver/ lunch aide gifts???

My kids are both in special ed and we don't collect for a class gift. There aren't enough kids to make a decent gift. This year because I now have two with teachers, aides, therapists, etc., I had 22 gifts to get just for in school. Crazy. The main teachers I gave GCs and my youngest's aide I gave the largest GC because she is really a life saver. The rest of them I made little goodie bags with lottery scratch offs. I use to buy lunch for all the aides one day the last week of school but this year a kid in my daughter's class owns a restaurant and always sends in food so I sort of got trumped on that lol.

Posted 6/18/18 11:43 PM
 

lightblue
LIF Adult

Member since 1/17

2249 total posts

Name:

Re: Teacher/bus driver/ lunch aide gifts???

I wanted to add, do what you can afford. I am sure any sort of gesture will be appreciated. Even if it is just a hand written note saying thank you.

Posted 6/19/18 2:00 PM
 

LiveItUp
Love my babies!

Member since 8/11

4096 total posts

Name:

Re: Teacher/bus driver/ lunch aide gifts???

Posted by NervousNell

I wonder if collecting more per person for the class gift would be better.
Seems people want to spend at least $20- $25.
So if they suggested that amount (with a caveat that you can give whatever you want so people don't feel like they HAVE to give that much) the teacher could get a really kick ass gift and everyone wouldn't have to scramble to give ANOTHER gift on top of it .
And the teacher doesn't end up with a 25 smaller gifts instead.





For me, personally, it's not about having a set amount I feel i should spend, its more about showing appreciation for that teacher or professional who cared for my child and made an impact on her life. I don't feel a need to spend a lot - I know teachers make good money and don't "need" $25 or X-amount gift card. I like Dd to be able to give them some little trinket just to show she cared for her teacher, a long with a thank you note from me, and now that dd is able to write a little, a drawing and thank you note from dd.

Posted 6/19/18 9:42 PM
 
Pages: 1 [2]
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
Besides teacher and bus driver, do you but gifts for anyone else? MissJones 6/17/17 8 Parenting
Another teacher gifts post, sorry! Also bus driver.... sunny 12/11/10 4 Parents of School-Aged Children
Teacher/bus driver gifts anjerandunder 11/19/07 13 Parenting
Teacher and bus driver gift questions EricaAlt 12/4/12 0 Parenting
End of Year Gifts? Bus Driver Marybeth222 6/9/10 3 Parents of School-Aged Children
Holiday Gifts...How about the bus driver??? Dani00518 11/16/08 3 Parenting
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 712408 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows