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LiveItUp
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School/PTA fundraisers

School just started a few weeks ago, and already my dd has come home with 3 different school or pta fundraisers. Are we going to be getting stuff like this sent home all year? I want to be supportive of her school, but it's getting a little ridiculous if we keep having to buy $30 candles, and pay for coupons that normally come free in the newspaper anyway Chat Icon Is it terrible if I don't buy anything from some of the fundraisers that are sent home?

Posted 9/29/17 6:27 AM
 

TreAnt427
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

I buy the cookie dough and that's it. I make it around the holidays to bring to co-workers and family/friends.

I don't need any of the other overpriced crap and I wouldn't try to sell it either. Chat Icon

Posted 9/29/17 8:23 AM
 

luvmykids8
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School/PTA fundraisers

I toss most of it because honestly I don't need all of that stuff. I really just buy the wrapping paper from the that fundraiser because I always need wrapping paper especially with the holidays coming up but that's it. I don't buy candy, candles, etc. It's just too much. I support the school in other ways though.

Posted 9/29/17 8:53 AM
 

Christine Braun - Signature Premier Properties
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

In our school we tend to have a lot of fundraisers in the fall, and then it eases up a bit, and we do a couple of spring fundraisers.

Some of our fundraisers have more "useful items" - we do a fall plant sale with really pretty mums, a Thanksgiving pie sale right before the holiday, etc.

Also some of our fundraisers are more "events" like our spring auction than strictly "buy crap from this catalogue."

I do like the kids' coupon books because I can keep it in my car and it's a bunch of high value coupons all in one place and the expiration dates are long (unlike those you clip in the paper).

But I don't think there is any expectation that everyone buy everything. It can definitely be overwhelming and it all adds up.

I can usually find something useful to buy (gift wrap, etc.), but just buy what you want/need/can afford. Every little bit helps support the PTA, and it all goes back to provide educational enhancements for the kids.

Posted 9/29/17 10:55 AM
 

NervousNell
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

In the trash.
Need money? I'll write them a check.
I am not buying or even worse selling their shit.
Nope.
Done.

I bought the kids stuff book and what a waste of $25 that was. Shittyy coupons that I could find online now a days.

Just toss it and don't think twice.

As far as wrapping paper- I get it as cheap as possible for the huge rolls at BJs. It's getting ripped off and thrown in the garbage....who needs quality?



Message edited 9/29/2017 11:01:22 AM.

Posted 9/29/17 11:00 AM
 

ali120206
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School/PTA fundraisers

It does seem overwhelming in the fall - I remember when DS 1 was in kindergarten it was so much and I felt obligated to buy everything.

I went to a PTA meeting and they explained that they send it home because even if some people buy- it's money towards the school. For the fall wrapping paper fundraiser, they say generally 60 kids participate out of the 300 at the school - and the school makes a lot of money. For the coupon books, the school gets back 1/2 of the price (I do admit - they have gone downhill over the years - the first year I bought they had 4 - $5 off coupons to Shop Rite so the book basically paid for itself).

Posted 9/29/17 11:25 AM
 

dianadrw
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School/PTA fundraisers

DD is in kindergarten so it's our first experience with this type of fundraising. Our fall fundraiser just finished and I wrote a check to donate to the PTA. I refuse to buy crap and also try to sell it to family and friends. I'd much rather just give them the money. I realize they can't go around just asking for money. But for me it's what works.

Posted 9/29/17 12:57 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

I often wonder where my tax money goes.
SOOOO much taxes on LI and we have to hawk wrapping papper and pies to get "gym equipement" or have "activities"

Posted 9/29/17 3:35 PM
 

MaZz
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School/PTA fundraisers

I chose to skip the kids book... didn't even ask anyone if they wanted it... I am the queen of coupons and thought it was crap... we are currently selling nuts for my dd's Girl Scout troop so school fundraising will have to wait Chat Icon

Posted 9/29/17 10:13 PM
 

nycgirl
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

I agree. I hate selling junk.

Change it!

Our PTA sells mostly school "spirit wear"... cute designed shirts for boys and girls that look like they could be hanging on a boutique store rack (I think there are Moms schooled in design on those committees). After I complimented the style, I was told it took the whole summer of meetings to perfect.

Kids and moms cluster to buy the stuff (it IS adorable and trendy). Prices aren't bad (20ish $ for a shirt).

Posted 9/30/17 9:21 AM
 

dianadrw
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

Posted by nycgirl

I agree. I hate selling junk.

Change it!

Our PTA sells mostly school "spirit wear"... cute designed shirts for boys and girls that look like they could be hanging on a boutique store rack (I think there are Moms schooled in design on those committees). After I complimented the style, I was told it took the whole summer of meetings to perfect.

Kids and moms cluster to buy the stuff (it IS adorable and trendy). Prices aren't bad (20ish $ for a shirt).



That's a great idea! Our PTA sells spirit wear too but it's kinda lame to be honest. I think they'd have more luck if it had more of a boutique look.

Posted 10/3/17 11:33 AM
 

NervousNell
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

Posted by dianadrw

Posted by nycgirl

I agree. I hate selling junk.

Change it!

Our PTA sells mostly school "spirit wear"... cute designed shirts for boys and girls that look like they could be hanging on a boutique store rack (I think there are Moms schooled in design on those committees). After I complimented the style, I was told it took the whole summer of meetings to perfect.

Kids and moms cluster to buy the stuff (it IS adorable and trendy). Prices aren't bad (20ish $ for a shirt).



That's a great idea! Our PTA sells spirit wear too but it's kinda lame to be honest. I think they'd have more luck if it had more of a boutique look.



Yes ,I would love this. Something with some style ,not a baggy men's style t shirt.
The packet came home yesterday with the chocolates, cookie dough, some cheesecakes, wrapping paper. It made such a loud thud as it hit the trash can.

Posted 10/3/17 11:48 AM
 

Laraaidan
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by dianadrw

Posted by nycgirl

I agree. I hate selling junk.

Change it!

Our PTA sells mostly school "spirit wear"... cute designed shirts for boys and girls that look like they could be hanging on a boutique store rack (I think there are Moms schooled in design on those committees). After I complimented the style, I was told it took the whole summer of meetings to perfect.

Kids and moms cluster to buy the stuff (it IS adorable and trendy). Prices aren't bad (20ish $ for a shirt).



That's a great idea! Our PTA sells spirit wear too but it's kinda lame to be honest. I think they'd have more luck if it had more of a boutique look.



Yes ,I would love this. Something with some style ,not a baggy men's style t shirt.
The packet came home yesterday with the chocolates, cookie dough, some cheesecakes, wrapping paper. It made such a loud thud as it hit the trash can.




Cracking upChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon "loud thud" Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/3/17 12:00 PM
 

Tulip9
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

we are month in and I am down $200 - between the fundraisers, school pictures and the 2 hour field trip....

Posted 10/4/17 9:03 AM
 

MaZz
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

Posted by Tulip9

we are month in and I am down $200 - between the fundraisers, school pictures and the 2 hour field trip....



Omg... I was just thinking the same thing before!!! I think I'm shelling out more money now than I was during the diaper/formula stage!!! Good grief! Dd is also in soccer and Girl Scouts so that totally doesn't help... Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/17 12:27 PM
 

BargainMama
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

Posted by dianadrw

Posted by nycgirl

I agree. I hate selling junk.

Change it!

Our PTA sells mostly school "spirit wear"... cute designed shirts for boys and girls that look like they could be hanging on a boutique store rack (I think there are Moms schooled in design on those committees). After I complimented the style, I was told it took the whole summer of meetings to perfect.

Kids and moms cluster to buy the stuff (it IS adorable and trendy). Prices aren't bad (20ish $ for a shirt).



That's a great idea! Our PTA sells spirit wear too but it's kinda lame to be honest. I think they'd have more luck if it had more of a boutique look.



Yup! Our Spirit wear is boxy cut shirts with not so great designs, that I just don't buy. I was making my own on items from Boutique Blanks....ruffle dresses, girly cut t-shirts, etc. I did sell some to other moms in the district, but I think I pissed off a few people since it wasn't a SCHOOL fundraiser, and I was making money on it Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/17 12:32 PM
 

NervousNell
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

Posted by BargainMama

Posted by dianadrw

Posted by nycgirl

I agree. I hate selling junk.

Change it!

Our PTA sells mostly school "spirit wear"... cute designed shirts for boys and girls that look like they could be hanging on a boutique store rack (I think there are Moms schooled in design on those committees). After I complimented the style, I was told it took the whole summer of meetings to perfect.

Kids and moms cluster to buy the stuff (it IS adorable and trendy). Prices aren't bad (20ish $ for a shirt).



That's a great idea! Our PTA sells spirit wear too but it's kinda lame to be honest. I think they'd have more luck if it had more of a boutique look.



Yup! Our Spirit wear is boxy cut shirts with not so great designs, that I just don't buy. I was making my own on items from Boutique Blanks....ruffle dresses, girly cut t-shirts, etc. I did sell some to other moms in the district, but I think I pissed off a few people since it wasn't a SCHOOL fundraiser, and I was making money on it Chat Icon



Then they should enlist you to help them with designing things for the actual fundraiser!
Chat Icon

Posted 10/5/17 1:51 PM
 

nycgirl
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by BargainMama

Posted by dianadrw

Posted by nycgirl

I agree. I hate selling junk.

Change it!

Our PTA sells mostly school "spirit wear"... cute designed shirts for boys and girls that look like they could be hanging on a boutique store rack (I think there are Moms schooled in design on those committees). After I complimented the style, I was told it took the whole summer of meetings to perfect.

Kids and moms cluster to buy the stuff (it IS adorable and trendy). Prices aren't bad (20ish $ for a shirt).



That's a great idea! Our PTA sells spirit wear too but it's kinda lame to be honest. I think they'd have more luck if it had more of a boutique look.



Yup! Our Spirit wear is boxy cut shirts with not so great designs, that I just don't buy. I was making my own on items from Boutique Blanks....ruffle dresses, girly cut t-shirts, etc. I did sell some to other moms in the district, but I think I pissed off a few people since it wasn't a SCHOOL fundraiser, and I was making money on it Chat Icon



Then they should enlist you to help them with designing things for the actual fundraiser!
Chat Icon



Yep. It's a good way of getting involved in PTA without going to meetings.

Posted 10/5/17 3:34 PM
 

pumpkinmom
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

Posted by MaZz

Posted by Tulip9

we are month in and I am down $200 - between the fundraisers, school pictures and the 2 hour field trip....



Omg... I was just thinking the same thing before!!! I think I'm shelling out more money now than I was during the diaper/formula stage!!! Good grief! Dd is also in soccer and Girl Scouts so that totally doesn't help... Chat Icon



I am writing checks to the school every week...

Posted 10/5/17 4:10 PM
 

BargainMama
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Re: School/PTA fundraisers

Posted by nycgirl

Posted by NervousNell

Posted by BargainMama

Posted by dianadrw

Posted by nycgirl

I agree. I hate selling junk.

Change it!

Our PTA sells mostly school "spirit wear"... cute designed shirts for boys and girls that look like they could be hanging on a boutique store rack (I think there are Moms schooled in design on those committees). After I complimented the style, I was told it took the whole summer of meetings to perfect.

Kids and moms cluster to buy the stuff (it IS adorable and trendy). Prices aren't bad (20ish $ for a shirt).



That's a great idea! Our PTA sells spirit wear too but it's kinda lame to be honest. I think they'd have more luck if it had more of a boutique look.



Yup! Our Spirit wear is boxy cut shirts with not so great designs, that I just don't buy. I was making my own on items from Boutique Blanks....ruffle dresses, girly cut t-shirts, etc. I did sell some to other moms in the district, but I think I pissed off a few people since it wasn't a SCHOOL fundraiser, and I was making money on it Chat Icon



Then they should enlist you to help them with designing things for the actual fundraiser!
Chat Icon



Yep. It's a good way of getting involved in PTA without going to meetings.



Oh I'm involved in the PTA, I help out frequently at the school events. I don't go to meetings though since they are at night, and I don't typically have childcare, and am busy running my kids around most nights anyway!

Posted 10/5/17 7:07 PM
 
 

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