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So are you secretly hoping for....

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poasBFP
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EDD April 25th 2011

So are you secretly hoping for....

a boy or girl?

Of course I know all of us just want a healthy and happy baby. But I think deep down inside we are pulling for one or the other. Which is it for you?

Posted 7/15/10 8:10 PM
 
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MrsH2009
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

I will truly say I do not have a preference. My biggest thing is to decide if we are finding out the sex or not.

Posted 7/15/10 8:26 PM
 

ns1011
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Nic

Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

I used to always want a boy first. Then I switched to girl for some reason. Now I can honestly say that I don't care either way. I'm happy with whatever I get. If I HAD to choose these would be my reasons:

Chat Icon - I always wanted a son to be the oldest so that God forbid something happened to me or DH, we could rely our son to take care of the family. Also, my dad never had any sons so I think he would really enjoy a grandson.

Chat Icon - I LOVE to dress up little girls. Plus, DH's brother has 2 baby boys, so it would be nice to throw a little girl into the mix. And I know everything I want registry wise, if we have a girl. I'm on the fence with a lot of things for a boy.

Posted 7/15/10 8:26 PM
 

MrsDeVito
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

Deep down I want a Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/10 8:31 PM
 

Egg
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

i want a boy. girls scare me.

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Posted 7/15/10 8:36 PM
 

maybeababy2010
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

I would really love to have a girl! (but obviously, i would be thrilled with either)

Posted 7/15/10 9:04 PM
 

WannaBbabyMama
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

Either or doesnt matter.

Although I have had dreams of my future children and the girl was the oldest. Then, I went to a psychic and she told me she sees a girl first. Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/10 9:06 PM
 

Shelleybean11
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

I have a Chat Icon so I would love a Chat Icon but I'm so in love with my little Chat Icon that I'm thinking I would love another little Chat Icon SO, it truly doesn't matter to me. Though if we don't have a Chat Icon next, I will definitely go for #3 Chat Icon I like idea of Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I just want to get pregnant!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/10 9:17 PM
 

MrsFein09
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

I would love a Chat Icon but my heart always seem the tell me that my first will be a Chat Icon . Whenever I look at things on line that I would like to have the usually are more boyish. I know DH is really hoping for a Chat Icon . He is a sports nut and wants to share that with a son.

Posted 7/15/10 9:28 PM
 

MrsKR88
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

i want one of each but would prefer to have a Chat Icon first just because i have never really been around Chat Icon babies (my family is primarily made up of girls).

Posted 7/15/10 10:06 PM
 

hopingforbaby
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

I definitely want both but I really want a girl first. I have tons of brothers and it would be nice to even the score in the family a little bit! Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/10 10:18 PM
 

babyin2011
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wouldn't you like to know

Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

I already have a DD so now i'm hoping for a boy!

But obviously i'll take what I can get Chat Icon

Posted 7/15/10 10:20 PM
 

Kelly9904
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

Posted by Shelleybean11

I have a Chat Icon so I would love a Chat Icon but I'm so in love with my little Chat Icon that I'm thinking I would love another little Chat Icon SO, it truly doesn't matter to me.



Same, I literally can't decide some days I think having another boy would be such a great thing. Then other days I hope I have a girl, so really I will be happy either way because I am so indecisive!Chat Icon Chat Icon

ETA: my gut tells me I will have all boys, I always thought this well before I even conceived DS. So we will see #2 is it for us!

Message edited 7/15/2010 11:34:48 PM.

Posted 7/15/10 11:33 PM
 

wants2bamom
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

Of course a healthy Chat Icon or Chat Icon would make me really happy.....but secretly, I want a Chat Icon and then a Chat Icon would be ideal lol!!!

Posted 7/16/10 12:05 AM
 

InNYC23
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

Wishes for a healthy baby of either sex aside...in my early 20s I used to want a boy and was scared of girls, but now in my early 30s I'm more inclined to the challenge of rearing a strong (yet feminine) girl.

Posted 7/16/10 12:08 AM
 

LoLaBlue
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

deep down i would love a little Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/10 8:12 AM
 

WishingforBaby
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

If I could choose, I'd want a Chat Icon first....I'd want him to keep his little sisters in line! Chat Icon

Posted 7/16/10 8:35 AM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

I always said I wanted at least one of each BUT now that I have my Chat Icon I really want another Chat Icon !! I just love being a "girl" mommy and I think it would be so cute to have 2 little girls. My DH on the other hand would still really like a Chat Icon but would be more than happy if we had another little Chat Icon .

Posted 7/16/10 8:39 AM
 

Exarina
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

i lost a baby girl so i really would like to have one eventually...but b/c of my loss I just want a healthy baby girl or boy!

Posted 7/16/10 8:41 AM
 

curiousO
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

Posted by Egg

i want a boy. girls scare me.

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same hereChat Icon

Posted 7/16/10 9:23 AM
 

RGEC47
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Rosa

Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

Posted by curiousO

Posted by Egg

i want a boy. girls scare me.

Chat Icon



same hereChat Icon



Me 3. I know what women go through and what could happen to a woman. That I would not want to worry about it for my daughter. But ultimately, whatever God blesses us with we will be thrilled.

Posted 7/16/10 9:45 AM
 

HeatherRose
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

I want a boy and DH wants a girl. Either way though, I just want a healthy baby more then anything

Posted 7/16/10 9:54 AM
 

babyAin11
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Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

DH and I both would prefer a Chat Icon first, but ultimately we just hope for a healthy baby

Posted 7/16/10 10:01 AM
 

Bridex100
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Momx100

Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

I would like a girl for our second.

I was disappointed when I found out our first was a boy and now I love him more than anything in the whole wide world. It would be nice to have a girl for our second but now I think two boys sounds pretty good too.

Posted 7/16/10 10:03 AM
 

CloudNine
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Jackie

Re: So are you secretly hoping for....

i can never decide.
on one hand i want a girl because they are so much more fun to dress and do their hair and stuff. Plus DH has 2 boys already so a little sister for them would be nice

but then on the other hand i think boys are easier and less stressful so then i want to lean towards boys.

if we go on the basis of names...thena girl because DH and i have such a hard time agreeing on names but we have picked out a few girl names but have problems still with boy names

Posted 7/16/10 10:59 AM
 
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