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Hope409
LIF Infant
Member since 12/08 66 total posts
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frustrated? angry? i just dont know
so im on my third cycle off bcp, actively ttc since end of 2008.
i'm getting to the point, of not only being frustrated, but getting angry that i keep getting bfn.
how are you girls dealing with this? there is part of me, that just wants to give up testing, and temping, and tracking, and caring....and another part of me that is just so curious as to "what am i doing wrong"
Not only is this physically exhausting, i am mentally and emotionally a wreck!! why isnt it as easy as i imagined it would be?
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Posted 4/14/09 10:23 PM  |
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danielleandscott
My new 71 Super Beetle
Member since 5/05 13476 total posts
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Scott
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Re: frustrated? angry? i just dont know
This will be our 4th cycle of TTC and I feel the frustration and emotions already. Last month I started using the CBEFM and when I got my egg, I was sooo excited. But the actual having to BD on scheduled days is hard. We are both tired and sometimes just not in the mood.
I also love when people ask when we are having kids or what are we waiting for. If it was only that easy.
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| Posted 4/14/09 10:32 PM |
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mrsprop
LIF Adolescent
Member since 4/09 768 total posts
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Maureen
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Re: frustrated? angry? i just dont know
I'm in the same boat as you. It is very frustrating. I am an emotial wreck when I get AF. I just keep telling myself that it will happen.
Keep trying and hoping!
My aunt told me a good respoce to the "when are you two going to have kids" it is to just say "it's in our future"
good luck!
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| Posted 4/15/09 6:19 AM |
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jennarose023
Jack's gonna be a big brother!
Member since 11/08 7769 total posts
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Jenna
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Re: frustrated? angry? i just dont know
your body can take a few cycles to O after coming of BCP...give it time...it will happen...we got preg on our 3rd cycle after BCP so it will happen!!! I'm on the other hand waiting for AF so i can start getting back on track with TTC again 
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| Posted 4/15/09 6:55 AM |
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lululu
LIF Adult
Member since 7/05 9508 total posts
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Re: frustrated? angry? i just dont know
you aren't doing anything wrong! don't worry, it will happen. sometimes it just takes a little time. I got pregnant with my son the third month trying. i still have no clue why i didn't get pregnant the first or second time. This is our fourth month trying this time and still nothing. I am sure it will happen eventually although the thoughts are already creeping into my head as to what the problem is..... it's not a 100% thing that you will get pregnant each time you try so it takes a little bit of luck. hang in there!
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| Posted 4/15/09 8:09 AM |
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JennyPenny
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Member since 1/08 12702 total posts
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Jen
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Re: frustrated? angry? i just dont know
If you don't want to temp and everything, and you have pretty normal cycles, you can just BD everyday and that will cover you!
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| Posted 4/15/09 8:22 AM |
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