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What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

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Stefanie

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What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

What do you think ladies...Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/07 11:56 AM
 

2BEANS
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Depends how many years between 1st and 2nd.

Posted 10/20/07 11:57 AM
 

BellaRock
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

I guess it depends on the amount of years between each DC and the sex.

For example if you have a boy and this time it's a girl then I can see having a small sprinkle.Chat Icon



Message edited 10/20/2007 12:08:27 PM.

Posted 10/20/07 12:02 PM
 

MrsBumbleb
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by BabySammie

Depends how many years between 1st and 2nd.



I agree.

Posted 10/20/07 12:04 PM
 

Sp4747
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

My first was a boy and I just had a girl so my mom threw a sprinkle for me. I didnt think it was necessary but she invited just close family, cooked all the food and had it at my house. It was a nice afternoon get together. People bought gifts but nothing big like the first shower, just lots of clothes.

Posted 10/20/07 12:07 PM
 

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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

I think its a nice idea for close friends to do something for the mommy 2b (lunch, mani/pedi, gift, etc), but I don't like the idea of another party involving family and extended friends all over again.

eta: I do think every baby should be celebrated.

Message edited 10/20/2007 12:08:56 PM.

Posted 10/20/07 12:07 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by MrsBumbleb

Posted by BabySammie

Depends how many years between 1st and 2nd.



I agree.



I agree too...

Posted 10/20/07 12:07 PM
 

Kidsaplenty
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

I think its a cute idea, every baby should be celebrated.

Posted 10/20/07 12:11 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by -Lisa-

I think its a nice idea for close friends to do something for the mommy 2b (lunch, mani/pedi, gift, etc), but I don't like the idea of another party involving family and extended friends all over again.

eta: I do think every baby should be celebrated.



I agree

Posted 10/20/07 12:12 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by greeneyes361708

I think its a cute idea, every baby should be celebrated.

I absolutely agree...I never understood why it was so "taboo"

Posted 10/20/07 12:14 PM
 

dandr10199
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by KateDevine

Posted by MrsBumbleb

Posted by BabySammie

Depends how many years between 1st and 2nd.



I agree.



I agree too...




I agree. Also if they are close in age but different sexes, I can see having one.

Posted 10/20/07 12:15 PM
 

MelToddJulia
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by greeneyes361708

I think its a cute idea, every baby should be celebrated.




I agree, I'm not finding out the sex cause I didn't the first time, but I hope someone will have a sprinkle for me to celebrate this baby too!Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/07 12:20 PM
 

mommy0604
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by abutterfly1123

I guess it depends on the amount of years between each DC and the sex.

For example if you have a boy and this time it's a girl then I can see having a small sprinkle.Chat Icon







I agree...

Posted 10/20/07 12:20 PM
 

carolyns4cupcakes
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

It all depends on the situation.

How many years later is it?

I had 2 showers b/c my kids are 7 years apart.

Also, sometimes they sprinkle a girl b/c her first DC was a boy and 2 years later she' having a girl. And vise versa. A sprinkle is supposed to be very simple. No registry. Just a GTG to sprinkle the mommy to be with a few gifts.

I like the idea of a sprinkle.

Posted 10/20/07 12:55 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by BabySammie

Depends how many years between 1st and 2nd.



I agree.

Posted 10/20/07 1:10 PM
 

JTK
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

i had 3 showers.. not big with extended families but with people that wanted to celebrate the new baby and not feel pressured to just "buy a gift".. in my opinion those that were there would have gotten the baby a gift anyway, so why not?

Posted 10/20/07 1:12 PM
 

smdl
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by MrsBumbleb

Posted by BabySammie

Depends how many years between 1st and 2nd.



I agree.



I agree also.

Posted 10/20/07 1:28 PM
 

Tah-wee-ZAH
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by BabySammie

Depends how many years between 1st and 2nd.



ITA.

A friend of mine had her two girls 7 years apart. Even though she saved all of her baby gear a few big items were no longer up to the safety codes.

She did not have a full shower. It was only a handful of us that got together, all chipped in to get a gift card in a large amount, bought some other cute items and we went out to lunch.

We celebrated the baby w/o obligating family and friends to a full-blown second shower.

Posted 10/20/07 1:32 PM
 

Elizabeth
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

I dont agree with them unless there is a huge age gap. And I dont think just bc you dont have another sprinkle or shower, your baby is any less celebrated. I know that is common response to having one - that its about celebrating the baby - but what does that really have to do with it? You can still celebrate your baby without receiving gifts in advance. JMO

Posted 10/20/07 2:55 PM
 

SkyzTheLimit
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

I also think it depends on the amount of years between the children.

With my 2 kids there is about a 7 year difference and I had a shower. Plus my first was a boy and 2nd was a girl. So I guess it depends on the situation.

Posted 10/20/07 2:58 PM
 

MrsDiamondgrlie
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

I think its a cute idea especially if you are having the opposite sex of the first baby.

Posted 10/20/07 3:42 PM
 

MommyofG
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

its cute if you are having close friends and immediate family but when you have it at a hall/restaurant and invite 40+ women then I think its totally inappropiate!

Posted 10/20/07 3:53 PM
 

Tany
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

I don't think there is nothing wrong with it especially if the new baby is a different sex.

Posted 10/20/07 3:56 PM
 

jellybean78
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by stephanief

Posted by greeneyes361708

I think its a cute idea, every baby should be celebrated.

I absolutely agree...I never understood why it was so "taboo"




ITA. In my family every pregnancy gets a baby shower.

Posted 10/20/07 7:09 PM
 

LIMOMx2
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Re: What do you think about showers for the second time around (sprinkle)?

Posted by stephanief

Posted by greeneyes361708

I think its a cute idea, every baby should be celebrated.

I absolutely agree...I never understood why it was so "taboo"


ITA

Posted 10/20/07 7:25 PM
 
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